Might get down voted to hell for this (I'm really late too, so possibly no one will see it), but I'm both the finance manager and HR at the small company I work at and literally did this just last month. It was the money saving option as I would have had to book an entire extra room just for myself (only female in attendance). I did double check with my husband beforehand to make sure he had no issues (also knows the co-worker I was rooming with pretty well). Depending on the circumstances, I don't think this is the shadiest thing ever, but I also don't know your girlfriend and her relationship with said co-worker.
I always know someone's never partied when they say things like this. Drunk, high, in another dimension on DMT, pumped off of coke, doesn't matter. Typing/texting is habitual and autocorrect solves an enormous amount of problems. Hell I can go outside right now and get blitzed, then come back and recite poetry over text if you want.
By the time I relationship gets to this point, it’s mostly over. And he’s been really directed and sneak behind your back or cheat. He said he wants to go be with somebody else physically. I don’t know what you think you’re going to do with that. If you’re not into the whole Poly thing which really is so superficial destructive, then you have to let him go go
For tomorrow, the fall out of these encounters, and what it does to a formally monogamous relationship is really destructive it goes everywhere from boundaries being cross to preferring one over another, and he may just slowly drift away on its own. If you find somebody, he likes better.
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Might get down voted to hell for this (I'm really late too, so possibly no one will see it), but I'm both the finance manager and HR at the small company I work at and literally did this just last month. It was the money saving option as I would have had to book an entire extra room just for myself (only female in attendance). I did double check with my husband beforehand to make sure he had no issues (also knows the co-worker I was rooming with pretty well). Depending on the circumstances, I don't think this is the shadiest thing ever, but I also don't know your girlfriend and her relationship with said co-worker.
I always know someone's never partied when they say things like this. Drunk, high, in another dimension on DMT, pumped off of coke, doesn't matter. Typing/texting is habitual and autocorrect solves an enormous amount of problems. Hell I can go outside right now and get blitzed, then come back and recite poetry over text if you want.
By the time I relationship gets to this point, it’s mostly over. And he’s been really directed and sneak behind your back or cheat. He said he wants to go be with somebody else physically. I don’t know what you think you’re going to do with that. If you’re not into the whole Poly thing which really is so superficial destructive, then you have to let him go go
For tomorrow, the fall out of these encounters, and what it does to a formally monogamous relationship is really destructive it goes everywhere from boundaries being cross to preferring one over another, and he may just slowly drift away on its own. If you find somebody, he likes better.
Say no.