I’m not condoning any of her actions or taking her side because what she did was wrong but LDR is by far the most contributing factor. They are tough and often fail. People in a relationship need touch, and are very social and in a LDR you do not provide that. Now back to the situation, im gonna be honest it’s highly likely she will flirt again because she’s probably lonely and bored. It’s wrong but it’s the nature of the beast. This will eat at you and will build and get ugly the longer you two are away from each other. I think it’s time to call it quits and my advice to date locally. Good luck
Do yourself a favor and search this sub for “I asked my significant other to open our relationship”. It’s just good knowledge for the reaction on your next post in a year.
You DO have to “accept him” as he is because people shouldn't have to change to suit a partner's whims. But he has the do the same with you. You and this person just aren't a good match. You may have been great friends but you're obviously incompatible as romantic partners.
I would wait just a bit longer. When I first got my DNA results, it told me I was 40 – 50% Dutch. I freaked out and had a bit of an identity crisis because nobody was Dutch in my family.
They later corrected the results a couple months later, and I was 70%+ German (how I knew my family history).
Ashley, it just shows some character to me. Like saying I have a boyfriend I don’t think it’s appropriate. Nothing petty about that. She could also be a people pleaser and not want to hurt anybody’s feelings which is still not great. Good luck.
Yup drop em. No empathy or priority for you. Bye bud.
But something in this entire relationship doesn't seem right like, she acts the same way as we were just ordinary friends
Isn't that what FWB means? Are you wanting more than that?
Tell him to grow up lol
I’m not condoning any of her actions or taking her side because what she did was wrong but LDR is by far the most contributing factor. They are tough and often fail. People in a relationship need touch, and are very social and in a LDR you do not provide that. Now back to the situation, im gonna be honest it’s highly likely she will flirt again because she’s probably lonely and bored. It’s wrong but it’s the nature of the beast. This will eat at you and will build and get ugly the longer you two are away from each other. I think it’s time to call it quits and my advice to date locally. Good luck
Do yourself a favor and search this sub for “I asked my significant other to open our relationship”. It’s just good knowledge for the reaction on your next post in a year.
I’m struggling to find a single reason as to why you’re with this person
Not even with his questionable drunken behaviour but the entire situation in general where he’s getting black out drunk in public
Both of you have some serious issues you need to address and it would probably be best to do so as single individuals
You were assaulted. Think about pressing charges
You were assaulted. Think about pressing charges
You DO have to “accept him” as he is because people shouldn't have to change to suit a partner's whims. But he has the do the same with you. You and this person just aren't a good match. You may have been great friends but you're obviously incompatible as romantic partners.
I would wait just a bit longer. When I first got my DNA results, it told me I was 40 – 50% Dutch. I freaked out and had a bit of an identity crisis because nobody was Dutch in my family.
They later corrected the results a couple months later, and I was 70%+ German (how I knew my family history).
I'm proud of you OP. Update sometime if you don't mind.
Spot on
Ashley, it just shows some character to me. Like saying I have a boyfriend I don’t think it’s appropriate. Nothing petty about that. She could also be a people pleaser and not want to hurt anybody’s feelings which is still not great. Good luck.
You have problems.