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Date: October 14, 2022
He said when we broke up I didn’t do anything wrong. And that he has issues and needs therapy. I hope that’s the case. He said I was always lovely to him. I know I was good to him, I cooked his fave foods, supported him, I really cared without being overbearing, whilst being independent, I had to be as he never took me on a date or anything. I thought that was because he had just moved to London from the USA to start a new life, he was very broke so I was patient with him
it’s not great, but it’s good enough for me.
Why don't we start here? You're in a relationship that's not great (your words). Why are you accepting that? You deserve to be in a great relationship!
So moving on. To recap the latest incident: * He broke two tvs by punching them * He then blamed you for losing his temper?
Next time it will be your face or your ribs that he punches. It's only going to get worse.
because he’s a good man overall.
Nope. Good men don't resort to violence.
You're 23. Is this really the life you want for yourself?
Great anolgy! and thank you for you reply I did not know about the sleeping together thing, that is goood to know.
What?
How am I antagonizing you? We're having a back and forth conversation. Life isn't that black and white where every response is break up or not. My last reply was just in general which you did understand so I don't know why you're still stuck on OP's life.
I think it's funny how you won't admit you've been in OP' s shoes at least once and refuse to see where she's coming from. Maybe you think that's antagonistic? I mean you are human but you want to play it like you've never had normal relationship issues.
He expressly told her he was keeping his options open to move on from her, that should’ve been the end of the relationship right there.
I don’t honk drinking makes it forgiveable. If she’s had any form of self awareness, she’d know that her and drink, do not mix. Much less so in a “happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas” type situation.
You’re not the brightest bulb are you mate. Well you’ve truly messed up things now get the divorce papers ready ?
I was on birth control, i asked him to use condoms when we first started doing things as well which he did for a couple days but he stopped. I have a hard time speaking up for myself and while i didn’t really like that we stopped using them i didn’t speak up like i should’ve.
I can easily be online and miss a text or just not want to reply. I’ll leave partners not replied to for an hour or two while I do other things and they do the same. My boyfriend will see a meme I sent him and react to it hours later when he isn’t doing something else. I don’t expect people to respond quickly just because they are online. There’s being online passively and actively, there’s also being busy while online. My Facebook probably says I’m online all the time, but I could be working, researching something, or my computer is on and I’m not actually there.
In determining if you should keep texting it’s more in how the conversation goes and if they actually want to keep talking. Some people aren’t very engaged through text or chat and prefer or do better with in person communication.
They can help her if they feel so strongly about it. Their moralizing is really easy from the cheap seats
Who thought having a child at 21 y/o when you've known each other for a year and she has no job (?) was a good idea??
honestly sounds like he could be seeing someone else in private, have you looked into this? it’s a possibility to consider as the evidence provided is too damning.
No. It’s not normal to someone who loves you to speak down to you and be hyper critical. You shouldn’t have to ask him to say you’re pretty. Adults ask for what they want and you are doing that. He’s calling you names. That is never okay. This 30 year is man chose you because a 30 year old woman wouldn’t tolerate this for a second. Not a smart and capable woman. Run. Far and fast. He’s not a nice man.
Thank you.
I’ve never had a “normal” relationship before. Of them all, this one seems the most normal. Am I asking for too much? I feel really needy. Do things really die down like this in a relationship when people get comfortable?
Dont know if he will understand, because of his close bond with her
Why wouldn't you, a parent, research what foods are safe/not safe for babies? You see, there's this thing called Google..
Also depends on what you mean by intimate. Does one have an issue with close friendships of other sex for example?
I just know that that love can’t go away, I just hope he will be affectionate with both of us again.
Sounds like she wants you under her thumb doing what she says.. ??????
Sounds like your family had it coming. Ypur brother sounds decent, and you're absolutely right to cut the rest out of your life. Harsh as it sounds, but your sister also is just earning her Karma, even though domestic violence is of course no joke and I hope for her that she realizes her fatal mistake someday.
Well thank you. It took me quite awhile to demand some level of respect for myself and I am finally happily engaged to the woman of my dreams. I am 35, though, and took quite a few dings along the way. I sincerely wish you the best, and am sorry you were subjected to something dirty and frightening that you so clearly did not deserve.
He treated you well before the sex, he treated you horribly after the sex. Why would you want to see a guy that treats you badly at all?
Have more respect for yourself even when it's just a hookup. Basic human decency should be a minimum bar for seeing a person again. Your hookup failed that bar.
>She has a drinking problem, and I don't mean like an alcoholic.
It sounds like an alcoholic OP. Her inability to drink like a normal person, at 24 years old is concerning. These situations are what you'd expect from someone in their teens still figuring alcohol out. Not a grown woman.
Stop enabling her, break up – give her the wake up call she so clearly needs. Stop putting yourself through this emotional torture. Focus on yourself, let her focus on herself.
I would be very surprised if she could ever have a normal relationship with alcohol at this point, as at 24 – the fact she's still obviously not figured it out paints a picture.
Porn aside for a second. Do you ever initiate and he turns you down?
I truly get where he’s coming from, I wouldn’t want my ex to see my new relationship stuff but she’s not on my Facebook anymore in the first place. She shouldn’t be on his either. But don’t automatically think he’s cheating yet.
Question – why is the relationship now long distance?
Have you ever tried to find out what he likes taking about? You say what you like to talk about, and that he finds answering those types of questions mentally exhausting, but you don’t actually say what he likes, maybe you’d have better luck getting him talking and opening up if you were talking about things he likes.
And yes I agree with him. Those types of questions are mentally taxing, and out of the 2 examples you use, the famous one I’d refuse to answer as it’s not worth the time or energy to think about, the value in the relationship one I wouldn’t need to take the time, because I value my relationship and my partner, and I ensure that my partner knows it, so I’d have no problem with that one.
My friend, I think the trust left the minute you posted this. I’d save yourself more heartbreak at this point…