That's OK. I'm not saying you should grant her veto power, or allow her to put her name on the deed. I don't think anyone can fault you for feeling the way that you do about it.
I do think if you try and see things from her perspective however, you may find that she feels like she has a partner who does not care about her thoughts or opinions when it comes to making decisions. You are partners, the things you do do not happen in a vacuum.
Consider how something like that may strain your relationship long term.
Text messages aren't the concrete actions he would take if he was committed to you over and above his wife.
I'm with you on the first paragraph. It was amazing traveling without having to be communicating with people all the time.
That's OK. I'm not saying you should grant her veto power, or allow her to put her name on the deed. I don't think anyone can fault you for feeling the way that you do about it.
I do think if you try and see things from her perspective however, you may find that she feels like she has a partner who does not care about her thoughts or opinions when it comes to making decisions. You are partners, the things you do do not happen in a vacuum.
Consider how something like that may strain your relationship long term.
It does sound nuts. Maybe you need therapy too cuz this is just wild.
Cheating is cheating dude no matter the gender. Think it's time for a breakup.
While you clearly meant well, you need to stop enabling him. What would he have done if he was single?