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Divorce is a good option.
Clarify that you accept if the answer is no, but it’s important in adult relationships to be about to talk about adult topics. You’ve been together for 2 months and she won’t even discuss it? Sounds like she’s not ready for a relationship.
Honestly you aren't going to get much useful advice here.
The fact you didnt mention hes a house husband in the original post means most people have preconceived notions about your relationship that will shape their responses.
Most of what they base their advice off wil not have come from your own post.
Talk to him and ask him what he meant by that. Dont sound accusatory. Just simply state you have been having some issues thinking about what he said, and that you would like to nip this in the bud before it festers and ruins the relationship.
Get couples counselling aslong as he nor you are actually abusive.
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you’re the cheating type.
You are pathetic.
There is a lot to unpack here. Scenario 1: Your ex contacted one or more family members with a pack of lies about why you broke up. And NONE of them believed your side of the story. Scenario 2: Your ex contacted one or more family members with a mostly truthful account of why you broke up, and they asked “how COULD you!” Etc. Etc. If scenario 1 is true, then the question of WHY they immediately took the exes side, becomes the central question in this whole drama. If scenario 2 is true…well then, maybe they have the right of it. It also sounds like your father doesn't trust you with the money he is sending, for whatever reason. And now he's not talking to you. Sounds like a whole lot of people are pissed at you. Seems like you would have at least one ally in your family if everything you have done is above board. SO…I am sensing that there is another side to this story. But if not, if your family is TRULY that horrible, then just go NC with them and get on with your life. Take time to heal and find a better support system. It sounds like your Dad will hold up his end of the agreement whether he is on your side or not, that's my read on the tuition situation. I can't speak to the rest of the family dynamic…not enough info here and I would need to hear their side anyway.
Best of luck!
Yep…that's the truth, OP. If you like your nose the way it is and
don't want it outta joint….don't stick it where it don't belong.
Doing what you have in mind would take a Shit-ton of negotiation and
boundary setting. Time is your friend. Pace yourself.
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Late to the party but when my ex had this issue i got a two pack of tongue scrapers and “shared” with him. His breath was fine after that!
My dad once drove my mom 2 hours to stake out Patrick Dempsey at a charity event, which I thought was taking it a little far but hey, as long as it works for ya.
I get that argument but it happened when she was out with a bunch of people she didn’t know, at a company party, confirmed by the time of the text
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I have a machete lol
Yeah I'm pretty sure this is just a troll.
Why did they ban your gf?
Cut both of them off. They were definitely talking behind your back long before you found out. How else would they have developed feelings after only meeting a few times. They're both beneath you. Find better friends and move on
Ehhh I feel like this is a little too precious a comment, especially given that OP has clearly stated that the alternatives described are not satisfactory. It would be unreasonable of her to LITERALLY kick him out, like actually prevent him from physically being there, but trying to find a compromise w her partner so that a need of hers can be met is a perfectly fair way to go about this
Maybe you have some hormonal problems. That could explain the weight gain as well. Go see a doctor. Not every problem is in your head. 🙂
As well intentioned as your wife is being here, it will come back to bite you both in the ass if you pursue this. I imagine she's trying to be selfless here and give you want she thinks you want. There's 12 years of committed relationship on the line, is fucking her 5/6 friend going to help that relationship or hurt it? Would it even be worth the risk?
It sounds like you have a good wife who's thinking about you and your needs, maybe communicate that it's not something you want nor need right now (If that's how you feel).
Dude, fantasy and reality don't always mix. How the fuck does this still need to be said?
Well, there are a few things to unpack here…
It's not unheard of to be invited over for dinner by a boss. In some company cultures, it's just a way to hobknob, play the political game, and climb the ladder. So, the invite, in and of itself, isn't out of the ordinary. This does take into account, however, that you are married, the boss is married, and the dinner includes your spouse. Going to dinner at a single bosses house when you're single isn't a normal thing.
Where this goes off the rails is…
“and that I was cute and look great etc.”
This is inappropriate.
“was it nice seeing me today in the office? How does next week sounds?”
This is creepy.
– How do I make that clear that I'm only interested in job/friend interaction?
First, is this company large enough to have an HR department? If so, keep that in the back of your mind. You may need to use it.
