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I think what some people might be latching onto is the “let me know when he hangs out with people” It’s 100% fair to say “hey, if you’re gonna be busy for an extended duration, can you let me know?”
Talking about hanging out seems like you want to control those habits, and I don’t get the impression that’s what you’re trying to do, I think you just didn’t know what you actually wanted to ask for.
That’s a normal weight fluctuation for a woman. I typically put on a few extra pounds in the winter months and shed it in the summer when I’m more active. Your boyfriend is rude and fatphobic at worst and ignorant at best. Health issues from weight gain don’t occur until you’ve gained significantly more than you have. You are a healthy weight. Please keep taking your anti-depressants and don’t date anyone who makes you miserable. They don’t make a pill that fixes a boyfriend who hurts your feelings.
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I think its more the fact that I broke our deal and her trust more than what I looked at
I’m sure it hurts and is hard to accept But It took very little for another woman to turn his head and lie about it to you. He’s in the fog and full of endorphins
This is not in any way, shape or form “something so small.” This is a HUGE DEAL. Your boyfriend's brother tried to take advantage of you in a disgusting way. Tell your boyfriend and his mother what the brother did. Tell the brother and mother that their stay has now ended, and if they don't want to go home they are welcome to rent a hotel nearby, but they can no longer stay with you.
If your boyfriend sides with his brother over you, then I'm sorry but you need to break up with him. The age gap and timeline with you and your boyfriend is already questionable; if he can't have your back 100% in this scenario, then he is not a good man and you deserve better.
Find you a man (or woman) that will accept all of you. I promise they’re out there. I know it hurts now but it won’t always.
Or he's not telling us the whole story?? I mean he said he gets 'impatient' but it's not a big issue but it's an issue enough for her to not want to raise a child in that environment. He said even tho it's not a big issue he made a lot of 'progress' in the two weeks' separation?? He's completely biased and looking for validation
Yeah. People are weird. Human brains suck at processing risk, chance, and theoretical situations. “Maybe one day, if…” is a hell of a drug.
End your relationship with your boyfriend. That relationship has no chance of being repaired.
Tell your mom everything. She is best suited to help guide you through this horrible time.
I’m terribly sorry you have to deal with this.
Somebody very rightly in the comments pointed out polyamorous is a lifestyle not sexuality. May it codependence or love but you need to go back to monogamy or have to be content sharing your bf with her. Anyway somebody always get hurt. You are the one currently hurting rn. End the polyamorous and go back to monogamy. You can't have both.
He doesn’t listen to you about ANYTHING that is important to you! Why stay? Go on vacation as a single woman and have a good time.
Okay, thanks
why would you say they're not compatible? they could get married and be perfect for each other.
if he’s doing this now and you’ve only been together 6 months, can you imagine how shady he’ll be down the line? you don’t need anyone who feels comfortable talking to another person intimately like that.
I would have found that uncomfortable from anyone, including someone I was attracted to.
Pick up artist type behavior is off putting to most women.
It doesn't really matter how a guy feels, you can admire it but I don't think he was hoping to catch dudes with his bravado. If most women would not feel comfortable, changing tact would be wise.
It doesn't really matter how a guy feels, you can admire it but I don't think he was hoping to catch dudes with his bravado. If most women would not feel comfortable, changing tact would be wise.
But that will happen anyway won't it if it his.
Giving advice is what men do when listening to others, it means he cares enough to try and help your problems, therapists do that as well and my father gives me advice when I need to talk about something.
And you're more obsessed with putting this label on me than you are with this original post – which conveniently you dropped immediately once I called you out for being an idiot.
On top of that, what's with all the retroactive edits to every single one of your responses? They don't make you sound any less braindead don't worry – you can save yourself the effort.
Typical Redditor moment. Lost the argument so focus on the person LOL. Gtfoh.
First get a restraining order asap
Yes, my idea is to break up.
Do not make someone a priority when to them, you are only an option. You are an option, and not an important one. He won't even let you hang out for a couple of hours to nap?
Also, never beg. If you have to beg, it is not worth it. Your SO should be happy be spend time with you. Make an effort. Try to accommodate. Be kind when they can't. This dude is…none of that.
You are 18. Learn everything you can from this guy (as in, what NOT to put up with) break up, and Go Forth to Date Others. Preferably several Others.
Again, what are your solutions directly? The child has the support of OP's family. The father is already trying to contact OP through various means. Even if contact is established trough a lawyer, the father still has the adress and other means of reaching OP.
And even with shared custody: OP can't change what happens at the fathers house.
I mean I broke up because she has anger issues.
Been clean 7 years. Never was a drinker and I’m still not. My gf occasionally having a drink at bedtime is not something that bothers me. But maybe I’m wrong? I don’t know.
Thank you for the feedback, I do feel the same way that it’s too early for drama in the relationship. I am trying to believe her that he is just a friend and nothing else, but the work relationship that turned to something more was that same we had together.
