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You are 20 years old.
For the rest of your life you are going to want to go back to the age you are now.
Would you like to look back on this time and think, “I sure had a lot of fun back then”, or do you want to look back and say, “I wasted my youth being sexually frustrated!”?
Not a tough choice.
Same goes for birthdays, If it's my birthday and no one says a single thing, that's totally fine but when it's another birthday, expect the same from me.
First of all, you don’t have to feel greedy for describing your love language. That’s just communicating how your emotions work, and any potential life-partner should have that valuable information.
However. You seem to be in police-mode to GET that stuff. You’re counting days and watching his movements and accumulating evidence.
Nobody can say there’s anything wrong with that: you’re only dating, which means you’re still both auditioning for a life-partner, and you have a right to know how he’s going to do with your love language.
But he’s under a microscope. The more you have to fight for what you want, the less likely it is that he’s going to give it spontaneously.
So ask yourself how hard you want to struggle for this, how badly you want it, and whether you feel he’s given it to you honestly because he wants to; and how much he gives it to you because he doesn’t want to fail his audition.
I'm a woman and can see this is a clear cut case of sexual assault. I'm sorry this happened to you… you feel violated because you WERE. I would end it now and get tested for STD.
Wait a second…house party or nightclub/bar?
Oh please. It was definitely rape, and that's enough. He's old enough to drink, smoke, and die for America if he's American—an age difference does not make someone a predator when both parties are definitely adults, even if it is true that those 10 years can make a big difference to the way of thinking.
Thanks again for this! I'm hoping there is a balance that will let me move forward (a bit) but not be the stick in the mud I have sadly become. I don't want to be joyless and resentful of anything/anyone around me who is happy and sparkly (like Jenny). So maybe I can work on finding a different job that uses my best tech support expertise but doesn't require me to manage lots of people and push paper. And I'm pretty sure I could join my wife for an occasional drink or edible while still having a generally healthy life, and I could break out some of my old “fun” clothes at least for workouts and weekends, and we could go back to playing video games together for a few hours here and there without the games taking over our lives.
In any event, you are right that I can't live my life for family members and friends who are judging me for choosing a fun (but self-supporting and generally productive) life over one that revolves around climbing the corporate ladder. I have tried their path and it's only made me unhappy and distant from my wonderful wife – definitely not a path to continue.
This wouldn’t be the first nor the last time this scenario comes up here, and it ALWAYS turns out that the partner was lying about it because they were insecure and were trying to get the other person to confess to cheating or give them unhealthy reassurance of their own insecurities. You sound like a real charmer.
Hey, shitstains are intelligent and loving creatures! OP’s husband is a shit-eating turd
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*looking for outside opinions
Has anyone had an extremely insecure partner and been able to have a healthy relationship? I know I need to work with him on his insecurities, nobody is perfect. But it is becoming too much sometimes and I feel that his constant lack of trust is making me apathetic when I don't want to be. He is constantly accusing me of outlandish things with no reasoning. I have never cheated, I have deleted anyone he asked me too, we have an open phone policy together. I was fairly promiscuous before, I am always honest and not ashamed of it. But it feels like he uses that as ammunition to justify him being insecure
I recently started a new job, I have only been there for a week and a half. I can't pay attention to my phone all the time. I was supposed to be off at 930 but had to stay until 10:15 to do my cashout, he accused me of getting drunk with my coworkers, told me not to bother coming home because I “wouldn't be home until 2am” , told me I was probably going to go hangout with my male coworkers and do sketchy substances, told me I probably blocked him from seeing my Snapchat story (I did this one time in an argument months ago, he has been able to see my location since) Implied that my coworker and I had an inappropriate friendship , because he gave me a ride to and from work one day.
I love this man and he is my soul mate, I can't see a future without him and truly believe he is my life partner. But how much longer of constantly proving I'm trust worthy will it take for him to believe it.
let me guess you have zero female friends and you're a man
let me guess you have zero female friends and you're a man
Divorce and get full custody.
Keep the evidence, it will help you achieving this.
we do that all the time. It's not a solution, it's a totally different thing to be alone in your house than it is to be sharing space but doing different things.
he does. But the dynamic with my friends is not quite as free and loose as it is when he's around. It's different.
Could you explain to me both of these things why you think so? I seriously don't get it. What can't you do when he's around, both you alone and when your friends are there?
Unless there’s other examples, the engagement text is completely innocent. Where was him wanting to have sex her?
As for the bill, he supports her and she takes advantage of it. You should absolutely be upset about that and consider it a deal breaker.
While my real advice is that you get out of this, if that doesn’t happen, just state the facts and be firm about it. You know the truth. He’s lied to you and he’s supporting her.
But he said he’d take care of it. Have him prove it.
I would probably tell him one more time that you need help and from here on out you’re only taking care of your household things- food, cleaning, etc. do the bare minimum if you feel you need to do something like clean a shared space. Eventually he’ll need clean clothes and he’ll have to go do laundry. I’m sorry there isn’t a better option. I just don’t know if one!!
Is this your relationship? Let your friend have her relationship and you yours. I mean talk to her about your concerns but other than that I’d stay out of it
@seek therapy after contact is a fancy excuse.
Dude I've worked as a line cook and a waitress and the line cooking was way less exhausting
If she leaves? Well…sometimes the trash takes itself out.
Yeah he seems like he’s not upset and he said sorry. He was trying to talk more but I felt like I pressured him, so I’ve been responding slowly.
Thank you! The first insightfull comment yet. The thing is I do love her. But I'm NOT afraid of letting her go, I don't have low self esteem and im ok with her leaving if shes not happy with me. Her having a girlfriend and me not being involved is out of the question if she's with me. I brought it up to reddit just because I felt like her asking that was a red flag & I wanted other people's opinions. I was never considering being ok with that but hearing what other people had to say solidify my feelings. I discussed it with her and I told her I feel that it would be unfair for the same reasons you just stated.
Her cheating in any way with a man or women would result in the end of the relationship, same goes for me. She & I can do whatever we want but not without consequences. I respect her and MYSELF enough not to cheat I feel like she respects me enough to uphold those same boundries but I could be completely wrong! But I would absolutely rather find out sooner than later.
Really this is about trying to find a compromise. Maybe something like we could have a 3sum (something I want) but I would agree not to do “X Y or Z” with the girl (something she wants). Or maybe there's another way altogether?
Absolutely THIS ^^^
Oftentimes, a bf/fiancé/husband is only a deterrent if he is there in-person!
OP should ask his sisters, female cousins, female coworkers, fiancée about
how persistent men can be how asshole-y they can be over a rejection no matter how 'nicely' stated how unsafe women feel in general on a daily basis
I think OP would find it eye-opening!
I wish they would require you to take courses before you are allowed to buy a gun.
Guns are not dangerous, people with guns are, especially people with no experience with a gun.
I’m in Florida btw.
It's okay for people to change their minds and readjust their boundaries. His opinion on it is important to the relationship. You can bring up the fact that something bothers you or is a dealbreaker without demanding that your partner change for you – you let them make that decision on their own, and then see what happens.