Probably you being so insistent has put off every little spark in her, if there was any. Stop pressuring her. Pegging is not for everyone. You being on the receiving part is not lifting any weight from her, I promise you. I had an ex who begged me to be dominant, i tried sometimes. I enjoyed it but it also showed me parts of me i didn't necessarily like. You remind me of a friend of mine into BDSM, she ended up with the most vanilla guy and they were so exasperated at some point that all she wanted to do was peg him. I could feel his butt shrink if I only thought about it. My advice for her was maybe test the territory with a finger first before pulling out the whole latex collection. Create an ambiance where your partner can actually feel comfortable trying new things. I think you should do the same. Or find a partner which is more suitable for your needs
Tell him to get out. What you did in the past has nothing to do with the present. Like how dare he say you had more sex and now he wants to catch up. He needs to be a father and a husband and contribute financially. He needs to understand that you work and take care of the house and baby.
Not having seen the outfit, I can only go by your description. While I can understand you don’t want to have your GF act like she’s single but it’s only been a month and I’m pretty sure by her response that you haven’t talked about boundaries.
You overreacted. You should have said something to the effect that you were disappointed in her choice of dress and going clubbing. That when you next get together, you two will have a long discussion about this.
The main point is, you can’t tell her what to do, conversely if she makes choices that you don’t agree with, you don’t have to date her. Sit down with her and have a talk. Apologize for blowing up and going “nuclear” on her. Explain exactly why you didn’t think what she was doing was appropriate in your mind. Let her explain her reasoning. If you want to continue to be exclusive, both of you need to determine boundaries for both of you, not just her. If you can’t come to a agreement, then end things and hopefully walk away as friends
I’m not using it as a weapon though, this is where your reading comprehension skills have failed you. I’m horny af I want to have sex with him. However I physically cannot because I am bone dry every time I see the mess on his lip.
What is wrong with you girl? This is not a man you want to invest time and try to build relationship with. Drinking to the point of. Drunkenness, mean drunk, have to walk on eggshells. Jesus use your head. I know you have to be smarter than this.
You both need to get out of your marriage. Do you really want another 40 years of this? You’re both still young and deserve a chance to find a happier path
Probably you being so insistent has put off every little spark in her, if there was any. Stop pressuring her. Pegging is not for everyone. You being on the receiving part is not lifting any weight from her, I promise you. I had an ex who begged me to be dominant, i tried sometimes. I enjoyed it but it also showed me parts of me i didn't necessarily like. You remind me of a friend of mine into BDSM, she ended up with the most vanilla guy and they were so exasperated at some point that all she wanted to do was peg him. I could feel his butt shrink if I only thought about it. My advice for her was maybe test the territory with a finger first before pulling out the whole latex collection. Create an ambiance where your partner can actually feel comfortable trying new things. I think you should do the same. Or find a partner which is more suitable for your needs
Tell him to get out. What you did in the past has nothing to do with the present. Like how dare he say you had more sex and now he wants to catch up. He needs to be a father and a husband and contribute financially. He needs to understand that you work and take care of the house and baby.
Not having seen the outfit, I can only go by your description. While I can understand you don’t want to have your GF act like she’s single but it’s only been a month and I’m pretty sure by her response that you haven’t talked about boundaries.
You overreacted. You should have said something to the effect that you were disappointed in her choice of dress and going clubbing. That when you next get together, you two will have a long discussion about this.
The main point is, you can’t tell her what to do, conversely if she makes choices that you don’t agree with, you don’t have to date her. Sit down with her and have a talk. Apologize for blowing up and going “nuclear” on her. Explain exactly why you didn’t think what she was doing was appropriate in your mind. Let her explain her reasoning. If you want to continue to be exclusive, both of you need to determine boundaries for both of you, not just her. If you can’t come to a agreement, then end things and hopefully walk away as friends
Go to Surviving infidelity.com it helped me with a cheating wife.
That's right. You and he parted for a reason. Perhaps it's just lost youth u r yearning for
I’m not using it as a weapon though, this is where your reading comprehension skills have failed you. I’m horny af I want to have sex with him. However I physically cannot because I am bone dry every time I see the mess on his lip.
This is what I'm thinking as well. She wants to experiment but also have a backup if it doesn't go well with the other person she have in mind.
What is wrong with you girl? This is not a man you want to invest time and try to build relationship with. Drinking to the point of. Drunkenness, mean drunk, have to walk on eggshells. Jesus use your head. I know you have to be smarter than this.
Take her leaving and her silence as being that you are now broken up.
Send her a message asking where to drop her stuff off at and that you never wish to speak to her again.
And always remember the one salient rule of dating – never stick your dick in crazy.
My pleasure. Just FYI your first knee jerk reaction was right.
You both need to get out of your marriage. Do you really want another 40 years of this? You’re both still young and deserve a chance to find a happier path