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Sex is absolutely not the solution here. It may keep her around a little longer, but she's going to leave you eventually. My advice is to let her go. The longer this goes on, the more it'll hurt.
These seem like pretty superficial things to differ on. It really depends on how much importance you put into those things. If you want a partner that wants to move to the countryside, loves animals, likes to cook, and doesn't hang out in pubs, then maybe he's not for you.
If it's not a major priority, I'd say you're fine.
why won't they support love marriage?
you can try convincing them once you're both financially stable and independent. afterall it's your life, you should be the one to decide.
there's still time, instead of breaking up you can see where this goes, take a risk with her if she feels like the one for you. even if her parents don't support, ask yourself if she is worth the trouble & the heartbreak that might come later on. But you should be willing to put in the effort for a stable future, a good job, etc. If she is worth it then just tell her you miss her and go get her back!
Girls know dude. In any case, leave your gf. Actually I hope she dumps youZ
And that's why your children go no contact with you one after another.
I'm a teacher, I work with teenagers and young adults. Some are on the spectrum, others aren't.
I'd never claim I'm a professional, we're working with coaches, therapists etc. to create the best environment there is for our students, and to support them.
Unfortunately, many parents are playing AGAINST their kids, and not with them.
You clearly didn't know what's best for your son. And you should get some therapy to work to the bottom of that.
You don’t have to do and shouldn’t do anything you don’t want to, yes including sex stuff, I don’t expect you force her to do anything g sexually. It’s okay for her to share her kink, and it’s okay for you not to want it, she should have dropped it the moment it was apparent you’re so against it
Your anger is misdirected. It’s your husband you should be mad at here.
lol did u read my post?
Suck it up (unless you were dying in a hospital) it does suck that you are sick however let her still celebrate. What did you expect her to do, just sit around and feel sorry for you?
However if she is in the same situation in future, make sure she is alright with you still going out etc.
Lacrosse ball would be a much better choice.
Ask her to buy you out of the house and she can have ownership of the home. Take your name off all the bills and try to get your name off the house title or add an amendment that it’s just hers after xxx is paid to you. This will give you a clean break from her and a way to rent somewhere else. You have at least learned your lesson about buying a home with someone you aren’t married too.
It’s really helpful to have shared values if you’re going to be in a close and healthy relationship. Sound like you don’t. That means there will be huge areas that will be taboo discussion topics for your entire life. You’re too young to make this kind of compromise for someone. I hate the “oh just break up with him” response but you have to realize that, unless one of you changes direction, this means you’ll always have a sort of elephant in the room between you.
She chose an ex's word over his, he tried to give her the evidence. She didn't want it.
It doesn't matter If you are trying to protect yourself. This man is now a father and wasn't able to see his 1st born son. Then 2 weeks later she's over it when this could of been quashed months past. He was still the father and should have been on that birth certificate. Absolutely childish.
This! It’s her right to change how she looks but it’s also his right to not like those changes.
They hold all the cards (and photos), unfortunately. It's quite common and natural for twins to be closer to each other than to any other family members, and you should not be surprised at any favoritism or skullduggery between the two of them.
Cutting out twin 1 won't work if you still want contact with twin 2, because they are in cahoots. If you cut anyone out, you cut them both out.
I suggest that you uninvite twin 2 from being your bridesmaid, explaining it's not a grudge against her but the whole drama about pictures and twin 1 and all. There is a good chance neither will come to your wedding if you do that though. And you might never get those photos you wanted.
I'm a little surprised you asked one but not the other to be in the wedding party, as that is favoritism in its own right. Remember what I said about them having an ultra-close bond.
run dude
I wouldn't pick her up, I'd agree to meet her somewhere instead. I think it's important you can both leave separately if the conversation ends up getting more emotional or heated than you anticipated. It's awkward having a difficult conversation with someone, then having to sit in silence while you drop them back home. Meet somewhere, then you can have a clean break when it's time to leave.
Spoiler: you just told billions of strangers. Maybe tell that one person who actually loves and cares about you.
Get older. It will change.
Tags, yes. So they can prove where it is from and have the bar code… the price should be removed. Target tags are pretty much designed to remove the price portion and leave the rest intact.
I wouldn’t. I doubled up on protection until I was married and ready to have a baby. I was always just super paranoid.
