Thank you for “friend” perspective. I don’t have friends so I lost sight of that. I know that my future will be better and I do want to be a priority not an option.
People make bad decisions all the time. I am sure everyone around you makes tons. You're not being a friend if its conditional on them never fucking up.
Most people would tell you to end things once you know you're not compatible. I do understand your reluctance to break up right after the first time you have sex, though. But you also don't want to lead her on and let her get more attached to you.
You could certainly try dating/sex with her a little longer to see if things improve–sex often gets better as you get more comfortable with the other person–before actually ending things. but don't wait TOO long.
May I ask if it was out of nowhere or if she gradually stopped until it came to that situation?
Are you not going to tell us how long you’ve been together when that’s clearly part of the issue here….?
Thank you for “friend” perspective. I don’t have friends so I lost sight of that. I know that my future will be better and I do want to be a priority not an option.
People make bad decisions all the time. I am sure everyone around you makes tons. You're not being a friend if its conditional on them never fucking up.
Well, we actually matched on the dating app so, I could jokingly chat with her on the app
Most people would tell you to end things once you know you're not compatible. I do understand your reluctance to break up right after the first time you have sex, though. But you also don't want to lead her on and let her get more attached to you.
You could certainly try dating/sex with her a little longer to see if things improve–sex often gets better as you get more comfortable with the other person–before actually ending things. but don't wait TOO long.
Good luck.