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Date: December 4, 2022
If it’s cocaine, I wouldn’t even be ok with once per month. It’s a hard drug.
She's been reaching out to me
If it is legal and there isnt a problem, why havent you said your real age to her and why havent you said your real age here?? you just lying to youself.
We all make mistakes in our past. We make amends where we can to those we hurt, even if that means leaving them alone to heal. Sometimes we get into or stay in a relationship for the wrong reasons and getting out hurts someone. But what your partner is doing is abuse, he willingly had the 'affair' too and stayed after. He is using your 'guilt' to control how you feel about yourself. Most important it os now time for YOU to forgive your younger self for being young and foolish. Find someone who can embrace the new you, and give and share the life you deserve now.
What on earth does sex positive mean? It seems like a really bad term. In my world I am positive I love sex with my lovely wife. I am positive that my wife and I will continue having fun with sex until we can't. I am positive my wife and I will look for new sex things to try. I am positive my wife loves our sex life as much as I do. I am positive neither my wife or I will ever cheat. So does that make me Sex Positive?
Yeah, before we signed the lease he promised things would get better and they actually did for a bit, but now I’m worried it’s slipping again. Hopefully we can have a mature conversation, and come back from this. Otherwise I probably will be reevaluating.
Stop talking to her completely
“I don’t live by the books.” That’s how people end up in jail. ?
I can see her curiosity; he's an artist (as is she) and that means the opportunity to trade ideas, techniques, contacts, etc.
You presented her with your concerns. She answered your concerns.
– she just laughed and told that if he did try she was gonna have a great time making fun of him with me.
At this point, you either trust your gf or you don't. But you are totally being jealous, regardless, and in this instance, there is no evidence that it's justified.
I agree with like 96% of this.
I have seen miscommunication too often in my life to rule out the possibility that the gf just doesn't 'get' how big an issue this is to him.
The way he's explained it to us makes that obvious, but, maybe he never actually explained it to her in exactly the same way he's explained it to us. The fact that he comes asking for help on 'how to say it' and his biggest issue is feeling unheard indicates a very strong likelihood that his communication on the subject was ineffective.
It's possible from her point of view either there is no problem or the problem has already been resolved and she's unaware of anything to the contrary.
So I think a little more weight on “Try to get the point home better” is warranted.
But otherwise you're not wrong. I think it's a little overkill to create a scenario of the husband escalating though.
He comments a lot here…makes me think he is OPs husband
Oh this is a sign of abuse about to develop. It’s a well known control abusive tactic. The more you do it/give in and adhere to his requests, the more controlling he will become. This is not healthy nor is it normal. I would end it
Why have you not pushed the wedding?
Oh he KNEW it's the worst…he's vindictive because likes to go out dancing. How petty and immature. That Brazilian was ALL about him and his passive aggressive behavior. OP, admit you messed up by moving with this immature boy and move back home. He's gone through your $,you're in a job u don't like that stresses you out because of him and he's snarky asf. There are better fish in the sea. This guy acts like he's 20, wtf. You deserve better. Move past the gaslighting and do what's best for you.
I’ll try to keep that in mind, she’s really good at spinning at things
I’ll try to keep that in mind, she’s really good at spinning at things
6 years no sex he’s emotionally dead towards you and has a blast with this friend he is moving sweet heart your a beard in other words he’s gay
She is overreacting (and overgeneralizing) from her friend's situation. By doing the background check and telling you to go to therapy for “screening,” she is indicating that she doesn't trust you after 5 years together. Ask her how you're supposed to stay in a relationship with her if she doesn't trust you.
That how friendships work OMG
I mean it’s either you trust this man or you don’t. You’re pregnant but you can still have a fun night out with your girls. Let him go enjoy himself with his friends. Mature men won’t do shady stuff behind their women backs. So again I ask. Do you trust him?
Do you not realize what it takes to give someone a hickey? It’s not at all comparable to any of the things you’re describing. It is not just a simple kiss on the neck. There’s no gray area. And sorry, but virtually no one thinks that a hickey can be non sexual. That’s why this is so bizarre.
