0 views
{ Pvt Open} ; Sharecam Lover Here [9 tokens remaining]
Date: October 9, 2022
![](/cs/camsoda2500.jpg")
WeekendPussy
Promo Code
200_FREE_TOKEN_SPRING_SURPRISE
You can do a clean break without “crying with him for hours”
u/MintyMarker, it looks like you're trying to post a throwaway submission. Your account is too young and/or your comment karma is too low.
The right way to do it is to create a brand new Reddit account that begins with ThrowRA.
Please create a new account that starts with ThrowRA in the username and try again. Please note that we will not make exceptions to this rule.
I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.
OP you are being massively defensive in the comments on this post. I do get the kneejerk response but.
I want you to take a breath, step back and really listen to what people are saying to you
You are a person who put up with a cruel person for years, cheated with one of the first people who showed you kindness after barely knowing him, you claim codependency problems but you're moving massively fast with the first relationship straight out of a divorce, you let him meet your kids just weeks in and you claim that he definitely seems perfect despite not even being in the same state. And now you're on here, feeling guilty about him and your children but also in a state of glee, wanting stories of similar situations where everything worked out perfectly
This tells everyone in the comments and it should tell yourself that you are likely a poor judge of character and that you struggle with making sound decisions in your relationship due to this.
People can see the writing on the wall and it isn't good. You need to slow down in measures. Don't let this guy see your kids much. Keep an eye on the fact you're likely missing red flags. Keep up therapy as much as you can.
You are in an extremely dangerous zone now and the ones who will feel the effects the most will be your children. Put them first.
It sounds like she legitimately cares about you, but is unwilling to be treated the way you've been treating her. She's probably really hoping that you're going to change, but she doesn't want to put all her eggs in one basket because she's not sure you're going to make an effort. You should never be using “derogatory slurs” in reference to your partner. It shows a serious lack of respect for her. You should respect her even when you're frustrated. If you can fix that aspect of yourself then great, if not at least tell her that you don't think you're going to be able to make actionable change so she can work on moving on.
I'm not sure it's a manipulation tactic. It sounds that way but it's 100% possible he's just expressing his feelings and not doing it in a good way. To jump straight to manipulation when we don't know, I don't think, is fair. People with mental health issues don't always say things well so I'd give him the benefit of doubt first. But that's me
She also has no morals then. Do you want a person in your life without morals???
They sell bag o dicks candy at “Lovers”, a store all over S. California.
I think the other comments are being a bit too harsh on you. You're 19, you're still plenty entitled to be annoying.
Your boyfriend sounds equally immature, but if y'all stay together you need to set some rules for when you're arguing about something. No raising your voices, no throwing or slamming or kicking things — if you can't reach an agreement in a heightened emotional state, then y'all should step away and regroup in an hour.
I'm an emotional sponge too. Cashier was rude to me? Fucks me up for hours. People fighting on TV gives me horrible anxiety when I'm low. But if my boyfriend got upset at me because the weather is shitty and seemingly always in a bad mood about something, I'd be reconsidering my attachment to him because that sounds fucking exhausting.
This is an excellent idea. I would do this as soon as possible. Educate yourself on what you are dealing with. There are many different shades of gray, and psychology is not an exact science. By educating yourself about this condition, you will be able to better evaluate if he is truly able to love anyone beside himself, or if he is just manipulating you.