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Jackson Woods, 30 y.o.
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Date: October 13, 2022
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Whether or not you are monogamous is a basic building block of a relationship and needs to be discussed early on. You did the right thing by discussing this and staying true to your feelings.
The single man? More like happily married with three kids and in my forties.
a little background would help for those asking why I brought this up. My boyfriend is bisexual and is very open about his sexual experiences with me, I was curious how big he's had simply out of my own curiosity, when he acted shy about it I slipped and said “I would tell you the biggest I've had” I have apologized for this over and over, and trust me I feel absolutely stupid for saying this. I do not blame him for being hurt at all I just want to make this better.
TL;DR you and bf both have a lot of growing up to before you're ready for a relationship.
Posting this as its own comment instead of a reply because of how long it was, sorry lol.
Yeah hi, um.. former behavioral health worker here, trauma doesn't make you “caring” that's a choice you make yourself, whether you've gone through trauma or not. Some people who have gone through trauma do develop a greater sense of empathy and caring, yes, but not all and not without a whole host of other problems that come along with it because…well, trauma. I just see a lot of people on the internet these days kind of normalizing their trauma or making it seem like it was really a good thing because it made them _____. (Kind, caring, strong, empathetic, etc” This in itself is a good thing, but too often this goes hand in hand with not dealing with said trauma, or using said trauma as an excuse to continue behaviors that are not productive. (Like constantly crying or breaking down over small things, for example)
Also I see a lot of people slapping the “trauma” label on things that really aren't deserving of it.
That's a long rabbit trail but the take away is this, and I say this with as much possible empathy and gentleness as I can”
You are not ready for a serious long-term relationship.
If you cannot handle even being spoken to a bit harshly or someone slamming a door without breaking down into tears or having a meltdown, you simply do not have the emotional tools you are going to need to maintain a years-long relationship and all the stresses that come with it. You just don't seem to have the ability to handle your own emotions very well, or communicate your wants and needs in a productive way quite yet.
And that's okay! You're only 19 you have so much time to build those things and to focus on your own mental health and growth. No rush!
(I'm not implying that harsh words and slammed doors should be normalized in relationships, or that every relationship is like that, but relationships are hard work and can be very stressful, trust me, I've been married for 11 years)
Toss that motherfucker out the airlock.
I've been with my husband for 4 years. We have had plenty of arguments, but never once has he ever called me names or made me feel in any way unsafe. The person you're with is not being a good partner. you need to remove yourself from this situation immediately.
I don’t want to get married tomorrow ? But it means more to me but he is on the same page as you
I was once told that you never really know a person until you live under the same roof. I married young(twenty and my wife twenty two). We almost divorced.