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Date: January 6, 2023
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You shouldve told your fiance the moment you found out you could possibly be the dad or at minimum the moment you decided to agree and do the paternity test! It might be a little to late for you to save the relationship
Excellent response
Oh look, an age gap.
Dan, would where you stand and probably be happy to meet your partner
Best of luck, and congrats on your freedom!
Obviously you do want her to sacrifice her comfort for you. However, if you compliment her profusely and let her know how much you appreciate it when she does dress up, it might make it worth it to her …
Hi OP, here is some practical advice on the next steps you need to take ASAP.
First, you need to save any scrap of evidence, no matter how small, in multiple locations. For example, save those videos on your phone, on your computer, on the cloud, etc.
Second, and this one I’ll get downvoted for but is EXTREMELY important, tell ALL your mutal friends and family what happened. Don’t be vague at all about this either – “I was sent video evidence of her cheating on me with three other guys at her bachelorette”.
The reasoning is this: if she is brazen enough to cheat publically with multiple guys, lie to you repeatedly and trickle truth (“it’s not what it looks like!” – bull-fucking-shit), then she will undoubtedly lie to others to save her reputation. It may sound weird, but people tend to believe the side they hear first, so you need to get that first-mover advantage NOW.
Third, get STD tested, this is very unlikely the first time she has cheated on you, it’s just the first time she’s been caught.
Fourth, consider contacting the friend who sent you the videos, she may have more evidence that could prove useful – at the very least thank her for being a standup person.
Finally, take care of yourself. Getting wasted is a natural reaction to the trauma you’ve just been put through – but it will do you zero good to continue drowning your sorrows. For example, if you spend the following days, weeks or months drinking and drinking and drinking, she can say “well I may have cheated but OP is an alcoholic abusive asshole, and I just didn’t know a better way to get away from him”. Don’t give her ammunition to use against you, because at this point you must assume she will desperately twist anything and everything you do to make you the greater villain.
….? Honesty is something that should be very normal in a relationship, let alone a marriage. I would never humor someone to the point that I had a crush on them in a monogamous relationship, period.
Go wrong..? What this will actually do is give you a (potentially painful) crystal clear picture of your marriage, and of your husband. If your husband is not 100% supportive of the fact that you do not want this, your husband does not respect you, period. if your husband attempts to manipulate or coerce you into this, he is an abuser, period.
I feel like you are less afraid of bursting his bubble and more afraid of bursting your own. The fact that your husband didn’t let this go the first time you turned him down is already indicative that he neither respects nor actually loves you, which is incredibly difficult to accept so trust me I understand the denial you’re in I’ve been there with my abusive ex.
Perfect example of why you don’t marry someone just because you love each other.
Loving anyone doesn’t mean you will work together in life perfectly. Perhaps you should’ve given it another year.
What you need to realize right now is, the time you’ve put into this person and the marriage does not equate to you having to be miserable. Because I hate to tell you, it’s not getting any better. For him, this is a pattern that he doesn’t have to change because he has done the same thing four times over now. For you, this was your second times a charm hoping that this would go much better than your last, which is totally understandable. But you need to remember that energy and feel that right now, you still deserve to be happy. Leave him. Because he will not change.