Second, you politely decline any suggestion to meet anywhere other than his office.
Third, do NOT delete texts. IF you need to make a complaint at HR, they are evidence. Even if you make the complaint, do not delete. IF you somehow get fired and you believe it's retribution and not a valid work-related reason, and think a lawsuit is valid, your lawyer will want them.
Fourth, If the texts continue to be inappropriate and creepy, you simply reply that his texts/behavior is inappropriate. That's it.
Fifth, if they still continue, you may need to make a complaint with HR if you have one. If you don't have an HR department, find out who that person's boss is, contact them/their secretary, and set up an appointment where you can go in to their office, present the texts, and voice your concerns over the behavior.
If the dude is just your wife's play toy then he shouldn't be around your children at all. You dug a bad hole.
Is your bf single?. I’m a guy tho
Thank you I've debated talking to him. We're going out tommorow for lunch I think I might speek to him about it then
And if I’m not doing enough- please let me know. I want to be supportive. But I’m tight on cash with my grad school, work, and $500 in therapy for them. If I need to do something else, PLEASE tell me. I just feel like they’re being a spoiled brat for not getting their way 100% of the time and it all comes back to “being trans”
Something here is not adding up and I can’t really put my finger on it. I’d say, at the very least, that couples’ counseling would be helpful for both of you, because you aren’t communicating well.
Oh yeah – I thought this seemed familiar.
Her friend gave her money for HER wedding because of the ‘university pact’ they made, but she said it ‘doesn’t count’ because the marriage lasted 5 minutes, right!
She’s mad that the friend expects the quid pro quo she offered back then, though!
Mind you – if she doesn’t have it, she doesn’t have it. If that’s the truth, then there’s no amount of expectations from the friend that can change that.
I remember suggesting that the OP offer other kinds of help, though. Logistical help… I’m probably not only one who suggested that, though, so that’s why the OP mentioned that bit about ‘offering to be a taste tester!’
Yeah, that’s very helpful indeed! ??
“…every person in my life is always happy to listen to me sing.”
Yeah so you expect everyone you meet to enjoy it as well?? Lol
Sound like the gamer guys that want their gf to see and listen to every accomplishment in a game every time they play ?
The dog can not be safe around kittens. One or the other had to go. Would she have preferred getting rid of the dog?
If she can't understand why the animals together is not feasible, and considers this to be a breaking point, maybe it is. 8'd hate to see what happens when tbe dog hurts a kid instead.
Good one. She’s definitely really upset.
Embarrassing for you. It’s so cringe men think ‘you have a catttt’ is some kind of slam dunk.
20-27 isn’t that weird. 18-27, yes. But 20-27 would put them at the same maturity level, tbh. Most 20yo men are deeply stupid and immature.
Thank you for not judging me and actually trying to help. I know you are right and I will try to apply your advice. I am sorry you’re experiencing a loss of spark in your relationship also. How are you dealing with it ?
Its so clear your husband loves her and the only reason they are not together now is because of you and her being lesbian. I suggest you reconsider this marriage. Your husband dont love you anymore and just going through the motion of being married with you.
Is him coming with and/or dancing with you not an option? I assume either it’s a your friends only thing or he doesn’t want to go.
Lol
Your boyfriend didn't tell you at first because he probably needed time to figure out how to process his feelings about it.
The fact that you're still friends with this person is absolutely ridiculous, regardless of how long you've known him. He literally just showed you how little he respects or cares for you. If he truly had any respect for you as a person, he would have known a boundary like that existed in the first place. You allowed him to walk all over you and continued to be his friend.
You also just showed your boyfriend it was more important to remain friends with someone who had no problem completely disrespecting you and your relationship in this way, and essentially showed your boyfriend he was less important than this person who, again, doesn't actually respect or care about you.
Stop being friends with this person. They are not your friend.
This might just be a deal breaker for me. He thought that was FUNNY. he didn't even have a job officially lined up. He is very immature and reckless. Good thing you don't have kids, because he would have put them in a bad position also. I would consider divorce, and I don't like to automatically go to that. If he's so comfortable doing something like this, he's comfortable doing things like this again.
I think you two are just very different rn.
