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Date: October 5, 2022
Why dafuq do you people marry this young…
I feel you did the best you could in those circumstances to reduce the impact as much as possible. Apologising immediately was the right thing to do as well.
I am sorry for you that he ruined your night and impacted your friends wedding as well.
I am glad he understood how upset you were. Honestly he should have at least asked someone if it was appropriate.
It would have been worse to stay and have everyone start congratulating you and making you the centre of attention, so you did the best you could in the circumstances.
it's hard to give much advice on this due to limited information. but it could be he is scared and you are to good for him to commit to. OR he feels like he doesn't have enough experience and wants to explore. I don't know which one. you have to figure it out.
⬆️⬆️⬆️ you’re not happy OP. And deep down he isn’t either. He doesn’t want to lose his family… he’s selfish, he wants you and everything else and he doesn’t seem to care how you feel, which makes me think, maybe he doesn’t truly love you anymore.I’m sorry OP.
Tell him you also love him and want to be with him, but only if he can agree to monogamy. He has to choose. Simple as that.
It’s fair to ask for a certain amount back every month or whatever she is earning a percentage back. The person transitioning has nothing to do with you but their own choice it should of been a responsible one the least to say before even thinking of asking support from you with regards to payment.
Did you know the plan was to stay at an airbnb when you were invited and accepted the invitation?
First of all stop having sex with her. Whatever else happens between you, stop that right now. You have strong evidence that she isn't trustworthy so act accordingly.
Secondly, confirm the pregnancy. Not with a photo of a test, not with a test that she has taken without you present. Go to a doctors appointment with her and get it confirmed. It could be that she's not pregnant but is hoping by saying she is she can either get you to move in and claim a miscarriage later on or get you to move in, tell you there's no point in condoms now the damage is already done and hope that she can get knocked up ASAP and fudge the dates.
If she is pregnant sign nothing without a paternity test. If you are the father then lawyer up and know your rights. Wishful thinking won't make it go away so dig in and prepare to be a daddy. This does not mean you have to stay with her. You can be a good parent without being in an intimate/romantic relationship with her.
Finally, whatever the outcome, learn from this. Always, always take care of your own contraception. Some people are good, some people aren't. Some people are careless and some are just unlucky. The best you can do is protect yourself to minimize the risks, no matter who you encounter.
So he's a narc and so's his mom, and you clearly need to get away from them. He doesn't want you to get close to his family/sister specifically. He doesn't want you to know real things about him and that's why he downplays other women. What you are seeing in his mother is your future, he just hasn't dropped his facade all the way.
So last night I found out that my fiancée has 45k in credit card debt.
For most it would already be a dealbreaker that she wasn't upfront about this BEFORE you got engaged.
She got a 15k loan because she quit her job as a mortgage officer because she didn’t like the vp. She said it was to help her transition and find another job. She has a job but wants to quit because she wants to get married and then move shortly after.
I hope you see all the red flags. How about her sorting out her life first before thinking about marriage?
I think his penis needs to not be a part of their sex sessions.
That's such a rude thing to say. It's like you don't even care about his sexual pleasure, only care about the woman's.
Well, if the couple believes pre-marital sex is a sin, then the appropriate thing to do—according to Catholicism—would be to stop, repent, and refrain.
So, while I don’t agree with the practice, or the religion at all, for that matter, I don’t think it’s fair to say it makes zero sense.
Typically speaking sex decreases once you live together, get married, have kids, have been together for a long time.
Now you know how you two (I am not sure if fights are initiated by you or him) behave if sex is lacking.
As an Atheist I find this notion silly, but it may have actually worked out for you.
Seriously. How weird that his girlfriend is openly crying at this “relaxing romantic getaway” and his only thought is “meh, might as well enjoy it anyway.” Like who was this spa date for? Does she even LIKE the spa?
Holy Gaslighting Batman.
You did a very good thing for a very good reason and wanted her to truly relax and enjoy the spa. They were Incredible intentions for the woman you love.
However by the your wording and hers there is a lot to interpret and or misinterpret. We aren’t in the relationship so it’s difficult to give advice because our life experiences and relationships are all different.
