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It's ok. Theres nothing wrong with other of you other than a basic incompatibility.
But now its crunch time. Now you need to decide if the relationship stayed exactly as it is for the next 30 or 40 years would you be happy? If not then you need to end it.
You've discussed it together, she has arrived at her conclusion and so you have to make a choice for you.
She has no desire to change and that's fine, but it doesn't suit you. It's an incompatibility. Despite what you will hear from young, inexperienced folks, love is not enough on it's own. Love is a powerful force, but it doesn't stay Alive without nourishment and major incompatibility prevents full nourishment of love. Some things you can tolerate without harm to yourself, and some things will eventually harm you. This is one such thing.
You can walk away from nice people if you just dont mesh in the important areas. Just be kind and respectful and take some time to yourself before you get into another relationship.
Think about the things you need in relationship and when you are in the space to date again,look for those things. Dont be afraid to have big conversations early, it will help prevent wastintime on folks you arent compatible with. Good luck.
For sure. When I try to read between the lines of her post, it seems like she just doesn’t love her husband, and that’s more of a factor than a lack of desire to be intimate.
She resents the way marriage and dating is handled in her culture too. And she is taking out that resentment on her husband, who is by all accounts a good guy.
She has hit that midlife crisis age range and is lashing out. Making her husband cry and putting rules on the relationship that are obviously not healthy or generally accepted in a marriage. While at the same time, warning him that leaving her will ruin the kids. And a non traditional sexual arrangement is off the table too.
She is trying to make him feel the resentment that she feels. That’s what this is really all about. More than anything else. Resentment.
So yeah. If they split, I do imagine her trying to date again down the road. And she won’t be a childless, never-married, 20-something this time. There are a lot of scumbag men out there who don’t have 6 packs and don’t love her like her husband, who she acknowledges is a good man, does.
But hey. It’s just my opinion. I obviously don’t know them so maybe I am wrong.
Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.
Why are you making this difficult. You guys got engaged at 8 months and you’re not compatible just move on
I just spoke to him about it again, and he did apologise but he said it may happen again because he is not a perfect person.
Seems like the thought he was okay with it, then after it happened he discovered he is really not. And is not willing to talk about it, bc well… he AGREED right? He probably doesn't know how to talk about it, since he agreed and technically there's no “issue”.
Sadly, for communication, there need to be two people putting effort in. If he doesn't want a direct conversation, there will be none. You can sit him down and try until you are blue in the face, but you can't make him discuss this. To me stuff like that is the beginning of an end: the moment your partner no longer wants to fix things, talk them out and communicate, the relationship begins to disintegrate. You could try telling him that, so he really understands that his refusal to talk is a very serious problem. If he says 'but I have no problem, everything's fine' then say “okay,I HAVE A PROBLEM WIT.” Flit the script. He can deny he has an issue, but he cannot deny that you have an issue with him – and you do! You have a problem with his behavior. Try to discuss that.
OP, you LITERALLY fucked around and found out. You can’t salvage this. It’s over.
You can trust someone while still being pragmatic about what is possible. You can think of it like a seatbelt, I 100% believe I will not get into an accident, but I still think it's smart to protect myself against the possibility of one.