I was on Prozac for years because of PMDD. It didn’t lessen my libido or give me side effects. I had no suicidal thoughts at all. It took a couple of weeks to take effect and I did sleep more at first. The biggest problem was if I missed a dose or couldn’t fill my prescription right away, I would cry a lot. I’m older so when I started menopause and didn’t have menstral problems, I couldn’t stop the Prozac because I couldn’t stop crying. So I kept taking it for a while longer and finally just reduced my dosage, taking it every other day, then every third day until I was off it completely. But im glad I took it and it should help your girlfriend without any problems.
None of this makes sense. How are 28 together 3.5 years but known each other since your 15 yet you’ve never met his friends or family?
Hmm, there maybe more to this than you want to know.
Text book case of why you shouldn't save yourself for marriage. You need to sleep with various people beforehand, so that you can explore different stuff and find out what you enjoy, and find someone who enjoys the same kind of stuff. And also so you don't feel frustrated further down the line at only ever having one partner.
I remember a woman who had only ever had sex with her husband, then they divorced. A few BFs later, she realised that actually, her ex-husband was a fantastic lover. And the whole time she'd been with him, she hadn't had any idea of how lucky she was.
I have ADHD too. I would never tolerate someone treating me this way.
I think what they’re trying to say is you sound nonchalant. Talking to someone is a good step!
This guy sounds very dangerous. I'm glad you have your brother and his place, but I recommend compiling everything you can, and sharing this with other people. That way, if he moves to hurt you at any point, you'll have his abuse on record. People like this work best in the shadows.
Also, next time, don't let him in the house.
You deserve someone that values you. Move on from someone like this.
I already know you spend a lot of time criticizing your wife but do you also spend a lot of time minimizing her contributions? O wonder because if you do enough on helping around the house, why was there so much for your wife to do on her day off.
It does not matter if you work a hundred hours a week, there is not excuse for berating your wife and calling her lazy. It sounds almost like you're laying in wait to catch her slacking so jump on her back have a nice ride. This is not the way a decent man treats his wife.
I have to ask if this is an arranged marriage because you don't seem to like your wife, much less love her. As the other posters have pointed out, you don't approach her with love and caring in your heart.
Not your circus, not your monkeys. The scenario reeks of impending drama, it's better to steer clear of your ex.
She was definitely there at his house all day. She’s cheating and lying to you.
Ahhhh! I perceive that you have been through this as well.
You can't make this up. What an actual dick head move.
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He did get more, he got two slaps.
To be clear, I am not questioning the slaps in front of my boyfriend, nor have I given my brother any indication that I don't think he deserved them. It's just a complately new situation for me and I wanted a bit of advice.
Ok, so…
Reading between the lines, you feel like your boyfriend is to some extent uneducated, and that's a turn-off for you. If that bothers you now, at 21 in an arguably more casual phase of life, it will only bother you more over time, as stakes get higher and you notice this around important colleagues, bosses, etc. You value financial independence and your boyfriend is lagging. Not only that, there's something about his relationship with his parents that makes you suspect he's not going to become truly independent in the way that you value about yourself / want in a life partner. You already feel overextended / undervalued. You want to be out doing things from time to time, and for him to put in effort at least equal to yours, and he's not.
Putting all of this together… if his spelling / grammar stays the same, if he continues to let his parents take care of things for him, if his level of effort in your relationship stays the same… how would you feel a year from now if your relationship looked exactly the same way it does now? And instead of staying with him for 8 months, you'd stayed with him for nearly 2 years?
He was on cocaine babe
Absolutely. I don’t know her character, but sometimes it can just continue casual and joking but you just are aware of the boundary if she says no. Other times it gets awkward and breaks off. It’s always a gamble.
You have your answer then. Your opinion of him is the one that matters.
I attempt something like this, she will physically remove herself from the room or even the house so she doesn’t have to hear it.
then let her physically remover herself from the house and when she comes back you have the talk about financial responsibility….
Also, she gets very red and puffy when she cries, and I never want her going to work with swollen eyes
then tell her to stop crying and throwing tantrums and sit down like a functioning adult and have a conversation about financial responsibility..
Sorry to say but that dude is an idiot
Honestly, sometimes it takes longer to open up to people than others. But I don't think him pressuring you to open up will help the situation. If anything that would make me more guarded personally. If it hits another few months or so and you still don't feel comfortable opening up then I would call this one a lost cause and move on.
Updateme!
Yeah, I call troll, although I admit it's at least a tiny bit different.
The last thing to keep in mind, u/ThrowRAuglydatng, is that you can't trust yourself. Your brain, like everyone else's, is hardwired to want to be right. It cares about this more than it cares about just about anything else. Therefore, it will bend itself over backwards to ignore or discount something if that thing says, “You are wrong.”