The issue isn't just that he harassed u. But that he is probably also doing it to other women. I understand ur comfortable in ur job, but girl come on, u need to stand up for urself. And I can assure u, he is not untouchable. Did u screenshot what he sent u, or so u have proof of any kind? Because if so, he's screwed. He may give off that he is untouchable to make u feel like there is nothing u can do, but the reality is sexual harassment does not make any comp any look good. And he is sure to be immediately fired or (if the company is sketchy) re-located. But I can promise u, this will not go over well. Also, u can report to the police as well as to HR/ however ur company works.
This is lovely. You know, I’m like your boyfriend. I love an aquiline nose. It makes you look Royal!
Youre helping so fucking much thank you so much. One last question, do you think if I showed him the replies to this post (as its anonymous strangers and wont affect him in that sense), it would give what Im saying some more credibility? Or is that a terrible idea that will just cause another anrgument? I fear he will feel offended or defeatist. I just want him to see. So we can fix it. Or try. But, i have no credibility or any hope of getting through by myself
It would have been a more believable story if you said they had found a porn video of someone who looked similar to your gf. You just reached too far with saying they somehow managed to find someone who just happened to look exactly like your gf and shot a porno with her in one day.
No. It happened to a friend of mine.
You should run from her as soon as you read this.
This is a nightmare of a relationship.
Learning her lesson would mean figuring out why she is angry, violent, and mean to someone she supposedly loves. Not telling you to forget it and move on. She hasn’t learned anything and continues to put herself first. You want to marry someone who has your best interests at heart, and vice versa. Basically, your ex-girlfriend got a wake up call, but she hasn’t gotten out of bed yet. If you stay, you’re just letting her hit the snooze button and go back to sleep.
He was sexually assaulted by his gf. Yelling at her was a completely reasonable response. People who sexually assault others deserve to be yelled at and have their feelings hurt at a bare minimum.
You cannot force some to be who he is not. You need either to accept this or part your ways.
When you come across the right guy, he won’t be drawn to your best friend.
If I stopped being friends with people who have cheated in the past, I literally would have no friends. Ok maybe 1or two.
Your husband doesn't seem very interested in how you feel or what your motivations might be. He seems primarily interested in telling you how awful you are and how much you should beg for his forgiveness.
And it’s like he wants me to go back to being scared to say the wrong thing to anyone.
That isn't at all how I would take his feedback.
I understand some of the things I say aren’t very nice but it’s the hard truth most of the time
Sounds like you've gone off the deep end. Rather than find a happy medium where you have self-confidence to stand up for yourself and express an opinion, you've gone all the way to nuclear. Generally speaking, people who say things like but 'it’s the hard truth most of the time' are lashing out and hurting others to make themselves feel better or to make themselves appear to be bulletproof – 'I'll hurt them before they can hurt me. That will ensure no one can touch me. If I lose friends so what? If the truth hurts so what?'
If this is what you consider successfully changing as a person, you are in for a lonely life. Sorry, the truth hurts.
Lawyer up buddy. she may not be reasonable when it is really time to divorce.
Yes, he said everything is alright, he never wants to talk about our issues and he always says “we just have to put more effort”
I don't know why you're getting downvoted, I can't imagine planning for a child after just 2.5 years of knowing someone. How can so many people act like having kids is a smaller commitment than marriage? They're so casual about it smh
You do understand that your boyfriend has a job that kills other people’s children? He has also put your life in danger because a drug dealer is accessed by addicts by addicts and competitors. Why have you not packed up and left yet? You could very easily end up with a lengthy prison sentence alongside your deadbeat boyfriend.
I do not regret being in my 20s
Girl why are you in love with him??✋? he doesn‘t sound like a good guy and is manipulative. Go No Contact and move on cuz he‘s a pos. You deserve better.
“Doesn't want to baby sit you” lorddddd, not only is he insinuating that he wants to sleep around, but he's disrespectful to your face. DUCK! You just dodged a bullet!
Your injury is pretty intense, I don't think it'll look much better in a few days. You should use a patch. Maybe most of their discomfort was from having to look at such an injury while trying to enjoy a meal.
The vibes with the boys basically means being rude, badmouthing women, pinching waitresses' bums and hooking up with girls they've plied with drink or paid to take their clothes off. Of course you'd ruin it OP!
He wants to take a break so he can legitimately fuck with whoever, but he knows there's no future in any kind of relationship so he doesn't mind hooking up with you again once he's back.
Let him go, don't let him come back. Find a guy who'll treat you with respect.
If you do take a break, make sure you set clear boundaries on what is ok during the break and what’s not. I would hold off until he has a full STD panel when he comes back and have a talk that breaks doesn’t mean you two will always get back together. I would take some time to see if it’s beneficial for someone to prioritize a vacation over their relationship. Is this something you are willing to handle long term?