No it’s not, that’s so dramatic. And saying you look older is different than the age old “wow you’re so mature for your age.” If anything, most women (even those of us in our 20s) prefer to look younger than our age than older, so it’s not exactly a compliment either
You should have used the 2 hours you were home to change the lock of your doors. Then say “It was a joke. The second part of the joke is coming in an office sized envelope with some papers you need to sign.”
Since you currently live together your best bet is to just try to ignore or bury those feelings and focus on yourself.
Diet & gym should be your #1 focus. Obesity is unhealthy and unattractive (in general, everyone is different; I've been overweight my whole life so I'm not being judgy, just real), but largely manageable with discipline and time. There are also other factors being overweight can play into: your lack of self esteem/confidence, energy and endurance levels, hormones, etc.
Your hobbies and interests should be focus #2. Keep yourself busy with fun or things that contribute to a better future you.
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No it’s not, that’s so dramatic. And saying you look older is different than the age old “wow you’re so mature for your age.” If anything, most women (even those of us in our 20s) prefer to look younger than our age than older, so it’s not exactly a compliment either
You should have used the 2 hours you were home to change the lock of your doors. Then say “It was a joke. The second part of the joke is coming in an office sized envelope with some papers you need to sign.”
Yes, except on Tuesdays.
I understand your perspective. OP gets to have his own, regardless of votes.
You probably need to talk to a Therapist.
Not sure I’m following. Isn’t it more like he’s trying to turn me into to her or make me like her because that’s what he misses?
Me too. Wash my hair every second day also.
Since you currently live together your best bet is to just try to ignore or bury those feelings and focus on yourself.
Diet & gym should be your #1 focus. Obesity is unhealthy and unattractive (in general, everyone is different; I've been overweight my whole life so I'm not being judgy, just real), but largely manageable with discipline and time. There are also other factors being overweight can play into: your lack of self esteem/confidence, energy and endurance levels, hormones, etc.
Your hobbies and interests should be focus #2. Keep yourself busy with fun or things that contribute to a better future you.