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please leave this man and never look back, what he said is not a joking matter and then he has the audacity to be upset???
please, please leave while you can.
Must be certain things he feels he can talk And joke about with her that he can’t with u
She has expressed her desire to “have many children with him.” This was not the question.
sorry you're going through this but glad you are taking steps to hopefully get you out of this. I'd do a quick google search on legally what you can do. when you say you own the house I am assuming both names are on the deed?
Might have two options, buy him out or agree to sell it and you each take your cut and walk away. That is typically how house issues are handled in a divorce in the states, not always, but typically. make a list of anything that is joint so you know what needs to be separated, including things like cell phone plans.
definitely keep things quiet make silent moves while gathering information. Maybe even reach out to a therapist to help you navigate how to have certain conversations with them. Wishing you the best!
The dog needs to be put down. The fact that it has killed mean it can and will do it again.
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The saddest part for you will be that if the kid is not yours, you will still need to take care of the child since in the eyes of the court you would be considered the father by default. Especially if you signed the birth certificate.
It’s not needlessly withholding information, it’s being betrayed by the person I would have given trust and loyalty to. ??♀️
I might be late but I just read through your posts in your profile. I think you should second guess staying with him. He knows you have an abandonment problem and he’s playing with your emotions. He’s not a reassuring partner. He will not stop doing this, he did it many times before and just won’t stop.
I don’t know if you’re in therapy for your trauma but he’s really not the man to be on your side to make you feel good.
Yes you love him but if nothing changes on his part you will be dealing with anxiety and more if you marry him.
Seems wrong not to send a text to ask how you’re doing, so why don’t you send a text? Why’s he’s gotta be the one reaching out when you’re the one having outbursts?
The continent of Asia would respectfully disagree
Why are you still with her?
End it. You will never get over this. Your partner has betrayed you in an unforgivable way. She cheated. And she lied about it.
I don't know. I just woke up with her calling me a loser, a useless PoS, a few other insults and then kicking me out of bed.
Or she phrased it that way because she genuinely wasn't attempting to accuse or thinking that her husband was cheating? I'm seeing a lot of “well, but the implication!” comments, but how could she have phrased the question to make it even less accusatory? There are very valid reasons to want to know if someone who shouldn't be in your bedroom has been in your bedroom that have nothing to do with cheating spouses, and I'm not sure there's any way to ask a question involving a bedroom, a babyitter and a husband in such a way that it can't be read as an accusation.
Thanks for this! Finally an empathetic person on this site.
For clarification, we used to see each other twice a week (work from home dates, a weekend outing, etc.) and she isn't losing interest because we're all over each other when together in person. We genuinely enjoy each other. We just live 40 min away and it's not always convenient to meet up.
She can't always schedule a set day every week because sometimes a client meeting is scheduled out of the blue and our plans would scramble. For important dates, she does put her foot down, but lately I think she's equally excited and stressed by new opportunities at work that there's only so much RAM in her headspace lol.
I know there's no guarantee with this, but how can I make sure she doesn't lose interest as soon as I tell her I might lose interest? Because I still love her, and it's not interest I'm losing. It's fuel. It's worry that down the road I'll be starting to fantasize what it'd be like to have someone make me feel as much of a priority. I just want it to be her, and I know that she has that potential because she's done it for months before.
That's the part I find really difficult to understand.
I'd think that the sexual trauma might have happened at a much, much younger age. Bed wetting does happen when children are sexually abused.
And it's not that I doubt the ability of teenagers to sexually assault each other, but 16 years old is quite old. They've already experienced puberty and they have awareness about sexuality.
Rape can happen, but like, how fiercely was the ex-gf raping him that he was defenseless, like a child, and had to resort to urinating to escape?
Is he lying about sexual abuse from a much younger age?
It's so complicated because we now have two 18 year olds wanting couple's therapy. And I remember how stubborn 18 year olds are. If his trauma response is peeing on someone and the bed, it's already so far past any 18 yrs old ability to handle the situation. It will eventually be overwhelming because it would be overwhelming for much older adults.
Also, there's this really unhealthy notion that you have to sacrifice everything to save your loved one, even from themselves. And, no. You don't.
You always need to make sure to put your own oxygen mask on. Self care first.
When someone drowns they panick and sometimes pull their rescuer down with them. Wisdom is knowing how to grab them to cause pain so they don't kill you.
OP needs to break up with him. Full stop. He needs complex therapy and healing that only works if he's single.
Then OP needs therapy for herself to realize that she's not his gd damned healer.
