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i definitely won't move in. im staying with my parents until im ready to move out on my own. but i just thought it was nice that he'd want that
What could you possibly have been discussing?
What has she done to make you think she likes you?
Have you suggested therapy?
It's not a boundary. It's imposing a restriction on their freedoms.
Those people who see it as cheating are stupid. Funny enough, cheating occurs for emotional reasons majority of the time. Cheating (having sex outside of a monogamous relationship) actually harms someone. Watching porn doesn't harm anyone.
Anything in excess is harmful, but watching porn and jerking off to it from time to time is healthy.
You met at 19? And he was probably 36. Must have been very exciting for him. I wouldn’t look over how much this gap actually means, no matter how much you like him.
Lol what? Dude, have you ever gone out? I don't think it's a nice thing to do, but 'beyond fucked up' is a bit of an overstatement. A lot of guys are just really nice. I've had a guy give me his hoodie because I lost mine and i was really cold. He just gave it to me, said it was super old anyway, and then he left. He didn't even make a move on me.
A lot of guys will just give their hoodies away, it's not really an intimate gift, and I doubt they thought that there was something special about her. And I'm pretty sure she didn't enter 4 month relationships with her XD. Most guys I know, when they go out, they'll bring an old hoodie because they know they could lose it.
Your kids. More strangers having access to your kids. Could fuck the wrong creep who goes apeshit and gets violent or stalks your kids. Not all swingers are creeps, but not all creeps are readily apparent.
And no means no.
OP listen to this ^
I am really sorry about the loss of your wife, I can't imagine the devastation. To me it sounds like you're just not ready to date yet and that is okay. It may happen in time, it honestly may not, and I would approach things as if you can be okay with both possibilities. I wouldn't necessarily listen to your friends here even though they are simply just trying to do what they think might “help” you, or they just want you to maybe find a relationship so you're not lonely or what not. I don't particularly feel like a year is a really long time to be alone while processing something so major at such a relatively young age. It's not like you were expecting your wife to pass away when she did, so you've had to process this huge unexpected loss and it is going to take time. You say you think of her all the time and miss her immensely, of course you do – and that is okay and honestly that just means you really loved her. At some point, you may feel like you genuinely want to find a new partner, or maybe it just happens when you aren't expecting it naturally but don't try to force it or seek it out prematurely. I wouldn't feel guilty about any of this. You are always going to think of your wife but at the same time, if you enter into a relationship with a new woman, she is going to need to be someone who understands the love you will forever carry for your wife but also not feel like she is some sort of consolation prize. You said it best, you don't want to burden someone with your grief, it's not fair to them or to yourself. Take the time to heal. I feel for you, OP.
Some people believe the stereotypes about men and women, including the “men always want sex” and “men always can have sex”. While it's considered as pretty normal for women to not want it all the time.
Sit down with her and have an honest conversation. She needs to understand that a partner won't be in the mood all the time and that's fine. She has to accept that. Just as you do the other way around.
You could make her remind the times when she was upset back when you wanted sex and she didn't. Now make her realise it doesn't feel different for you as well, if you're approached while you don't want to and she doesn't accept your answer.
Over the din of the anti-fappers here, I am going to just say he isn't doing normal healthy things and your feelings are also normal. You are in this together, there doesn't have to be someone in the wrong.
Now a guy just needs to masturbate, it's a biological fact. Porn is just fun and works really well for this. The problem is that it doesn't mean anything to him, but it means something to you. I don't think he is comparing you to the videos, I don't think he is making up for shortcomings.
I suggest trying to support his personal time, maybe talking about your feelings now and then because maybe he can clear up some misunderstandings, and maybe too you could try some stuff together you are both comfortable with if you are looking to spend more sexy time together.
Be ready to take more accountability for your actions and be prepared to hold your partner accountable for theirs. Be able to carve out time for yourself in a relationship, be able to set boundaries and keep them.
No drugs. I’ve never seen anything happen to him that was particularly bad. He’s just very bitter and aggressive
Why do they date mem who don't want someone who is promiscuous? That is their own fault. They should find men who don't care rather than staying with men who do care.
You're getting to see another side of yourself. Maybe when he gets back you just need to let him know you enjoy going out and doing your own thing from time to time. See how he takes it.
Plenty of people want exactly that. If you're positive it's over with your ex, take that step, get divorced and make a little time for yourself to meet new people. There are tons of single moms out there who love hanging on the couch watching anime. Your odds are good if you get out of your own way.
First loyalty is not dead, there are people out there who are loyal, kind, respectful and will treat you with the respect that you deserve.
On to his broader point, while they are not a fairytale, loyalty is being pushed aside, because non monogamous relationships are becoming increasingly more common, and too many people, who didn’t learn respect and loyalty growing up, now have an accepted excuse for their behaviour. (Not that it should be, as a lot of non monogamous relationships are comprised of very loyal and respectful people, it’s just how a lot of society sees it) they just spout that they shouldn’t have to be tied down. They should be free to express themselves and explore their wants however they see fit. Completely ignoring the fact that for a non monogamous relationship to work the level of trust and respect required is massive.
Dude, I'm really trying to politely make it clear to you that I won't play your guessing games about her character based on nothing, and am only interested in discussing the known possibilities. Please accept that.