For instance, here's what everyone said on your previous posts:
The fact that you are ugly does not matter. The fact that you're mean, humorless and desperate is what matters. But that's a good thing. You can't control whether you're ugly, but you can control whether you're mean, humorless and desperate. In other words, you can choose to get laid, RIGHT NOW**. It is 100% in your power.
But you don't like hearing this. Because hearing it would mean admitting that you're wrong about not being able to get laid.
So question your own responses. Don't assume that, just because you want to feel some sort of way, you are correct to feel that way. Sometimes, wanting someth8ing to be wrong is proof that it's wrong; but sometimes, wanting something to be wrong is proof that it's right.
What am i trying to assume?
She would never go back to him because she's tried that and it doesn't work. If you're scared that, because she has dated him, he is a threat, you're not only wrong but backwards: because he dated her, he is one of the few people on the planet who is not a threat.
This is the dumbest thing I've read all week. Do you never hear about people cheating on their partners with their exes? Or go back to their toxic ex despite having a perfect relationship?
Maybe you should base your advice on real life, not relationship theory.
I would end things, but not cruelly. This sounds more like she’s incapable of setting boundaries and this coworker is taking advantage of that, not that she’s deliberately seeking out other guys. But either way it’s going to keep happening, and twice is already one too many. She can hopefully learn from this how to set some boundaries for the sake of her next relationship.
Probably to vent because her dumbass friends see no problem with it.
OP,
Look, you don't like the things that she does and that is ok, you don't have to.
She tells you one thing and once you broke up jumped the one who she told you that you had nothing to worry about. She strings along her past BF's and if something happens between the two of you she has them as fall back plans.
Honestly this is the worst type of relationship to be in. I would just go no contact with her and walk away. let her exes take care of her and you sir, have a better life and pick a better partner.
There's no good way to bring this up. All you can do is toss the idea out there and see what her reaction is.
They will all live with her and fly together. Money is not an issue for us. And I said that I felt like I was forced to choose. My kids don’t feel like I am choosing anything as they are too young to grasp the situation.
Tell her, if she doesn't want to be with you, you xan divorce. However if you want to stay together, she needs to show you theur convos. Explain, that uf your marriage us wirth less fir her than his privacy, then it is better to end it.
Explain to her that if she deletes their messages you will never fully trust her, and don't know if you can stay with her.
She has already told you how she doesn't feel that strongly about you. Tell me, would you stay with her, if she cheated on you?
If not, than honestly, unless she decides to show you their undeleted cinvos it mighr better to divorce.
By some people's standards, it's surprising that you haven't had hi in you yet.
By others, nothing will or should happen within the next year or so.
Don't worry about everyone else. Set a pace that you two are comfortable with (both of you!)
There is no rule for how to do this, so let your own desires guide you here.
If you ENJOY the kisses, continue kissing.
If you, while kissing, feel that this could be something more and that you would be comfortable getting and giving something more…evolve it into that.
But remember that there are MANY steps from where you are today to getting to something that is truly about sex. And if you want to take those steps slowly (or not at all!) it's a perfectly valid choice to do so.
Let your own desires for a physical relationship (hugs count here too! Don't forget that) guide you when you figure out what kind of relationship you want to have.
About your boyfriend, then… it sounds like he is trying to be respectful. Like he is more or less demanding verbal consent before he does anything. And that's good, because it means that he IS asking and you DO get a chance to say no if you want to.
And the other side of the coin, if a no is not respected, it would be a VERY obvious red flag.
Spontaneously, I think he is trying his very best to be respectful and considerate. He talks and asks because what you want and how you want it, matters to him.
Red flags to look for are, in no particular order,
inability to respect a no.
coercion. As in trying OFTEN and/or REPEATEDLY to question your no and make you change it.
other types of disrespect. Disrespecting your interests, your family, your chosen study subjects etc. A bit culturally dependent, a bit obvious.
Remember. He is a boyfriend. If he ain't a friend yet, work on that. If he can't become a friend, question if you really want him in your life.
He is putting the blame on you so he can avoid dealing with his own behavior and feelings. Don’t accept the garbage he is trying to load onto you.
We were supposed to be exclusive, we had agreed to be, so that’s why the lie hurts so much I suppose
I would be open to moving out and getting an apartment until she decides to start treating my daughter better. That’s a lot better than getting a divorce