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It’s probably just a silly bit she does with her friends honestly. One Plan b pill is 50 bucks for no reason so that might be why theyre using it to decorate (get some funny purpose out of it)
The replies are interesting, and I’m guessing they are majority American.
I don’t drink anymore and I was selective about work Christmas dos for this kind of reason.
But the idea in UK that you’d have to change your job for something like this would be laughed at.
Things happen, you’ve told your bf, the guy works in a different building, it was a work Christmas party, these things happen.
Just be kind to yourself and move on. If you feel awful, you could look for a new job, but as long as it isn’t a pattern of behaviour, which is doesn’t sound like, I wouldn’t worry.
You blew it OP. You def made her think that the long pause was because you were seriously debating the whole no sex on the first dates scenario and that you ended up deciding that sex was more important than a date. And by effectively ghosting her you even implied that if she changed her mind (about not having sex with you) and begged to see you, that you might still respond.
If your critical thinking skills derive solely from your individual experiences and circumstances, they are not as useful as you'd like to think them.
nothing about this story painting the LGBTQ+ community in a negative light makes sense
I'm not sure you grasp the full implication of your rhetoric. Because this experience paints the LGBTQ+ community in a negative light, it must not be true? Can you actually not critically think through this sentiment?
For what it's worth, I'm a member of said community and these self-pitying “woe is me, someone won't date me so they must be me-phobic” situations do happen. This happens within the community in fact. Take a look through r/LGBTQ, it's not as rare as you think. People in the community are just that: people; Sadly, they're sometimes people with their own biases and ideologies capable and willing to inflict the same ostracization, hate, and phobia they are subjected to. Being queer doesn't absolve you of wrong doing. Hiding our head in the sand when it comes to these real trends is what does a disservice to the community.
GET OUT NOW. I advise you report this to the police too. But first things first, get out. This is done, you aren't throwing away a ten year relationship, you're securing the next 50 years of your life. Please reach out to anyone who can help you and if there isn't anyone contact a women's refuge. This is not an overreaction, you have to get away now.
She did NOT say she was faithful, she said She TOLD him she was faithful.
It's a carefully worded sentence in which she has never actually said to anyone here she did not cheat. It's like how on maury they always say they never cheated, then come back they are the father (or not the father). He's upset, she says to him “you're the father, I've never cheated”
But when she asked here point blank “Did you cheat”, she does NOT answer the question.
How could you even say you love her after that? Maybe you still love a memory of you and her but man oh man, that ain’t love – quite the opposite of love in fact. Know that you’re worth it. No matter your position you can find a way and you deserve better. Get the hell out of there dude.
IMO, he shouldn’t have to ask if it’s school related or a group outting. Letting you know would be thoughtful though. You have to talk to him about this. Your insecure about everything because of the amount of girls within his major. I get it but you can’t keep going on like this. It’s not good for you, him, or your relationship.
It’s probably just a silly bit she does with her friends honestly. One Plan b pill is 50 bucks for no reason so that might be why theyre using it to decorate (get some funny purpose out of it)
The replies are interesting, and I’m guessing they are majority American.
I don’t drink anymore and I was selective about work Christmas dos for this kind of reason.
But the idea in UK that you’d have to change your job for something like this would be laughed at.
Things happen, you’ve told your bf, the guy works in a different building, it was a work Christmas party, these things happen.
Just be kind to yourself and move on. If you feel awful, you could look for a new job, but as long as it isn’t a pattern of behaviour, which is doesn’t sound like, I wouldn’t worry.
You blew it OP. You def made her think that the long pause was because you were seriously debating the whole no sex on the first dates scenario and that you ended up deciding that sex was more important than a date. And by effectively ghosting her you even implied that if she changed her mind (about not having sex with you) and begged to see you, that you might still respond.
Can you afford therapy? You have to work to get over your lack of self esteem that's causing these issues.
Dump this guy. Work on yourself.
If your critical thinking skills derive solely from your individual experiences and circumstances, they are not as useful as you'd like to think them.
nothing about this story painting the LGBTQ+ community in a negative light makes sense
I'm not sure you grasp the full implication of your rhetoric. Because this experience paints the LGBTQ+ community in a negative light, it must not be true? Can you actually not critically think through this sentiment?
For what it's worth, I'm a member of said community and these self-pitying “woe is me, someone won't date me so they must be me-phobic” situations do happen. This happens within the community in fact. Take a look through r/LGBTQ, it's not as rare as you think. People in the community are just that: people; Sadly, they're sometimes people with their own biases and ideologies capable and willing to inflict the same ostracization, hate, and phobia they are subjected to. Being queer doesn't absolve you of wrong doing. Hiding our head in the sand when it comes to these real trends is what does a disservice to the community.
GET OUT NOW. I advise you report this to the police too. But first things first, get out. This is done, you aren't throwing away a ten year relationship, you're securing the next 50 years of your life. Please reach out to anyone who can help you and if there isn't anyone contact a women's refuge. This is not an overreaction, you have to get away now.
I didn’t even piece this together holy shit
She did NOT say she was faithful, she said She TOLD him she was faithful.
It's a carefully worded sentence in which she has never actually said to anyone here she did not cheat. It's like how on maury they always say they never cheated, then come back they are the father (or not the father). He's upset, she says to him “you're the father, I've never cheated”
But when she asked here point blank “Did you cheat”, she does NOT answer the question.
How could you even say you love her after that? Maybe you still love a memory of you and her but man oh man, that ain’t love – quite the opposite of love in fact. Know that you’re worth it. No matter your position you can find a way and you deserve better. Get the hell out of there dude.
Because your grandpa treated you like crap doesn't mean you are. We are all special in our own ways.
Just remember you make an impact on other individuals lives no matter how big or small. Don't dismiss his kindness.
I wish you all the best for your future. Hugs!
IMO, he shouldn’t have to ask if it’s school related or a group outting. Letting you know would be thoughtful though. You have to talk to him about this. Your insecure about everything because of the amount of girls within his major. I get it but you can’t keep going on like this. It’s not good for you, him, or your relationship.
So.. the guy you are talking about, is it the same guy from your first post? Just curious
I wouldnt tell her, but Id make HIM tell her. Gotta face the consequences of your choices.
because you are really stupid that’s why
D.I.V.O.R.C.E this controlling man who is trying to isolate you. Tradition my arse, sounds more like abuse.