Coming back from your partner cheating is incredibly difficult. The trust just isn't there. It takes a lot to rebuild it. it also mind fucks you. It really hurts your self esteem and willingness to trust anyone.
In the end she didn't admit what she did until you confronted her with the evidence. She didn't feel guilty until that moment. She was happy cheating on you. She kept cheating on you.
“They didn’t consider how this would make us feel”
Awe. Your poor feelings. How dare your parents seek companionship. How terrible to have all those people that care about you and your wife also care about each other.
You and your wife aren’t children. Grow the fuck up.
>or you can bite the bullet and show up to the next group to talk with them
I would not recommend doing that unless he is willing to leave the group for good. It could be viewed as harassment, and he could end up getting thrown out of the university.
I try and treat her and love her the best I can as a student. I can't afford much, but I make sure to always tell her how amazing she is, how pretty she looks, I take her out to dinner as much as I can, I try and make her feel so loved, and I know it's too much sometimes but I just want the best for her.
I'm sorry guy…. there is only one explanation for those texts. Combined with her behavioral change, I would consult a lawyer to get all my options. I hope you copied the texts for future reference.
Coming back from your partner cheating is incredibly difficult. The trust just isn't there. It takes a lot to rebuild it. it also mind fucks you. It really hurts your self esteem and willingness to trust anyone.
In the end she didn't admit what she did until you confronted her with the evidence. She didn't feel guilty until that moment. She was happy cheating on you. She kept cheating on you.
You would be very justified to move on.
I was in a situation similar to this except we were married. We are no longer married. They don’t change. Best of luck OP.
If my GF it be she she was going with..If went with xboy friend she would be my x gf simple
“They didn’t consider how this would make us feel”
Awe. Your poor feelings. How dare your parents seek companionship. How terrible to have all those people that care about you and your wife also care about each other.
You and your wife aren’t children. Grow the fuck up.
>or you can bite the bullet and show up to the next group to talk with them
I would not recommend doing that unless he is willing to leave the group for good. It could be viewed as harassment, and he could end up getting thrown out of the university.
I try and treat her and love her the best I can as a student. I can't afford much, but I make sure to always tell her how amazing she is, how pretty she looks, I take her out to dinner as much as I can, I try and make her feel so loved, and I know it's too much sometimes but I just want the best for her.
Your husband's fragile masculinity is showing.
I'm not sure why everyone is saying to ask her. She is clearly going to continue lying.
Maybe she went with a group of people to an after party. Only you know that she's like and what your relationship is like. Everyone else is guessing.
I'm sorry guy…. there is only one explanation for those texts. Combined with her behavioral change, I would consult a lawyer to get all my options. I hope you copied the texts for future reference.