This post and so many others are why people side eye age gaps. Like if you’re partner was a hedge fund manager thinking about buying you condo. You taking care of him like you’re his mother.
There's two options. Either you sacrifice time to spend with your partner which in a relationship should be a given and you accept you can't juggle your workload 24/7 which is absolutely insane and would drive the sanest and most resilient person to a burnout and maybe cut one club short or you break up and let your girlfriend find a partner who is willing to spend a bit of time with her. End of the story.
I’d break up. So many stay in unwanted relationships because of kids. I think that is doing these children a disservice. Your kid is also only a year old, s/he won’t remember anything. It’s better they grow up in two happy homes, than one broken home filled with resentment, mistrust and bad feelings. It can also give them a wrong impression on what to expect from a partner and a relationship, and what that partner has a right to expect in return.
This post and so many others are why people side eye age gaps. Like if you’re partner was a hedge fund manager thinking about buying you condo. You taking care of him like you’re his mother.
I think he is jealous. You are young, disciplined, strong, fit, etc.
He is having a sad reaction to your recent improvements. It’s called a mid-life crisis.
Be the bigger man (no pun intended) & just walk away when he tries to pick a fight. Think of him as old man & walk away.
There's two options. Either you sacrifice time to spend with your partner which in a relationship should be a given and you accept you can't juggle your workload 24/7 which is absolutely insane and would drive the sanest and most resilient person to a burnout and maybe cut one club short or you break up and let your girlfriend find a partner who is willing to spend a bit of time with her. End of the story.
I’d break up. So many stay in unwanted relationships because of kids. I think that is doing these children a disservice. Your kid is also only a year old, s/he won’t remember anything. It’s better they grow up in two happy homes, than one broken home filled with resentment, mistrust and bad feelings. It can also give them a wrong impression on what to expect from a partner and a relationship, and what that partner has a right to expect in return.
He doesn't need to answer cause Jo one ever cared for his answer
For some reason I cant see the replies but I’ve seen them from the notifications. Thank you all for the advice I really do appreciate it.