This is awful and puts everything on the wife's feelings. The response must be about OP, not wording like his wife is a delicate flower in need of protection.
“I will not be around someone who disrespects my marriage and all my life choices, while being a guest in my home no less” is enough
Yeah ofcourse she doesn’t ??♀️ So you’re saying you like her as a friend, she’s good looking but you have no feelings for her. Lots of words to still have it boil down to her only pass your marks to have sex with her every so often and nothing else. Doesn’t matter what you want tbh, I hope she stays far away from you.
Understandable. It is however a sign that you might need to look a bit into yourself. Now it is the time to work on yourself and your self confidence. Your time as a kid might be over – but you can have a lot of fun – learning how to be a man. Difficult but the earlier you start practicing- the sooner you will get the drift.
I suggest you see if you can find two books by Dale Carnegie – “How to win friends and influence” and “How to stop worrying and start living”.
You learned one thing – it is time to take your life in your own hands – these books will help you doing that.
Finally – look at yourself in the mirror and remind yourself that you tried to to some good things for your two friends. It had some consequences you had not intended – but really if something comes out of it between them you can be proud of that – and if not you will have your female friend back. Still the main point – now put yourself as the main priority and see what happens.
Let her be. Focus on getting through the pain instead of distracting yourself from it by creating chaos.
This is awful and puts everything on the wife's feelings. The response must be about OP, not wording like his wife is a delicate flower in need of protection.
“I will not be around someone who disrespects my marriage and all my life choices, while being a guest in my home no less” is enough
Same, my close friends are basically family to me and I would not drop any of them for a boy.
She should look for a partner with a more compatible sex drive.
Fuck can’t believe I hadn’t thought of it like that. Jesus
Yeah ofcourse she doesn’t ??♀️ So you’re saying you like her as a friend, she’s good looking but you have no feelings for her. Lots of words to still have it boil down to her only pass your marks to have sex with her every so often and nothing else. Doesn’t matter what you want tbh, I hope she stays far away from you.
Understandable. It is however a sign that you might need to look a bit into yourself. Now it is the time to work on yourself and your self confidence. Your time as a kid might be over – but you can have a lot of fun – learning how to be a man. Difficult but the earlier you start practicing- the sooner you will get the drift.
I suggest you see if you can find two books by Dale Carnegie – “How to win friends and influence” and “How to stop worrying and start living”.
You learned one thing – it is time to take your life in your own hands – these books will help you doing that.
Finally – look at yourself in the mirror and remind yourself that you tried to to some good things for your two friends. It had some consequences you had not intended – but really if something comes out of it between them you can be proud of that – and if not you will have your female friend back. Still the main point – now put yourself as the main priority and see what happens.