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He’s going to tell her you some sort of evil bitch, and paint or horrible picture of how you can’t be trusted and what a terrible person you are. He’ll put doubt in her mind that you are a lying, moralless bitch. You have maybe today and tomorrow only to tell her, or what he makes you seem like will make it so she doesn’t believe you. Like if he says you want him back and he doesn’t want you back so you’ll lie to her to “ruin” their relationship, and he only wants her, blah blah. Is someone who cheats on his girlfriend someone you really want as your “best friend”? Best friends are our maid of honors. If you marry a guy and have kids, would you want this dude in your life and at those events as your best friend? Someone who does this to someone else. I wouldn’t.
Honey, he has commitment issues. He won't live with you, he won't marry you, and you're still considering this?
You deserve better.
What a piece of garbage
Your Christmas present to him should be a gift card to a tailor for three pairs of pants.
You are most certainly not to blame for HER cheating. Its one her and her only. Shes gaslighting and blame shifting.
She fully expects you to forgive her. But hers the thing…theres a good reason the phrase once a cheater always a cheater and in her case its literal.
She created the “you” her coworkers described in such eloquent terms. She made you out to be a monster, that way when they gave their opinions of you their views matched hers (gee wonder why) and she gave herself an excuse to cheat because they all saw how “bad” as person you were.
Dude, run the fuck away. She needs IC or she will never be a safe partner for you or anyone else. She needs help, you need someone else.
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Maybe your mom can see someone who can equip her with the tools to help him see the light. I did this earlier this year with my own partner. Saw an NLP practitioner.
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So he went to a woman’s perspective for advice. He’s 33 a grown adult and his mother is probably way older. She’s giving him advice as a woman not as his mom but tbh you’re the one making this weird/oddly sexual?
Hello, I have Bipolar 1 Disorder and have struggled with hypersexuality that contributed to (but not caused) me straying from my marriage.
My perspective is that it's all a bunch of bullshit. Full stop. And that's coming from someone who's been there.
Yes, hypersexuality is a real thing. You feel like your genitals are powered by jet fuel and you can't possibly just turn it off; you have to wait until you eventually run out of gas. This hypersexuality combined with the increased self confidence, reduced inhibitions, and poor impulse control can absolutely contribute to poor decision making that can hurt our loved ones, because it's easier (in our minds, and this thought process is not based in reality) to justify those choices in the heat of the moment.
But none of this justifies following through with that toxic cocktail of events. I'll admit, I tried to justify my actions to my husband for a long time in the same way that your husband is trying to justify them to you now. That's how I know it's all a farce. Hypersexuality be damned. I hurt my husband because I made the choice to ride the wave when I should have been made the choice to stay in the sand. And taking ownership of our choices is the first major step in facilitating healing.
The second major step is to develop a game plan to break the cycle to insure that these choices aren't made again. This is extremely important because of how easy it is to want to make these choices a subsequent time. When the brain spirals into mania or hypomania, the neural pathways for these events are reinforced. It becomes the path of least resistance over time. That's why people say that untreated bipolar gets worse over time. The brain will (in the absence of the game plan) pick this path over and over again.
What does a good game plan look like? Individual results do vary but generally a combination of medication management and therapy is the gold standard. Proper medication can help take the edge off of hypomania and mania. Therapy can help process triggers and work through the storm, so to speak. I may also recommend couple's therapy for the both of you as well, if you two reach an impasse in your collective healing journey.
As for my own journey, I do still experience hypersexuality from time to time; often it is the first symptom I develop when I become hypomanic and it's the last one to leave. But the meds do help with that “powered by a motor” feeling, so the physical craving is not as strong as it used to be but it is still present. But now, instead of seeking validation from the company of others, I do things like take saucy selfies for him, or jump his bones with an increased frequency. (I do still need to be careful as to not unintentionally injure myself. Not even carpet burn is compelling enough to stop in the heat of the moment.) Therapy has helped me a great deal to. It gives me the space to mull through the problematic thoughts that contributed to me making those decisions, so that I don't make them again. Some of these thoughts include feeling like I settled down too soon, or feeling like I'm unhappy with my husband for not paying attention to me so I'll give my attention to someone else who may appreciate it more. Now I can see that those above thoughts are not true even in the heat of the hypomania and even if they were, it isn't an excuse to do hurtful things.
I have hope that your husband can get better, but he has to take the lead and do better to be better. I can't speculate on the state of your relationship too much though. Only you can decide if these events are a deal breaker, and you would be well within your right if you did. But I can absolutely guarantee that this is not a problem that will get better on its own. Your husband has to fully take ownership of his shitty and entitled mentality, make proper amends with you, and show you with his actions that he is sorry by developing and sticking to a conscious and intentional plan to do the right thing even when his judgment is clouded.
Good luck to you both.
He deleted his response, but the discussing and “pressuring” were just checking if he was aiming for marriage at some point or just strictly dating. There was no push to get married.
If you’re unwinding with a drink that’s fine. If you religiously need to have a drink as soon you get home due to stress just bare in mind those are early signs of a codependency with alcohol. I had a weird relationship with alcohol between 21-22 and mellowed out at 23. I’m 27 now and barely drink for beauty reasons mostly. Just be careful and maybe take up meditation or exercise to de-stress.
In context, it seems like she did exactly what you discussed.