There's loads of people in this thread who will make stuff up with you, go talk to one of them.
He doesn’t live here if you read the whole post you’ll see that. & I have 100k on insta but keep hating 🙂
For real. I got pregnant sooner than we had planned, and got married 5 mos pregnant. Thankfully we had lived together for a year before I got pregnant, so we had sort of hammered out some of the issues. But we both had baggage that we carried with us and pregnancy was rough on me. I'm still dealing with physical issues from two completed pregnancies.
I was 30 when I got pregnant with our oldest, and I feel really old now that they're in their teens. My husband and I never got to do a lot of the things we had hoped to do in our early years, and are hoping that we will still be fit and healthy enough once they are both adults to enjoy our retirements travelling.
I AM glad we both lived a full life before that, but I'd like to experience it again with my person. At least we'll get some senior discounts? 😉 😛
I kind of want to tell him but also just say I needed to put my truth out there so I could move on if he’s not interested, but it’s no pressure
I never would have dated a guy for more than 2 years without some sort of serious indication that we were getting married.
Some people thrive on chaos and drama. If she’s having weekly “crisis” the common denominator is her. You’ve got to take care of your own mental health.
I’d probably say something like “friend, I care about you and want you to be happy. When you vent to me regularly about issues and often the same issues, I feel frustrated and exhausted. It’s affecting my mental health. Moving forward, I think you should speak to your therapist about the issues and we should keep things a little lighter. I want to talk about what you did today or what cool book you read or something—not your ex and whatever drama is there. I’m sorry but I just need a break from the chaos.”
If you need someone that believes just like you I would suggest just moving on.
What advice are you looking for?
If you’re not interested in a relationship, then you’d be going on a date to see if he’s someone you’d want to casually hook up with. Which is totally fine and normal.
But the way you wrote the post you said you would go on ONE date and that’s it. Then what’s the point? Just to pity him? If not, then the wheelchair is irrelevant to the question. You should be asking “I’m not interested in a relationship, but should I go on one date with a guy I’m talking to?” I can only assume you mentioned the wheelchair because it is a bigger issue to you than you’re admitting.
Then he should have stopped.
Without a enthusiastic yes there is no consent and he did keep pushing after sh was clearly not interested.
Yeah I’m gonna take a shot in the dark and say this ends when he finds out.
She’s a stay at home wife with no kids and she’s pissed about being woken up? Sounds pathetic and immature. Does she do anything besides sleep?
If he's as socially aware as you think, he's purposely ignoring your soft nos and consequently showing you that he'd be bad with taking a no if you were to date as well, so absolutely distance yourself from him.
Talk to Jenny and tell her that this is making you uncomfortable. Right now he has an unwitting ally in her. Then tell him via Discord that you're not interested in having a relationship outside of work and either block him or ignore any further messages from him.
i’m a crisis counselor – this is an excellent resource!!!
Just as a devils advocate here, if a wife got an auto-immune disease or some other chronic illness, and the husband left her because “she wasn’t the woman I married “, would you be as accepting of that? Why is the criteria different with mental illness?
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So you are either too immature and insecure to be in a relationship, or you have reasons to not trust your bf.
Either way you need to end the relationship.
It seems like you don't actually like your boyfriend. Perhaps it's time to move on?
Yeah, OP. Fuck what you were going through. You should've done this very well thought out thing instead. How dare you be your own person and not pander to guests you didn't invite over?
Yeah, OP. Fuck what you were going through. You should've done this very well thought out thing instead. How dare you be your own person and not pander to guests you didn't invite over?
Yeah, OP. Fuck what you were going through. You should've done this very well thought out thing instead. How dare you be your own person and not pander to guests you didn't invite over?
Those are all good points. I’m sure she’s looking at this child as another one she’d be taking care of.
I’ve been happily married for almost 10 years to my husband. If I found out he had another child before we were together that had to come live with us I would consider leaving. I think some people are ok being stepparents as long as they know what they’re signing up for. The shock and surprise of this situation could rock even the strongest marriages.
I did stop. Any time she has ever said no, I don’t go behind her back. I ask if I am thinking about it and if she says yes, then I do it. If she doesn’t then I don’t.
That's not what that means at all. You're demanding she gives up something she's likely dreamed about since she was a child in order to be your wife. That's pretty shitty of you. It's also shitty of you to twist her words when she literally never said “she wants to be a bride, not a wife”.
he's annoyed at me because we agreed to save money by not drinking
Also this no?
She told you to have fun because she is having fun. You are a fwb for her. Now, if you are cool with good for you, but if you want more, she is not the one for u.
Boyfriend is weird. Don't give up your time. Let him know that it helps you decompress before you go home on a rough day. Nothing more than that and you'll do it on any day you need to. Fellas need to figure out that just because you're bf/gf it does not entitle them to all of your time outside of work. (And I suppose vice versa). You got along just fine when you were an individual. It doesn't give him license to make you be joined at the hip to him. Does he decide what you two do on the weekends? Tell him you're out flyin' your freak flag, only the boldest do.
I don't like to wear mine either but my husband doesn't like it
It shouldn’t have needed to be brought up more than once “hey I don’t like that, it hurts” doesn’t mean keep doing it