He's surely being rude to you because he disagrees with all you do, but also he seemed surprised by your daughter getting a psychologist. Believe me, nothing against that, but it seems to me, judging by your story, you didn't mind talking to him first, listening to what he had to say about that.
Ofc she's your daughter, you can decide what's best for her, but it feels a little like you knew he wouldn't agree and would be rude about your idea, and due to that, you decided to just go ahead without discussing with him.
If that's the case, your relationship is done already. No opening for communication. It'll lead to you deciding things without him and him feeling ignored.
Another issue I see is that, even if he put his opinions and views in a respectful and proper way, would you ever agree with him, or at least meet in the middle? If the answer is yes, then, you should tell him that the way he express his emotions/thinking should improve so he can be heard and you two can lose a bit to meet in the middle.
Now, if the answer is no, then he feeling ignored is actually true and you might need to learn how to give in.
About the biological father: he's got a point imo (but totally disaprove the way he said it all and being rude in front of your child). If the father is disrespectful towards you and you are taking it way too lightly because you're afraid of your child/father's relationship, well… that's wrong.
A lot of people willing to willfully misinterpret something is not evidence of anything. And downvotes aren’t actually real, you understand that, right? They aren’t currency you can use to by love if you can just get enough of them.
Like you said, it starts with the conversation, I think. I’m willing to give it a shot, but if it feels like im giving up too much for half measures, hmm. Thanks again 🙂
Talk to your doctor or pharmacist about what you can expect when you try the medication. Ask questions like how long will it be for it to take effect, and can you stop abruptly if you don't like it, or do you need to taper off, etc. You don't have to jump straight into treating all four things at once. Try to decide which one is having the most significant impact on your life, and start by treating that one. It can take time to find the right medication, but it can help a lot. I was diagnosed with ADHD in my late 20s, and the best comparison I can give as an example is that taking meds is sort of like wearing glasses. Without my glasses, I can see well enough to do basic tasks, but complex things like driving are unsafe/difficult. Without ADHD meds, I can usually manage to maintain my basic needs, but I struggled a lot in school and at work. With meds, it's like changing the difficulty setting on a video game from hard to medium. There are still challenges, but they're a lot more manageable. If you're concerned specifically about controlled medications like Ritalin or Adderall, talk to your doctor about the non-stimulant options. I hope you're able to find a solution that works for you. ?
lol. Hell cgeat again
It’s actually a much different proposition than asking a woman for a paternity test because it requires the secret children to have had a DNA test done. Unless there were to be a mandatory DNA database of all children born (which is a terrible idea for obvious reasons), the likelihood of a man getting caught out by this approach is minuscule, so of course plenty of untrustworthy people would claim to be okay with it.
Thanks ?
I’m honestly surprised your friend hasn’t commented on it if he’s just acting this way to you. I would bring this up to her, maybe something along the lines of “I noticed this behavior, I don’t see him act this way to other friends, I’m wondering if I may have done something to offend him” or something (I’m not saying you did anything wrong at all, people just generally are more receptive when you kind of turn things on yourself)
For gods sake choose the dress and show this guy the exit
You’re probably not her only “boyfriend”. She’s not monogamous and you’re too young for her to be interested in being exclusive with you.
She’s telling you what she likes. Listen to her.
If you’re happy being her toyboy then stay and have the sex. If you want a real meaningful relationship, find someone your own age who will treat you properly.
Your gut is trying to tell you something.
While there's not necessarily anything wrong with whatever he's up to, if you don't like the vibe you don't like the vibe.
It's OK to not gell with someone, no matter how nice they might otherwise be.
What do mean when you say “I'm not sure if this would get better with time” about the sex stuff. If you're not into it, that's FINE. You don't have to be into it. He seems to be, and that's also fine … but it's not very compatible with you, is it?
It sounds like he's hinting around about his kinks. Nothing wrong with having kinks. There's also nothing wrong with NOT having kinks. Again, it's a compatibility issue.
You're only 26. There's no need to compromise on what you like, or ignore your gut instinct, you've got plenty of time to meet someone more compatible.
So don't live there. Make a new plan.
Really, that's it.
Can and always is.
I know a lot of people say just leave and tbh that's fair advice, but if you're keen on staying, or at least want to try to salvage this, bring up a prenup and see how he reacts.