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Date: January 9, 2023
I’m a wife who wishes her husband would game 2-3 nights a week. I love him but he has no life outside of me and it’s exhausting.
Instead of everyone just downvoting my post and comments, maybe tell me your view on this ..
be a little civil and elaborate why my views are wrong in your opinion? By just downvoting and running, it just feels like “ur feelings and opinion is wrong, ur the villain bye”
My point exactly, if the kiss is platonic and means nothing, then shouldn’t be a big deal, right?
There is no true reason for you to forgive this cheater. Especially since he even tried to ruin your mental health by calling you crazy. There is no happiness to be found with a cheater.
Leave him.
I second his. Sexual compatibility is something that changes with hormones and stress too, specially if the couple wants to have kids. I think the reality here is based off on how open minded both are, and that can genuinely be discussed through communication
Was just about to say.. this is not very relevant depending on where in the world you love/what your family's culture is. I'm Taiwanese, and my mother's opinion will always matter to me. Because I respect her.
I am 27 and my cousin is her age and we are definitely NOT in the same stage. She just finished college, is living at home and looking for her first job while I have a career, have lived by myself for many years, have a serious relationship and I am thinking about having kids and buying a house. Definitely not similar stages at all. That’s how life progresses usually.
Well congrats on the upcoming breakup. Sorry man.
Oh this guy sucks, you don't have to talk to him about anything you don't want to. He knows you're relying on him for the visa and the “nothing has to change” part is him looking for easy access to you. This situation seems like a huge catalyst for change in your life and I know he seems like a really big deal in your life right now but at the end of the day he's not the one for you. Make choices that are going to benefit you and move on from this dude. He's not worth the headache. When you have to be around him you can remain neutral and don't let him pressure you into anything you don't feel comfortable with or aren't ready to talk about. It's okay to say “I need my space please, I'm currently manifesting and protecting my peace”
Why wont he take no for an anwer?
To answer this question of yours specifically… because that is who he is as a person. He doesn't take “no” as an answer. He badgers and badgers until he gets his way. You are STILL his f-buddy, so, why stop if he could actually wear you down and get it?
Want it to stop? Cut him off and cut him out. Let him go badger some other f-buddy for it if you don't wish to oblige his fantasy.
Sometimes people need to hit rock bottom in order to change. For example, alcoholics and drug addicts often don’t quit until they lose their job or their family or come close to losing their life. Your bf suddenly realizes he’s at risk of losing you, so he’s willing to change b/c he finally realizes just how problematic his behavior has been. That’s the optimistic view. And it might the truth.
Or maybe he’s just scared, so he’s temporarily putting in the effort long enough to keep you around, and then he’ll resort back to his old ways. Honestly, the fact that he’s willing to go to couples therapy is a good sign, though. You’re totally within your rights to end this relationship anyway, but you also wouldn’t be crazy to give it another shot, now that he’s apparently willing to change, especially if you feel like you’ve already given him enough chances. Only time will tell how serious he is about changing.
The letter is beautifully written. Send it so she knows she is loved and you are thinking of her. She may be in an emotional turmoil and this letter will give her the pick me up she needs. Nobody knows what's going on in a person's life. A kind word is all it takes to make a difference. You wrote the letter for yourself and for her. Send it with no expectations.
It's better to just leave, you don't share values regarding relationship. She is at least texting, but likely sexting other men.
It’s really hard to hear all of this perspective. I really value you taking the time to tell me. It’s the only support some people get at times.
It’s really hard to hear all of this perspective. I really value you taking the time to tell me. It’s the only support some people get at times.
This, and, his unwillingness to include her in his social media presence is… sketchy to me. Like, I get not being into social media, but I don’t get deliberately not including my partner in mine.
OP are you part of his real-life social circle? Like, do you know his friends and they know you?
Consider the impact to her already obviously significant insecurities here. As others have said lube is a thing and will solve the practical difficulties of your intimacy, but for her sake it is pretty crucial you make an honest determination about whether this will work long term. If you think it will, great. Maybe a therapist or even a heart to heart with your GP can help you work through whatever reservations you have about eczema, it's really not a big deal. If you don't envision that happening though, NBD, don't beat yourself up over it and simply tell her you don't think this will work long term.
Clocks ticking though. Please don't feed her a bunch of happy news while you're actually still trying to decide.
Way to go, that's awesome! I'm in therapy too, I wouldn't be married right now if I weren't.
Have an awesome life ?
Yeah, “old enough” I see. ?
Lmao okay for someone who wants to comment on my post and try helping you definitely aren’t. It was just a question. All you could’ve said was “yes I’ve done it” or “no” if you’re so okay and open about it.
You're only official if his friends & family know you exist.
I have to forfeit 5 years of love.
You can't forfeit 5 years of love when there is no 5 years of love to forfeit.