Your boyfriend needs to go completely NC with her and get her out if his life. She doesn't get to refuse an uber and get into your bed. She doesn't get to stay in bed whilst you go to class. Your boyfriend needs to stand up to her and get her out of your relationship.
Honestly that’s how I feel. I feel alone. No matter how much I express how I feel life just continues and she’s still here. And no to a certain extent she isn’t the problem, she does do things and oversteps quite often and that makes me not want her here but at the end of the day she is doing much better for herself and as a person I don’t have any problems with her other than just feeling overwhelmed like I can’t just be free in my own home with my children. I can’t get up in the mornings with my hair a wreck and my short shorts or no bra on running to make bottles or make breakfast for my children. I just feel watched all the time. It’s almost as if I’m living in someone else’s home. When it’s our home. Ya know. Or even when I’m in my room with my door closed playing with the baby or in the mornings when everyone’s still asleep and she hears me awake she just walks in and comes sit on my bed. Like , no? And I don’t want to be mean but no. We don’t do that. Lol so what do I do lock my bedroom door? I feel like I shouldn’t have to do that in my own house ya know. but yes outside of that I do feel alone when expressing all of this to him and a part of me knows like maybe my he is trying to make up for that part of his life when his mother wasn’t in it and she chose that life to not care for them. But in my mind it’s like she walked away from you and your siblings. She didn’t care. But now y’all want to repair that? And to a certain extent I understand. But like you’re an adult now with your own children.
Lucky he told you before you wore it on the date then. Now you get the opportunity to wear something he does like.
You feel bad about yourself in many ways and none of them are his fault. You might want to consider therapy to work on your insecurities, otherwise you're going to end up pushing him away
Entitled is bad enough. This guy is entitled AND stupid. That's a brutal combination to go through life with.
This one.
Tell her, show her, say that you’re not interested, show her you blocking him and have a girl’s night
I would say propose to go to the doctor together to talk about it
If you directly say to her “I don't think that's me it's more likely to be you” it might come as insensitive etc.
You'll see what you can do from there.
You really have to ask? ?
OP,
You need to consult and attorney now and find out your options. You know what is really about to happen and please don't be blindsided by this. You don't have to file, you can have the papers drawn up. Sit her down show her the papers and tell her the choice is hers to make.
Either cut all the shit out or you will file the papers. I would also talk with her HR department now and file a sexual harassments complaint against this person. Your wife does not need to be involved.
Right now, you have no idea what truly is going on but start making an exit plan so you don't get even more blindsided.
I was also thinking just that! If she's going to be tacky and wear white to your wedding, let her. But choose a different color gown for yourself. Red is popular in some cultures, or Gothic black lace would look awesome, too. Even pastel colors would work.
Sorry, he is grown. You cannot change him.
i promise you lol i am 100% a woman, i actually just don’t want to ask any of my friends this advice bc the school is VERY small (small midwestern liberal arts school) and i don’t want people in my business
Yeah this is why you have to look up a lovers background before getting serious.
In not telling you she lies, and worst removed your right to make an inform decision.
The sad thing is you won't ever get those images out of your head. That jealousy will likely fester. Sure it happened a long time ago but it is reality now.
Now you need to consider how you will act. Will you continue with this marriage and hope no one in your life finds out? Will you have children knowing that this may very well cause them turmoil?
And why the fuck is she still friends with these people.
I think the thing that will bother you more is that she was so willing to do acts for a stranger and wouldn't experiment with her own husband. There are many opinions on this kind of thing but most men see this as a lack of attraction. As if you were her safety net, ATM that she will star fish for but just that. Boring unimaginative sex. However a stranger gets the wild side of her.
Is it that she was a different person back then, or is it that she isn't really attracted to you? Will she do those things for men she actually is attracted to?
Make your decision ASAP, one year into a marriage is fine to bail out but if you stagger and decide to leave 5-10 years in your fucked financially. Whatever decision you make make sure you keep it until the day you die.