At the end of the day, you need to be able to communicate with your partner. You’re two years in. Results shouldn’t be about “briefly discussed” or worrying about how to be honest about what you like. You need to be honest.
I’d let this year go. But going forward, you need to be direct. Either a straight “I want X,” or “let’s give each other gifts that have meaning” or something along those lines. Clarify it together.
Don’t need a full on confrontation- doesn’t sound like you owe her anything. Just be unavailable when she asks to hang out or talk with anyone else when you meet at a party , a gathering etc. If she asks why, be honest and say you don’t want her as a friend. Full stop. No need to be dramatic.
I love traveling and it’s a huge part of my life. I can’t imagine having a partner who didn’t share that love. It’s not just about a vacation to Hawaii, it’s about priorities, goals, a way of life…. My husband and I prioritize travel to the point that we budget and plan accordingly together. Travel wins out over a bigger house….travel wins out over renovation projects….for a long time travel won out over buying a house because where we lived at the time it would have meant we couldn’t afford to do both. Do you really want to live a life with someone where you don’t share something that is important to you? And more importantly live a life with someone who blatantly states, if not words but with actions, I know this is something you love and want to share with me but I’m just not interested.
“what kind of human being would i be if i didn’t figure it out on my own.”
He's telling you what he thinks of people who seek therapy here. Don't ignore these red flags.
People who do nothing to deal with their issues are not worth your time. They drag everyone down with them. Learn this now while you're young.
The small things add up.
And you're 4 years together, give him a swift kick in the butt to smarten up.
These little things tend to be the things that causes relationships to move backwards rather than forwards. You two are suppose to fall deeper in love, not out of it.
If you expect more out of your reletionship, that is your right to demand so.
Best of luck, hopefully he realizes his mistakes.
Don't date coworkers.
First of all, you did nothing wrong. It's not on you to chaperone adults. I'd tell J to find another place to live. Then I'd tell the fiancé what J told you and give him a chance to confess or deny it.
He’s not, I know how much he gets payed. 24k… No he pats £50 for rent. He lied to me saying he pays £200 when his mum told me that’s not true.
And that amount is after tax…
bro he called the house owner in ANOTHER COUNTRY just because he didn’t want to give op his phone. that’s straight up ridiculous. he’s up to something
That is something you need to deal with yourself…it probably has nothing to do with your boyfriend but more with unhappiness within.
My husband had an issue similar for years, turns out he's gluten intolerant. Now he doesn't eat gluten and doesn't stink up the house.
This might be the funniest things I’ve seen on Reddit in a while. Not laughing at the OP’s situation though
It sounds like he's burned out. He would definitely benefit from emotion control classes or therapy.
im so proud of you! this has to be hard! take an deep breath, you got this!
You should literally just move on and accept that no wrongdoing took place. The friend isn’t an active part of your life, so just move on.
Then you know what to do. Good for you, it will happen.
Have you heard about these things they just came out with, they are called plates and you put your food on them so you don't have to eat off of the tray.
Also, a small cup for each of you to have your own ketchup might help.
Good lord, you're both in your 30s???? From the post content I had assumed you were somewhere between 15 and 20.
Should see her others posts. She's being mean to her friend for being depressed.
I've said the same to an ex partner
Difference was they were 100% responsible for all groceries and cooking (at their insistence)
That meant when chicken was left out, only they knew when it was bought, to use by etc.
If you both cook then both of you need to shout at yourselves
When I said the same, it was because I was paying for it all and watching about 1/4 of it go in the bin week after week through not watching dates, or eating when you had to once out the freezer
Don't sound like this is the case here unless you are leaving bits out, so your bf is being an asshole, just as I was (justifiably)
Does he believe you are solely responsible for monitoring food for the household, as this is the stance he has taken?
Look, this relationship clearly has zero trust. It was over the second you went through her phone. Just break up.
What is your dating history like, OP? Do you find yourself only staying attracted to men who are wishy washy, noncommittal, treat you poorly, or go cold on you after you have become intimate with them or ask for more from them?
Belieeeeeeve….
Thank you for your help
The thing is, I don't know if she would react well if i suggested taking another med. I do not think she would see it as worth it.
Plus, the fact that I know that she can have enough drive to have sex with herself ( I don't know at which frequency but still) and not with me, is killing my self esteem you know. I feel unwanted.
I don't know what to do. I'm in love with her, I do not want to leave her ''just because of sex'' you know ?
He has a lot of his own issues, and no they won’t stop if you live together because that’s delusional thinking. If you aren’t okay with him being with other women then say so, but he has the tell tale signs of either a nympho or a full blown sex addict and it’s highly likely he’ll try to manipulate you to not only move in, tolerate his behavior and or gaslight you into being the bad guy when you ask him to stop.
Its just really sad. I can't imagine how hard it would be to leave your home with your mom and move into a house that you only were at 4 days a month before. Then add in the fact that your step mom doesn't like you and your dad doesn't care enough to stand up for you is just terrible.
Poor girl.
Considering how OP keeps trying to justify and excuse his actions and behavior, I'm genuinely worried that this may be a similar situation. If he's doing things with freshly legal or not quite legal girls online knowing she'll find out about it, imagine what stuff this guy is doing more discreetly?
When I'm bored I watch baseball…is there some baseball Tinder team I missed?
Yikes on bikes
He has a half brother who lives in the area, but the rest of his family live in other states.