Are you asexual? Are you attracted to them? Most people fantasize about their first time and have unrealistic expectations for it. It has to feel “right” or be with a certain someone or everything has to be perfect and… The reality is the first time having sex generally sucks, except that it takes a monumental pressure away. So if you don't want to have sex because of those expectations, reconsider, but if you just don't well then you just don't.
That can mean eventually they might leave, in the future. But listen to what they say, if they say it's alright right now, trust them.
How do you proceed? You get a lawyer and you divorce her. You know for a fact you can't trust her. What she wants and what you want aren't the same but she's going to lie to you to cover that up. You can't start a family with this woman since you won't even know if the children will be yours without a DNA test. Take screenshots of the phone conversation, send them to yourself, get STD tested, get a lawyer and move on to find somebody who you can trust and will love you as much as you love them.
Have the affair and blow up your marriage! I’m way to old for you bs, dear. If you were well intentioned and committed to your wife, you would absolutely be distancing yourself from this “friend”. Let your wife live a REAL life, good or bad, not to pile of lies and deceit you’re discretely and slowly turning her world into. PS, once you fuck the friend, don’t pull the “I didn’t mean for this to happen” crap.
But also if it's okay for him to watch pork cuz you wouldn't make porn, would he make sexy audio erotica? If not then it's okay for you to listen to it
Naw, this breaks my heart, my mother loved my father more then he ever did and he ended up leaving us and starting a new family. He still financially supported us but still.. I don't feel remotely qualified to comment on this, maybe professional help is the way to go.
I sincerely wish you and your children well moving foward.
Are you asexual? Are you attracted to them? Most people fantasize about their first time and have unrealistic expectations for it. It has to feel “right” or be with a certain someone or everything has to be perfect and… The reality is the first time having sex generally sucks, except that it takes a monumental pressure away. So if you don't want to have sex because of those expectations, reconsider, but if you just don't well then you just don't.
That can mean eventually they might leave, in the future. But listen to what they say, if they say it's alright right now, trust them.
Honestly you lost me at silica gel packets like those aren't useful after you get them ?
Yes. UK law is ten kinds of fucked up. The only people who ware protected are the predators.
How do you proceed? You get a lawyer and you divorce her. You know for a fact you can't trust her. What she wants and what you want aren't the same but she's going to lie to you to cover that up. You can't start a family with this woman since you won't even know if the children will be yours without a DNA test. Take screenshots of the phone conversation, send them to yourself, get STD tested, get a lawyer and move on to find somebody who you can trust and will love you as much as you love them.
thank you! i feel like i need to be angry and i’ll get there eventually but i don’t think he’d ever cheat on me but who knows
Have the affair and blow up your marriage! I’m way to old for you bs, dear. If you were well intentioned and committed to your wife, you would absolutely be distancing yourself from this “friend”. Let your wife live a REAL life, good or bad, not to pile of lies and deceit you’re discretely and slowly turning her world into. PS, once you fuck the friend, don’t pull the “I didn’t mean for this to happen” crap.
But also if it's okay for him to watch pork cuz you wouldn't make porn, would he make sexy audio erotica? If not then it's okay for you to listen to it
Naw, this breaks my heart, my mother loved my father more then he ever did and he ended up leaving us and starting a new family. He still financially supported us but still.. I don't feel remotely qualified to comment on this, maybe professional help is the way to go.
I sincerely wish you and your children well moving foward.
What's super hilarious here is that if you divorce, the kids will be exposed to un-resisted nail-biting on his custodial time.