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I knew he was claustrophobic but I don’t remember him telling me about it — he still wants the ring he just doesn’t feel comfortable wearing it for long. I get that but it would have been nice to communicate that to me and not just not wear it I guess. Mentioning tattoos, tbh I personally wouldn’t get it tattooed either I just feel like it’s forcing it since he said he doesn’t know what other solution there is but he would wear it for formal events
Ok makes sense. Kinda hurts a bit though to accept tbh. I always make it a priority to stay up until midnight for the birthdays of all my loved ones so i guess i was under the impression it was a normal thing you do. And it’s the fact that it’s 12am and you are still up out hanging out with your friends and you don’t tell me happy birthday until the morning 🙁 BUt just putting it out there i have a lot of self esteem issues that i’m in therapy for so idk if i’m acting from a place of insecurity.
If you're still feeling compassionate towards her feelings about this even though what happened between them has hurt you, I'd probably try and see if there are ways that could help her find some closure that wouldn't cost you more of your memories of him. It can be difficult to deal with grief when the steps people usually associate with it happen without them. Just don't stretch out the safety of your own feelings about the whole thing.
I was with someone similar- would constantly use my past from before we met against me. He never changed, never trusted, never got over it. It was frustrating and exhausting.
It may hurt because you love him, but this relationship is unsustainable. Better to leave now.
Tell him he has to set boundaries with his mom now and stick to him, or he’s going to lose you. You also need to warn him that this will forever repeat in all future relationships he’s in, this is not a just you thing. His mom is evil and she is going to ruin his life, and he needs to man the fuck up NOW, before its too late.
Ya… time to run. Before long he won’t be hitting the wall anymore, it will be you. And the whole “pushing him to the edge” Is such a huge red flag. I’d be like um are you going to murder me..? Fuck this guy. Run.
I forgot to add that i've also been in therapy for the last 10 years for depression and adult ADHD. I do have a hard time expressing and managing emotions, but I try to balance that with actions and gestures. She wants me to be lovey cuddly with her, which is a monumental task to do since im an extremely restless person.
I knew he was claustrophobic but I don’t remember him telling me about it — he still wants the ring he just doesn’t feel comfortable wearing it for long. I get that but it would have been nice to communicate that to me and not just not wear it I guess. Mentioning tattoos, tbh I personally wouldn’t get it tattooed either I just feel like it’s forcing it since he said he doesn’t know what other solution there is but he would wear it for formal events
Ok makes sense. Kinda hurts a bit though to accept tbh. I always make it a priority to stay up until midnight for the birthdays of all my loved ones so i guess i was under the impression it was a normal thing you do. And it’s the fact that it’s 12am and you are still up out hanging out with your friends and you don’t tell me happy birthday until the morning 🙁 BUt just putting it out there i have a lot of self esteem issues that i’m in therapy for so idk if i’m acting from a place of insecurity.
If you're still feeling compassionate towards her feelings about this even though what happened between them has hurt you, I'd probably try and see if there are ways that could help her find some closure that wouldn't cost you more of your memories of him. It can be difficult to deal with grief when the steps people usually associate with it happen without them. Just don't stretch out the safety of your own feelings about the whole thing.
Block and move on. He is manipulating you.
I was with someone similar- would constantly use my past from before we met against me. He never changed, never trusted, never got over it. It was frustrating and exhausting.
It may hurt because you love him, but this relationship is unsustainable. Better to leave now.
Tell him he has to set boundaries with his mom now and stick to him, or he’s going to lose you. You also need to warn him that this will forever repeat in all future relationships he’s in, this is not a just you thing. His mom is evil and she is going to ruin his life, and he needs to man the fuck up NOW, before its too late.
You have all the value BECAUSE you're human. Please Please PLEASE never lose focus you matter.
I'm sorry certain circumstances in your life happened as they did – but you are still valid and valued despite whatever has happened.
Ya… time to run. Before long he won’t be hitting the wall anymore, it will be you. And the whole “pushing him to the edge” Is such a huge red flag. I’d be like um are you going to murder me..? Fuck this guy. Run.
I forgot to add that i've also been in therapy for the last 10 years for depression and adult ADHD. I do have a hard time expressing and managing emotions, but I try to balance that with actions and gestures. She wants me to be lovey cuddly with her, which is a monumental task to do since im an extremely restless person.