If karma is going to get him then it’s going to get you too. You have no respect for peoples relationships. You should tell his wife and cut him off and go to therapy. The fact you aren’t worried about telling his wife or feel bad about it says a lot. Can’t wait for you to be the “naive wife”
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I worded this very wrong and I apologize. I never try to force her to do anything I promise that. When I sleep over at her place and we start making out and start to get intimate she pulls away and says she’s tired or something of that matter. I don’t know how to explain it without it coming off very badly
Yeah I just noticed that, grooming may have been a part of their relationship. I’m starting to wonder how they meet, like was she his teacher? This may have been toxic from the start. It might be best to end it and get some therapy to figure out life going forward
Either this, or she simply doesn't really know what it means “to get off”.
If possible try to get some couple sex therapy. Don't get your knowledge from porn, but do look into sex education. There are different ways for women to get “big enough” and “wet enough”, that's important when you want kids, and there are lots of ways to get to know each other, and to satisfy each other without actual vaginal penetration.
If karma is going to get him then it’s going to get you too. You have no respect for peoples relationships. You should tell his wife and cut him off and go to therapy. The fact you aren’t worried about telling his wife or feel bad about it says a lot. Can’t wait for you to be the “naive wife”
Try Planned Parenthood. They will work around your finances, they also provide prenatal care if you want to do this.
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I worded this very wrong and I apologize. I never try to force her to do anything I promise that. When I sleep over at her place and we start making out and start to get intimate she pulls away and says she’s tired or something of that matter. I don’t know how to explain it without it coming off very badly
Yeah I just noticed that, grooming may have been a part of their relationship. I’m starting to wonder how they meet, like was she his teacher? This may have been toxic from the start. It might be best to end it and get some therapy to figure out life going forward
Use your sister like a wingman, ask to hangout or something first. I'd suggest easing into it overall though.
Doesn't matter. You're happy now.
Damn…
Don't check her phone, leave. You don't trust her and with good reason.
Either this, or she simply doesn't really know what it means “to get off”.
If possible try to get some couple sex therapy. Don't get your knowledge from porn, but do look into sex education. There are different ways for women to get “big enough” and “wet enough”, that's important when you want kids, and there are lots of ways to get to know each other, and to satisfy each other without actual vaginal penetration.