Honestly, I had an abortion without telling my partner at the time, and he was shocked and relieved that I had the courage to make the decision/endure the procedure alone. I sent him an invoice which he was happy to pay. Eight years later, neither of us have kids, nor do we want them. It was a life saving decision.
I have a question, was there a breaking point when the sex went from regular to almost none? For example after you moved in together? Or did she have a major change suddenly where affection just dropped? If you can pinpoint when it happened it might be easier to get to the bottom of it.
Are you the main provider? You said you have everything, was it you, her or both that provided the means? If the answer is you, she might be a gold digger.
Did she suddenly go cold and started hiding things from you, especially her phone or start going out more with friends etc? The red flags of cheating.
If she suddenly changed after moving in it might be she thought she was safe and comfortable enough in the relationship to not have to have sex and she's not really into having sex and just wanted to get you on the hook.
Is your distrust of her only based on how she looks at you when you initiate sex or are there other things?
it doesn't seem like that's the part he's upset about though
Honestly, I had an abortion without telling my partner at the time, and he was shocked and relieved that I had the courage to make the decision/endure the procedure alone. I sent him an invoice which he was happy to pay. Eight years later, neither of us have kids, nor do we want them. It was a life saving decision.
I have a question, was there a breaking point when the sex went from regular to almost none? For example after you moved in together? Or did she have a major change suddenly where affection just dropped? If you can pinpoint when it happened it might be easier to get to the bottom of it.
Are you the main provider? You said you have everything, was it you, her or both that provided the means? If the answer is you, she might be a gold digger.
Did she suddenly go cold and started hiding things from you, especially her phone or start going out more with friends etc? The red flags of cheating.
If she suddenly changed after moving in it might be she thought she was safe and comfortable enough in the relationship to not have to have sex and she's not really into having sex and just wanted to get you on the hook.
Is your distrust of her only based on how she looks at you when you initiate sex or are there other things?
Are you laughing at your own post?
You dont fly across the country for a FWB whom you don't have a history with, dude
If he respected you & cared about you he would pay you back. Before my fiancé and I were engaged I had loaned him like 2500-3000 but he knew even though it was money I had in savings that I needed it back eventually. He respected me enough to have it paid back when his taxes hit & the rest a month or so later. I gave him time bc I trusted him & empathized with him, he paid me back fully because he respects and loves me.