I still can't get past the fact that the same day your child commited suicide, you felt the need to post on Reddit asking if you were to blame…This isn't normal and I would certainly advise to get therapy. Also, 2 out of 3 children won't speak to you. This is also not normal and again, I would advise you to get therapy.
Sorry buddy that’s rough. Therapy is good. Honestly, you just gotta remember that if someone cheats on you it’s not about you, it’s about their character. Good people don’t cheat, plain and simple. People that cheat are going to do it anyway, doesn’t matter who they’re with. Could’ve been anyone, you just happened to be dating someone bad.
I said tell her for sure, it’s just a matter of respect and will allow her to gather her bearings and not be embarrassed and flustered by the situation.
Ah. Bingo. I knew he wasn't bringing you around for a reason and that's it right there.
If he lives in a strong, traditional Arab culture, he is not going to marry you. You aren't a serious relationship to him and never will be. You're fine to fuck around with but you aren't true wife or girlfriend material. If he was the kind to buck the strong traditions, you would've seen plenty of evidence of that already as he would be at complete odds with his parents on a regular basis. In very traditional Arab culture (and most middle eastern cultures0 you don't bring someone around family if you aren't going to marry them. It's just not done. And it's considered very insulting to bring your 'booty call' around the family. They want to pretend that their family member is not having sex outside of their culture (or outside of marriage) and bringing your 'sex partner' around is just rubbing their faces in it and is seen as horribly disrespectful.
Why are y’all being weird? Are we supposed to kick our friends to the curb if they cheat on their SO’s? Not accepting cheating within our relationship does not equal being judgemental fucks and cutting our friends off when they fail in their relationships, even if it’s their fault.
I still can't get past the fact that the same day your child commited suicide, you felt the need to post on Reddit asking if you were to blame…This isn't normal and I would certainly advise to get therapy. Also, 2 out of 3 children won't speak to you. This is also not normal and again, I would advise you to get therapy.
No of course not.
Sorry buddy that’s rough. Therapy is good. Honestly, you just gotta remember that if someone cheats on you it’s not about you, it’s about their character. Good people don’t cheat, plain and simple. People that cheat are going to do it anyway, doesn’t matter who they’re with. Could’ve been anyone, you just happened to be dating someone bad.
I said tell her for sure, it’s just a matter of respect and will allow her to gather her bearings and not be embarrassed and flustered by the situation.
As a married man who has done couple counseling successfully, this advice right here.
Ah. Bingo. I knew he wasn't bringing you around for a reason and that's it right there.
If he lives in a strong, traditional Arab culture, he is not going to marry you. You aren't a serious relationship to him and never will be. You're fine to fuck around with but you aren't true wife or girlfriend material. If he was the kind to buck the strong traditions, you would've seen plenty of evidence of that already as he would be at complete odds with his parents on a regular basis. In very traditional Arab culture (and most middle eastern cultures0 you don't bring someone around family if you aren't going to marry them. It's just not done. And it's considered very insulting to bring your 'booty call' around the family. They want to pretend that their family member is not having sex outside of their culture (or outside of marriage) and bringing your 'sex partner' around is just rubbing their faces in it and is seen as horribly disrespectful.
Well…U should prepare for the life of a single person, and organize your finances to get yourself in a position to be alone…
Why are y’all being weird? Are we supposed to kick our friends to the curb if they cheat on their SO’s? Not accepting cheating within our relationship does not equal being judgemental fucks and cutting our friends off when they fail in their relationships, even if it’s their fault.
Thank you!! Yes def need to work on being less dramatic with these things haha
His obsession is sick. I’m telling you he’s dangerous. My previous replies explain.
Haha – I was being somewhat polite. I too have kids this age and sometimes hide in my car to get away ??