Some good reading:
Co-dependency vs Love Boundaries in Dating Facing Love Addiction
It's not fair to expect you to move to where she wants to stay, without any willingness to move to where you want to stay. You might want to consider why you're still attempting to have a relationship with someone who clearly places her own perspective and wants far ahead of yours. Find a partner who wants to share a life together, with both of you having equal say in important matters like where to live.
Boy the way I would’ve been skipping to Planned Parenthood ????
i agree, unfortunately she has a lack of independence sense that, since there's no way for me to communicate with her, i can just hope she'll fix in the next few months with this situation having happened
Babes, it’s time for a change.
You want what’s best for him. But it’s obvious he isn’t thinking the same for you.
He totally ignored what you both planned for his own selfish reasons, and you’re right—this is a stab in the back. How can he expect you to be okay with that?
YOU have made so many sacrifices for him.
You’re wasting your entire life, keeping yourself frozen in place, for him.
It’s time to move on.
It’s YOUR life.
Start living it for YOU.
He didn’t stick with the plan. Fine. You will. You do exactly what you had planned to do. Leave him where he is… If he can’t make a sacrifice for you what is the point of this relationship?
You will regret it if you don’t chase your dreams.
It’s time…wishing you a blessing…?
We've already talked about this. She doesn't want to talk about it with her family as she says it will cause them to worry when they don't need to and she also believes that our relationship is ultimately our own business. But she also said she is totally fine if I want to talk with my friends / family about it. Which I felt I needed as I did not want to live a lie.
So maybe then that's enough for me to move on as she has?
He’s deranged, get away from him
I mean the fakeup breakup text is a thing, they still see eachother for work so who knows it might continue. She is a walking red flag and hypocrite at that
My boyfriend (well,soon ex) did the same… 6 months ago he was ready looking for a job closer to me as we are in a semi ldr and now, 2 weeks ago out of the blue he tells me he accepted an offer in the making in Scandinavia, no warning no nothing, not a single thought about me or with me in the back if his head. It's his future, his life, but I am in the middle of a catastrophic university crisis (law school, constantly failing, I think about just switching to another subject, etc.) And he knows damn well I cannot move and I will not move.
This showed me he was not who I thought he was. To me, this man was the man I really thought I could settle down and imagine having kids with him, but no… It's all dust and broken dreams now. And that's okay. It's his life. His decision and I'm NEVER going to beg a man to stay in my life so that I won't be alone. Nah, I'm too good for that. If a man does this, without thinking an ounce about You and your relationship, then he's not committed to it and certainly it worth it.
Kids aren’t something you compromise on. If you’re not 100% sure you want kids, don’t have them. But she does need to move along because her clock is ticking biologically.
Don’t have kids to save the relationship. I know quite a few people—men and women—who didn’t really want kids and were coerced into it with the threat of kids or divorce. All of them are good parents and love their kids but they resented the hell out of their spouse eventually and all are divorced.
I don't understand buddy
For the edit you have to break up with him, no questions asked. Get rid of him.
You could have said you had a headache and needed to lie down, so people didn’t assume the worst that you were just avoiding her, being rude and wanting to have a nap.
Maybe I should add this: I love my GF – I don't want her to go.
I get that people always say that the kids come first. I think of it more this way – I am responsible for my kids welfare. Maybe me showing him a loving couple is worthwhile and don't they say that you should put on your oxygen mask first, because if you aren't okay, then how can you be there for others?
Wait… your friend group is his ex, his exes brother and exes sister? Girl, he didn’t kick you out of a friend group lol… he went out with his ex and his exes family.
Thank you for the thoughtful answer. I'm definitely gonna take your advice and wait to see how she's feeling. I really like the girl and just wanna communicate what im feeling so it doesn't boil… i should honestly probably take some time and get back to my own hobbies, too, but I still feel like it's important to try and talk to her as bottling it up won't solve any problems. Again, thanks!
Omg, it's still over your head. Here's a hint, nowhere did I say sex work was beneath other jobs. As for the rest, I give up trying to explain it to you. Your a lost cause.
That’s stupid
So eyepatch over makeup or sunglasses?
She has always been trans, she came out two years ago.
This just isn't how any of this works.
She's not entitled to the ring, but hopefully she and her sister can find a way to celebrate her grand-daughter-ness without further pain nor OP giving up her property.
Dang, you scrolled 2 years of messages plus had time to read all the other messages of all the women he talks to? Impressive.
But if you're at the point of not wanting your partner to go out, you clearly don't trust them enough to be in a relationship.
And it definitely sounds like he is trying to tell her to not go out based on the way he phrased the title and the post. It isn't normal to try to restrict your partner's movements like that. If you're with something that makes you feel like the only way to get them to behave is to set inappropriately controlling rules then just walk away.
Use your mouth and fingers. If it doesn't help then get a new girlfriend!