And you can, but lots of folks don't because constantly nudging someone is more aggravating than ignoring it.
Don't contact her again and seek therapy. Hope she does the same.
If this is the level that upsets you, paired with your anger issues you seriously need to consider therapy. This isn’t going to just go away. You have serious issues that are way beyond standard immaturity.
Ugh, good luck! But as a lawyer who HATED law school, def make sure it’s what you want to do before spending that money or taking out loans. 3 years isn’t that long/worth it if you’re going into 6 figure debt, and then have to take a big law job to pay it off, where you work 13 hour days pretty much forever (or until you make managing partner). Truly wish you the best but want to make sure you actually know what you’re getting into if you’re a mom and trying to increase your earning potential.
You let him pay off your student loans. Girl you're not fooling anyone
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My husband won’t tell me where he lives and doesn’t understand that I’m having trouble trusting him.
My husband and I are living separated right now because of some relationship issues that we had a month before our daughter was born. We’ve been able to work through nearly all of our issues but this one.
I’m terrified that he’s hiding something from me and he’s hurt that I don’t trust him but still won’t tell me where he lives. What do I do
Edit to add more info: We got married before getting pregnant I’ve never sent her to his house so I always know where she is and that she’s safe I don’t need people telling me that I’m a predator, bad mother, or insane
You never actually read the post and your just jumping up and down making the same stupid comment
It isn't some magical coincidence that it really went downhill after you got married. She had you locked down, so she stopped pretending. She is doing the minimum she thinks she can now.
The advice is to not spend another few years in this situation before you realize it's not going to improve. It's more likely that it will get worse. She isn't interested in having sex with you more often and it's seemingly not because of anything you do or don't do, it's because she doesn't want to. If it were a medication she was on, or mental health issues, or division of labor in your relationship, those are things to work on, but it doesn't sound like any of those things.
You're not going to “fix” that, because her natural libido isn't something to fix. It just makes you incompatible.
I have had 7 misscariages. I know how you feel.
If my man had done what yours is doing to you now I would never ever stay. It proves how little he cares for you.
I think you deserves someone who wants to comfort, support and connect in your sorrow.
I feel for you. Hug!
My dear I'm so sorry for what you are going through. It's completely selfish on his part to leave you to “deal with it” maybe it's his way of escaping what's happened but he's not the one left feeling empty and completely alone. Is there ANYONE you can depend on to help you through what's happening to you? As your “fiance” clearly doesn't want to support you and only thinks about himself.
My cousin has lost two in the past year and her husband was there for her and her entire family and friends.
You may not like this but if this happens again will he be there for you or leave again? You may need to consider what your next step is and if you truly want a relationship with this man. Especially if he refuses to be with you in your greatest heart shattering agony.
oh no honey, that is called abuse mentality.
trust me i grew up thinking i deserved being beat up by my mom over forgeting small things or maybe dropping a plate. i had to do so much therapy to stop hearing my mom calling me useless inside my head.
your mother is abusive and you would benefit from therapy and low contact with her
The people for whom it's working don't need to ask for advice lol
“Hey… hope, both you and my sheets are getting better.
As one set is missing now and i don't have over many… could you please replace them when we meet the next time?”
Or anything along the lines.
Learn to read dumbass. Stop playing dumb I wasn’t talking about 26 and 20. I was replying to you saying as long as they are legal age it’s ok when it’s not.
That must have been nice. My parents both moved on got engaged, remarried, and my mother had my half brother when I was 6. I can’t see either of my step-parents being comfortable hanging out with each other and the divorced spouse. Lol My parents we civil but the less they interacted the better.
“Your” girlfriend
I actually already have them in therapy, it’s been really helpful for them because your right my son sees what’s happening and it effects him a lot
This is 100% what is going on. This specific situation gets posted about 4 times a month on this sub. They usually have at the bottom of the post “Update: She wanted to bang her new coworker. We are now broken up.”
Yeah. Weaponized incompetence.
You were rude. It doesn't take a lot of energy to greet someone with a polite hello. You could have excused yourself by saying you weren't feeling well and going to go lie down. Then instead of apologizing, you were dismissive of your wife's feelings. You don't get her to move past it. You sincerely apologize for your behavior and then do better next time.
uh it doesn't seem like you're a pedo. You didn't do anything and you were under 18, teens do date.
Your GF is way older than you and might be projecting her own insecurities on you. Also it sounds like she's trying to take away the things you enjoy. You might want to take a look at your relationship overall.
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