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Date: October 9, 2022
So, I’m a poly/ ethical non monogamy guy. First of all, everyone has to be completely honest or this will absolutely destroy your existing relationship.
When my partner and I met, we were so young, and neither of us got to experience life. They were attracted to women, and I wanted to support them without loosing them. In turn, they wanted to give me an opportunity to explore myself and my kinks.
I strongly suggest you BOTH read a book called Polysecure by Jessica Fern. It’s amazing and will help you guys isolate potential dangers as well as understand what being ethically non monogamous means. It also has exercises to help overcome insecurities.
We date together, and separately. We’re just as in love today as we were 10 years ago. Only difference now is, if I have a bad day I have more than just my nesting partner to talk to on a deep level.
she obviously feels the same way or she wouldn't be mentioning it
I reckon she was fishing, she maybe wanted something akin to 'yeah you are, maybe we should go separate ways', but instead OP handled it like an adult and put the onus back onto her. Ever since, it's been a ticking clock until the confirmation bias from her coworkers gave her the courage.
I expect OP's ex is just what a salesperson would call, an easy mark. I imagine it is why she came crawling back after 4 hours. As soon as anyone other than her coworkers got wind of it, the validating circle-jerk stopped, and she panicked.
I don't necessarily think getting back together would lead to the exact same issue down the line – I suspect friends and family have brought her down a few pegs – but OP and Ex are clearly in very different places in terms of maturity and that may manifest in equally damaging ways. Given OP is clearly ready for more, I don't think it would be fair or right for him to hang around for an indefinite amount of time for his Ex to catchup.
Doesn't change that they are stringing you along, intentionally or not it doesn't make it better.
You appear to only see the social media lie that is “the joys of childrearing”. Maybe go check out r/regretfulparents
Seems to me you need therapy as you’re making some excuses for your behavior and essentially expecting your partner to be your emotional support animal.
Also, they sound like a jerk.