That's not silly, it's co-dependence. What you are implying is that you don't value yourself enough to care for your own needs. It's the opposite of selfish and just as harmful. You have to maintain a healthy balance between taking care of your own needs and your partner's needs for a relationship to work properly.
Yes, that is a deal-breaker for sure. He wants you to lose weight so he'll be attracted to you, not because he is concerned about your health or well-being. You deserve better.
twice a day?!
That's not silly, it's co-dependence. What you are implying is that you don't value yourself enough to care for your own needs. It's the opposite of selfish and just as harmful. You have to maintain a healthy balance between taking care of your own needs and your partner's needs for a relationship to work properly.
Based on what you've written, it seems that all you've done is swap one manipulative narcissist for another.
Yes, that is a deal-breaker for sure. He wants you to lose weight so he'll be attracted to you, not because he is concerned about your health or well-being. You deserve better.