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Model from: it
Languages: en,it
Birth Date: 1991-07-29
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Date: December 13, 2022
When you get older you will realize. I felt like you at 21 then that quickly changed once my frontal cortex developed. I’m 27 and horrified now at what I thought was “ok” by men in their late 30s and 40s.
She needs a support system and friends. She needs to watch videos/read books on manipulation, gaslighting, and narcesissam.
I've had friends in these kind of relationships. They love that person so much that they trust them blindly. When it comes to believing you or them, it's always them.
I had spent the first decade 'telling' them they are in an abusive relationship. They in turn would make excuses, distance themselves from me, or try and hide things.
I became fed up and decided I didn't want to see or hear about their abuse anymore when they aren't gonna do anything about it. So I sent them some YouTube videos and told them I don't want to hear about their problems anymore. That's when it clicked for one. She ticked aaallll the boxes of mental, verbal, and emotional abuse. She was 17 when he tricked her into marrying him and he was 27. The second friend, after watching the videos admitted he was being gaslit more than he realised. He still holds hope he can change her, otherwise he's waiting for the day she breaks up with him. He has no self esteem and desperately wants to be loved, even if it's toxic. It's a choice he's making with eyes wide open. I feel for his therapist.
Your brother's gf needs people who can look out for her while she's still learning and developing. I also worry about her self worth. My friends stayed/staying in these horrible relationships because their self esteem is so low. They are so desperate for love they hold onto the delusion their SO loves them and will change. In their mind, they don't see better coming along so they put up with what they have, after all, “he/she loves me”.
If you talk to her now, she won't listen. Try and befriend her, and help her see she deserves better without talking about your brother. Your brother is where she wil get defences and shut you out. I did this with my friends by talking about my ex-husband, he was emotionally abusive and my friend was angry for me, even though she was in a worse relationship. She saw I got out of my abusive relationship and was happy, she was afraid of leaving but seeing me happy gave her hope. She did eventually leave him, and nothing bad happened to her. All her fears were in her head.
If you get to know her, I suspect there's more to her story and your brother is using it to exploit her.
Maybe you can do it? (: