11 thoughts on “Charlotte-and-Hannaa live webcams for YOU!”
Can you have a good-bye kink? Cause that would be helpful.
In all seriousness that feeling you have is a relationship killer. Yes you like her but you are not sexually compatible. And that’s okay. It’s not blaming or judging, it’s just not a good match. Why would you stay in a situation that makes you feel horrible and in emotional turmoil? You’ll just drop to resentment or self-loathing. You already felt pressured to stay and play it her way when it made you feel so horrible. Best in both of you to stop the relationship now.
Hold off on this conversation until you no longer feel petty. It makes sense that you feel petty, but acting on it is going to make everything worse.
If you tell him 'you'll have to start wearing condoms unless you have a vasectomy', what happens? He'll wear condoms but feel dissatisfied and forced. Or he'll get a begrudging vasectomy without working through any of his issues about it. Whatever he decides, being petty will leave you with a resentful husband. Resentful husbands do not treat you well.
Instead, I would start thinking of this as a problem for both of you to solve together. You want to have sex, and you don't want to get pregnant. You don't want an IUD, you can't use hormonal birth control, and he doesn't want a vasectomy. These are all valid. How do the two of you resolve this?
If you talk it through this way and he decides he's willing to use condoms, it will be a active choice he's making instead of a choice you're forcing on him. Same thing if he starts considering a vasectomy or suggests other options. If he avoids the conversation, or he suggests solutions that make you resentful, hold firm to your boundaries (I don't want an IUD and I won't have sex without birth control).
She probably feels it's not safe to give a direct answer. You seem willfully oblivious to the fact that women sometimes have to do this so as not to offend and have a guy lash out in a violent way. She has told you she thinks this guy is shady. Trust her instincts. THIS IS NOT ABOUT YOU. This is about her protecting herself.
Does it matter? If he told you he watches a lot of anal porn would that make it better? Or if he says that a coworker/school buddy was talking up anal with his gf so now bf wants to?
So many people get caught up in the why, but no why would change what they're doing to make it better.
If you don't feel up to dumping him for this (being harangued and harassed about a sex act you have said you won't do IS dump worthy) I would tell him some time when you're not having sex “I don't appreciate your new obsession with anal sex. I've told you I don't want to do that and I don't appreciate you continuing to bring it up. From now on if you bring up anal sex I will stop doing whatever we're doing and walk away. I don't care if your dick is in my vagina and you're seconds away from cuming. I will get out of bed and go into another room. If you can't get it through your head to stop, sooner rather than later I'll be walking out the door for good.”
Can you have a good-bye kink? Cause that would be helpful.
In all seriousness that feeling you have is a relationship killer. Yes you like her but you are not sexually compatible. And that’s okay. It’s not blaming or judging, it’s just not a good match. Why would you stay in a situation that makes you feel horrible and in emotional turmoil? You’ll just drop to resentment or self-loathing. You already felt pressured to stay and play it her way when it made you feel so horrible. Best in both of you to stop the relationship now.
I would not be happy moving forward in the relationship knowing her true thoughts.
Hold off on this conversation until you no longer feel petty. It makes sense that you feel petty, but acting on it is going to make everything worse.
If you tell him 'you'll have to start wearing condoms unless you have a vasectomy', what happens? He'll wear condoms but feel dissatisfied and forced. Or he'll get a begrudging vasectomy without working through any of his issues about it. Whatever he decides, being petty will leave you with a resentful husband. Resentful husbands do not treat you well.
Instead, I would start thinking of this as a problem for both of you to solve together. You want to have sex, and you don't want to get pregnant. You don't want an IUD, you can't use hormonal birth control, and he doesn't want a vasectomy. These are all valid. How do the two of you resolve this?
If you talk it through this way and he decides he's willing to use condoms, it will be a active choice he's making instead of a choice you're forcing on him. Same thing if he starts considering a vasectomy or suggests other options. If he avoids the conversation, or he suggests solutions that make you resentful, hold firm to your boundaries (I don't want an IUD and I won't have sex without birth control).
I'm going to have too incredibly unconventional thoughts do what you were with them
His interest in female clothing is a little over the top. That's a pattern sometimes for male folks that have Interests in women's clothing.
And I'm also curious if there's anything kinky or dominant in this behavior. Him wanting to dress you
I'm going to have too incredibly unconventional thoughts do what you were with them
His interest in female clothing is a little over the top. That's a pattern sometimes for male folks that have Interests in women's clothing.
And I'm also curious if there's anything kinky or dominant in this behavior. Him wanting to dress you
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I'll be sure to truly say what I want out it, thank you
Relationship boundaries are between two people. Not the internet. If you aren’t comfortable with that let her know.
She probably feels it's not safe to give a direct answer. You seem willfully oblivious to the fact that women sometimes have to do this so as not to offend and have a guy lash out in a violent way. She has told you she thinks this guy is shady. Trust her instincts. THIS IS NOT ABOUT YOU. This is about her protecting herself.
Ahhh yes, now I see. Honestly I have been wanting to do that and this is a massive push in the right direction. Thanks again
Does it matter? If he told you he watches a lot of anal porn would that make it better? Or if he says that a coworker/school buddy was talking up anal with his gf so now bf wants to?
So many people get caught up in the why, but no why would change what they're doing to make it better.
If you don't feel up to dumping him for this (being harangued and harassed about a sex act you have said you won't do IS dump worthy) I would tell him some time when you're not having sex “I don't appreciate your new obsession with anal sex. I've told you I don't want to do that and I don't appreciate you continuing to bring it up. From now on if you bring up anal sex I will stop doing whatever we're doing and walk away. I don't care if your dick is in my vagina and you're seconds away from cuming. I will get out of bed and go into another room. If you can't get it through your head to stop, sooner rather than later I'll be walking out the door for good.”