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Date: April 7, 2023
Bro. In your 8th paragraph you said that Lucy would rather you guys have less interactions like exchanging pleasantries/minimal talk and now you’re saying you’re made to play a “ghosting game”? Which is it? You ghost her? Or you interact with her less?
It’s like you’re trying hard to be a victim. Your gf is communicating with you, just not how you like it. It’s important that YOU establish boundaries, and that can be done even with your closest friends (even regardless of gender). Boundaries with other people are healthy and important. You don’t have to ignore Kate, but why do you feel the need to be so close?
You keep talking about “let’s be adults about it” and here I am, as an adult thinking, man at this point in life you should ask yourself what relationships are worth it. Is being close to Kate really worth the the quality of your relationship with your gf? Ask yourself is it worth it to have friends you are not that close with in favor of ones that you are? It’s different if this was your own long time friendship but it’s literally your gfs friend. Is it worth it?
End it. If it's already this concerning it'll only get more problematic.
You need psychiatric help, or at the very least, a new hobby.
Not only can he easily gain the weight back, but if he’s a drinker now it’ll likely just get worse.
I have been surrounded by men like this my entire life. Either a close friend or family member could have an adverse health issue pop up or he could. That’s typically the only way they’ll finally go in. Or they get real lucky and have a one and done.
People who are larger around the upper body are difficult to try to resuscitate because there’s so much fat in between your hands and their heart. You really have to work hard for it to have an effect and keep it up until help arrives.
Make your peace with the fact that he’s being selfish because he’s afraid of finding out bad news. And that, like anyone, he could also get hit by a bus tomorrow.
Part of the problem here is this you are observing external behaviour that shows some of his internal thoughts without the context of ALL of his internal thoughts. You're also filtering this through your own insecurities.
Is he liking attractive women you know because they look attractive? Yes. Is he following e-girls because they are cute and appealing? Yes. Will he look at some women in lingerie cause they look sexy? Yes.
Lets face it. These girls and women ARE attractive. Unfortuantely fact of life is that there is always going to be someone better, more attractive and more incredible than you. Will your partner notice? Yes. Even my wife can't help but notice an attractive person. Its how she handles it that makes the difference.
The difference is how we handle it and how we make our partners feel. Do we leer and stare? Do we look at this content 24/7 and make it obvious to our partners? Do we compare our partner to these women and make comments or suggestions all the time? Do we obviously comment on all the thirst trap girls accounts and look like a sad human being while we're making our g/f's say “What?”
Finally, how do you, the girlfriend, perceive this? Do you understand that there are always going to be people more attractive than us but that doesnt matter if you are secure within yourself and when you are with a partner than makes you feel good more often than not?
I'm not saying you should be like his brother and his brother's wife. Thats too much imho. Nor am I saying you need to stay with this guy if you find that you still feel bad about this most of the time. You could probably find another guy that won't be into this as much, or does it in a different way that makes you feel secure even if he does look sometimes.
Do NOT get married