I’d be more concerned that a 31 yr old man was dating an 18 yr old who when she realized she was pregnant, chose single parenthood over support. There is something else going on.
I’m happy for you if your marriage is happy, however he made several bad choices 6 years ago, including unprotected sex with a barely adult. It was probably pretty flattering to think you’re attractive to such a young girl, but it was questionable judgment.
You and your husband may have to go the legal route to see if getting to know his child is even feasible right now. Just be prepared to also have to include support for his child.
This all depends on the state in most states 15-16 is when you can consent to have sex with someone most states allow the age difference to be 4 years.
It just seems hard to draw a line when it’s okay or not. Like if you were 18 and dating someone who was 16, there could be a 3 year age difference when you turn 19 depending on when your birthday lines up.
Dude, you are getting used that it almost physically hurts me to read that. You got baby trap by a woman 10 years your junior that you won't leave her until she found a man your age. Get a paternity test and if you are the father, file for divorce and try to get your kid. She is not a good person.
It’s rent is so high why don’t you go be single and live with whoever you want? Hell why one female friend, go live with five female friends in a communal house the price will be even cheaper.
This is beyong the scope of this topic, this is small town with little availability. Let's just say that this is one in ~5 years time opportunity.
I've never admitted to any sort of attraction , I'm having this under control,
Unless English is not your first language, that is exactly what you said in the second sentence of your post. You already admitted to us idk what you’re talking about.
I'm finding her attractive yet I denied to my gf about it for obvious reasons. I also never showed that I'm attracted in any way.
I am having this under control, why should I bother my gf with this.
Under control how? Slapping your dick when it gets too excited at the female friend? Masturbating beforehand? Praying to god? You should bother your gf with it because she’s the stupid woman who’s wasting her time on you so she needs to know wtf she’s getting into
WTF? Are you just a rapist type who goes for any human you find attractive? You can't control this?
Attraction is kinda automatic, she's just traditionally pretty, can'tt help it, given how long we know each other.
Yeah this is exactly what cheater say when their gf finds them fucking the female friend. ‘attraction is automatic, I can’t help it’ and other such stupid things. Your gf is smart to already doubt you.
I stated clearly that I'm not planning on doing anything, how tf out of control are you? Finding someone attractive doesn't automatically mean that I'll do anything with this, at least in normal world.
Go reads the post you’ve tagged at the top and read about how everyone is saying that the bf is right. I hope your gf finds some sense
Guys like this, remain like this. No matter how many special days come and go, he will continue to do nothing and your feelings will be hurt forever.
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I’d be more concerned that a 31 yr old man was dating an 18 yr old who when she realized she was pregnant, chose single parenthood over support. There is something else going on.
I’m happy for you if your marriage is happy, however he made several bad choices 6 years ago, including unprotected sex with a barely adult. It was probably pretty flattering to think you’re attractive to such a young girl, but it was questionable judgment.
You and your husband may have to go the legal route to see if getting to know his child is even feasible right now. Just be prepared to also have to include support for his child.
Really appreciate it
This all depends on the state in most states 15-16 is when you can consent to have sex with someone most states allow the age difference to be 4 years.
It just seems hard to draw a line when it’s okay or not. Like if you were 18 and dating someone who was 16, there could be a 3 year age difference when you turn 19 depending on when your birthday lines up.
Dude, you are getting used that it almost physically hurts me to read that. You got baby trap by a woman 10 years your junior that you won't leave her until she found a man your age. Get a paternity test and if you are the father, file for divorce and try to get your kid. She is not a good person.
It’s rent is so high why don’t you go be single and live with whoever you want? Hell why one female friend, go live with five female friends in a communal house the price will be even cheaper.
This is beyong the scope of this topic, this is small town with little availability. Let's just say that this is one in ~5 years time opportunity.
I've never admitted to any sort of attraction , I'm having this under control,
Unless English is not your first language, that is exactly what you said in the second sentence of your post. You already admitted to us idk what you’re talking about.
I'm finding her attractive yet I denied to my gf about it for obvious reasons. I also never showed that I'm attracted in any way.
I am having this under control, why should I bother my gf with this.
Under control how? Slapping your dick when it gets too excited at the female friend? Masturbating beforehand? Praying to god? You should bother your gf with it because she’s the stupid woman who’s wasting her time on you so she needs to know wtf she’s getting into
WTF? Are you just a rapist type who goes for any human you find attractive? You can't control this?
Attraction is kinda automatic, she's just traditionally pretty, can'tt help it, given how long we know each other.
Yeah this is exactly what cheater say when their gf finds them fucking the female friend. ‘attraction is automatic, I can’t help it’ and other such stupid things. Your gf is smart to already doubt you.
I stated clearly that I'm not planning on doing anything, how tf out of control are you? Finding someone attractive doesn't automatically mean that I'll do anything with this, at least in normal world.
Go reads the post you’ve tagged at the top and read about how everyone is saying that the bf is right. I hope your gf finds some sense
That's not what I'm asking.
What do you think you could bring to the union that three previous wives couldn't/didn't?
Leave. It's over.