What concerns me the most out of all this are her actions and words. “It’s a nice thing to do but why today was there a specific reason?” She’s angry, feels unstable asking “what are we doing in this relationship?”, “what is there even to do there together? It’s like we’re together but not, it’s not something to do as a couple”. You say y’all are in a rocky spot.
Is there more you’re omitting that will make all of this easier to understand? Were y’all at the end of the relationship? Were there talks of breaking up? Because her reaction and her words make it feel like this was too little too late. Or maybe she was planning to break up and all of it overwhelmed her as in “it’s nice but you’re too late” type of deal.
Overall your surprise, while a great idea in general , was a great idea but her reaction was not of someone who is in a stable relationship. It’s like you’re trying to make up for something or she’s guidon something.
None of it makes sense & 2+2 does not equal 4.
You need to stop tiptoeing around and have a conversation w her instead of guessing and coming here because we can only give advice based on our experiences and or biased opinion. You and only you can talk to her. You can’t go on waiting for her to talk about it because she may be waiting on you to talk about it.
Sit her down w phones put away so there are no distractions and tell her how you felt, your intentions & excitement etc and confusion by her reaction. Ask if you did something wrong, if it was the wrong day for her or is there something going on you need to know that she doesn’t want to talk about. Because there is definitely something wrong between y’all that we don’t know. So a conversation is a must if you want to continue this relationship.
Thank youuu. I had the same question. Who shares A phone other than those fb couples where the dude cheated and their name is DanielandJessica Smith
Only because, as he said, he was pretty sure she wouldn't have had her lunch yet at the time he was yanking her out of her workplace. Even told her to grab her lunch along with her other stuff (so she could quickly stuff her face in the car on the way to the spa presumably). It sounds like all the inconveniences were on her end and he's pissed because of 'all the trouble' he went to.
Lol sisters bf is trans meaning a former woman. Pretty hard for them to produce semen.
He already slapped her, with enough restraint to make it hurt but not leave a bruise. And the insidious thing is, this is just after three months. They usually wait a bit longer to bring on the physical attacks, this guy is fucking scary. She should throw all his shit the bought her into a box and send it back. The longer she stays the worse it is going to get to leave.
Don't forget that about every post here starts with the same format.
“We are super nice together.”, “Super new level of super love between us”, “Everybody always says we are cute together”, “everything is going great together”. “Everything is fine, except”
And then some horrible shit that no one in their right mind would put up with.
I agree with what you said… but just have a question about your presumption, that she has skyla or kilena cause of her age or lack of birthing a child. I had the paragard cooper iud put in when I was 22 w/out birthing a child or ever being pregnant. And the mirena iud at 26 or 27, again without ever having been pregnant.
Just uncertain about your comment.
I don't think this is about the Pillow….I think your wife is trying to communicate with you, in a confused way, that she feels she isn't getting enough physical touch and that she wants more intimacy and closeness with you. The fact she said she'd not mind if she was at your beck and call if and when you wanted to lay down (which is obviously absurd) means she clearly is desperate for more affection. You might wanna have a think about this one and if you are maybe given little affection and attention to her, because that sort of flip out over a pillow is loopy unless you look at the underlying potential logical reasons.
No, don't do this. I'm on her side.
Just for clarity you weren't moaning in your sleep?
Doesn’t really matter what the reason is, you are not winning her back. She’s made up her mind and any attempt by you to get back in will be percieved as annoying to her (its a classic). Theres only one thing you can do and that is to move on. The opposite will just deterioate your relationship and you will do things that will make you compromise your own dignity in the long run. So go, you lost this one.
Sending you a big internet-mum hug, if you want one! ???
I don’t get all your upvotes, she’s 25 not 17
I don’t blame my family at all. Id be the same if i were them and i love them very much. I was just explaining why the tickets would remotely upset him. Thanks so much for the advice, it helps more than youd think x
Of course he's going to be nice sometimes that is what they do. However it does not cancel out the times he has a little boy tantrum.
Grow up.
Does your ex gf know you were raped?
Can you afford to live on your own?
Everything else worked. I talked with her plenty, we tried to solve the problems but the only who got into action was me. I was trying to solve this for over 2 yrs. I don't want to threw away our relationship just because of sex
I'm the only one who utilizes the tools that the therapist gives us, and I'm the only one in individual therapy working on myself.
Yes, In all circumstances at least I will be honest