every man in the comments is ignoring the fact that you said this has been going on for multiple years. ed happens and it sucks but theres plenty you can do about it. its been going on for years and you havent done anything, now youre on here crying about how you doing nothing about it is preventing your girlfriend from being sexually satisfied in yalls relationship. if you want to keep her, do something about it. if not then break up with her. for most woman sex is important, but there are women for whom sex or even just piv sex is not important or a deal breaker.
I would tell your boyfriend that if he wants he can look at your older messages. But that you feel your boyfriend crossed a major boundary and sent the picture to try and wreck your relationship. Tell him about the co-parenting app because to me this seems like a great way to make sure your ex can't do this weird crap in the future. Your bf might have just needed to take a break. Hopefully you both can figure it out.
So she doesn’t want to know every time you masturbate, just when you can’t climax during sex? Do you do this so often that it’s become a problem? Do you know you’re going to have sex or is it usually a surprise? Most women are offended if you can’t climax during sex. We tend to blame ourselves and think it’s a lack of attraction. If it was happening frequently, it would be a problem. It still does not give her the right to demand information about this.
Your boyfriend doesn’t think women should have the right to their own bodies. The abortion topic is probably the tip of the iceberg. I’d bet he has lots of crazy beliefs.
Hi I work in a fertility lab, so I make the IUIs! They are really not very effective (less then 20% even if you have a good sperm sample). Most of the time the female patient is still required to come in for routine (so daily or weekly depending on the cycle) monitoring which could include blood draws, ultra sounds, and other stuff. It’s less invasive the IVF but not by much, and it takes longer on average. And at 39, if it’s really something OP wants they also need to take that into account. But she should definitely talk to her doctor!
He sounds extremely immature and to have unrealistic expectations of how a real adult relationship works. Over a long term relationship you grow to know the person you love and can’t expect them to surprise use. Also the idea of “keeping the chase” while in a healthy relationship is basically the opposite.
Also the fact that you we’re already down on yourself and he made these comments seems very disturbing. Like you were in your weakest moments and he just piles on? That seems very unhealthy. You should sit him down and give him all his flaws and ways he has got “more comfortable” since you’ve been together.
I am not sure what advice to give because this isn’t a normal request to have from a long term partner.
Absolutely! The only time it’s ever okay is if it’s discussed beforehand.
I’m very open to all sex lol so it’s exciting to me when I wake up being pleasured. Not waking up to him just shoving it in. Which sounds like boyfriend doesn’t care to please her, just wants his 5 minutes.
You told a bunch of strangers online that you think “your date” is insecure so I’m betting that is a comment you have said in real life. “Your date” cut her losses and didn’t give you the fight you wanted?
I gree with you but fuck that. Even drunk cheating is cheating.
You know how many times I got drunk? No fucking clue
You know how many times I cheated kn my partners, even when drunk? Z e r o
every man in the comments is ignoring the fact that you said this has been going on for multiple years. ed happens and it sucks but theres plenty you can do about it. its been going on for years and you havent done anything, now youre on here crying about how you doing nothing about it is preventing your girlfriend from being sexually satisfied in yalls relationship. if you want to keep her, do something about it. if not then break up with her. for most woman sex is important, but there are women for whom sex or even just piv sex is not important or a deal breaker.
I would tell your boyfriend that if he wants he can look at your older messages. But that you feel your boyfriend crossed a major boundary and sent the picture to try and wreck your relationship. Tell him about the co-parenting app because to me this seems like a great way to make sure your ex can't do this weird crap in the future. Your bf might have just needed to take a break. Hopefully you both can figure it out.
So she doesn’t want to know every time you masturbate, just when you can’t climax during sex? Do you do this so often that it’s become a problem? Do you know you’re going to have sex or is it usually a surprise? Most women are offended if you can’t climax during sex. We tend to blame ourselves and think it’s a lack of attraction. If it was happening frequently, it would be a problem. It still does not give her the right to demand information about this.
Your boyfriend doesn’t think women should have the right to their own bodies. The abortion topic is probably the tip of the iceberg. I’d bet he has lots of crazy beliefs.
Hi I work in a fertility lab, so I make the IUIs! They are really not very effective (less then 20% even if you have a good sperm sample). Most of the time the female patient is still required to come in for routine (so daily or weekly depending on the cycle) monitoring which could include blood draws, ultra sounds, and other stuff. It’s less invasive the IVF but not by much, and it takes longer on average. And at 39, if it’s really something OP wants they also need to take that into account. But she should definitely talk to her doctor!
It’s actually her own membership. I just offered to pay. So it’s just my card on file, but she signed her own contract.
So. I’m assuming he’s made “jokes” like this before?
He sounds extremely immature and to have unrealistic expectations of how a real adult relationship works. Over a long term relationship you grow to know the person you love and can’t expect them to surprise use. Also the idea of “keeping the chase” while in a healthy relationship is basically the opposite.
Also the fact that you we’re already down on yourself and he made these comments seems very disturbing. Like you were in your weakest moments and he just piles on? That seems very unhealthy. You should sit him down and give him all his flaws and ways he has got “more comfortable” since you’ve been together.
I am not sure what advice to give because this isn’t a normal request to have from a long term partner.
Absolutely! The only time it’s ever okay is if it’s discussed beforehand.
I’m very open to all sex lol so it’s exciting to me when I wake up being pleasured. Not waking up to him just shoving it in. Which sounds like boyfriend doesn’t care to please her, just wants his 5 minutes.
I get that. That’s why I’m even asking this question here. But safety is more important than it being unfair for him
You told a bunch of strangers online that you think “your date” is insecure so I’m betting that is a comment you have said in real life. “Your date” cut her losses and didn’t give you the fight you wanted?
You both need therapy together to overcome this