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Daniel, this strong abandonment fear — as well as her abusive behaviors — may be due to her having very weak control over her own emotions (i.e., a lack of emotional skills she had no opportunity to acquire in childhood). My exW has this problem. If that is an issue for your exGF, you likely have been seeing 3 other warning signs. First, you would be seeing her rely heavily on black-white thinking, wherein she tends to categorize some people as “all good” (“with me”) or “all bad” (“against me”) and will recategorize them — in just a few seconds — from one polar extreme to the other based on a minor infraction. Because she also uses B-W thinking in judging HERSELF, she would rarely acknowledge making a mistake or having a flaw. Doing so would imply, in her mind, she is “all bad.” She thus would blame nearly all misfortunes and mistakes on you and view herself as “The Victim.” Further, to validate her “victim” status, she would keep a detailed mental list of every infraction/mistake you ever did (real or imagined) and would not hesitate to pull out the entire list to defend herself in the smallest, most insignificant disagreement with you. Moreover, this B-W thinking also would be evident in her frequent use of all-or-nothing expressions like “you ALWAYS…” and “you NEVER….” Second, you would not see her expressing her anger to casual friends, classmates, or total strangers. She usually gets along fine with them. Rather, her anger almost exclusively would be expressed against a close loved one (e.g., against you, a sibling, or her parents). Third, you were convinced she truly loved you. But you often saw her flipping, on a dime, between Jekyll (loving you) and Hyde (devaluing you), frequently making you feel like you were “walking on eggshells.” Such flips would occur in a few seconds in response to some minor thing you say or do.
Daniel, were you seeing strong occurrences of these 3 red flags?
Sorry to hear this, I am on the same boat and I had to leave my GF also because of her “political views”.
But before breaking up talk to him, comunication is important, maybe he found himself being lonely and ended up in political circle jerk or he discovered /pol/. And maybe all he needs is someone to talk to about himself and his problems of insecurity.
It's always shit having to leave someone you love, but if even after talking you find that it's no longer worth the compromise then leave. Being single is better than being with someone you don't respect anymore.
He’s trying to make you look less appealing/seem whiny and not fun to hang out with for reasons only known to him. Maybe there’s someone in the group that he likes yet they are more interested in you than him. maybe he’s just a dick who wants to control who gets to be in the group. Maybe he’s jot quite realised that he’s not in the high-school playground
He is just showing now his true colors. It happens a lot after getting married or getting pregnant. That is not going to change. Stand your ground.
Based on his reaction to you getting cold feet, if you hadn't agreed to it in the first place he was still going to go look for other people to sleep with, he was just hoping he could get you to sign off on it first.