No, absolutely not any of that at all. This is not the 1800's. Women are not property or obligations used to tie families together financially. Women are not less than men, nor are they more than men. Women are equal to men.
This sort of antiquated, patriarchal, sexist garbage is precisely why I make it clear before the first date that the checks are separate. Gold digging assholes who expect a “provider” can opt out of the date and not waste my time.
Ah I didnt know this and im sure he doesnt either. Thats very helpful for the insurance part , thank you! Also thank you for the link – i do online therapy and never get actual worksheets where i can directly print them. Thank you again for all your help
I feel like only you’d know the context she said it in. When this very similar situation happened to me, I was like the maid. He procrastinated and pretended to be bad at chores so I would do all of it. In my situation, I didn’t feel appreciated.
No, absolutely not any of that at all. This is not the 1800's. Women are not property or obligations used to tie families together financially. Women are not less than men, nor are they more than men. Women are equal to men.
This sort of antiquated, patriarchal, sexist garbage is precisely why I make it clear before the first date that the checks are separate. Gold digging assholes who expect a “provider” can opt out of the date and not waste my time.
I was so surprised when the question at the end of this story was “did she cheat?”and not “she’s gay, right?”
Exactly :S
Just tell him no. That’s the only advice.
Just show up and see for yourself. Keep your mouth shut till then.
Dump him. He’s dead weight for you. He will only hold you back in life.
Cooking, cleaning, and personal hygiene are all BASIC LIFE SKILLS. It is not your responsibility to remind him this.
i mean you don’t wanna quit so what other option is there than to wait it out and hope it does away?
Ah I didnt know this and im sure he doesnt either. Thats very helpful for the insurance part , thank you! Also thank you for the link – i do online therapy and never get actual worksheets where i can directly print them. Thank you again for all your help
It's generally illegal to assault someone who isn't putting you in any danger/is attempting to flee. It's like this in most of the US too
Disregard your friends.
Your bf sounds smart AND sweet AND genuine.
Finish your degree.
Would “ignored” have been a better word?
I feel like only you’d know the context she said it in. When this very similar situation happened to me, I was like the maid. He procrastinated and pretended to be bad at chores so I would do all of it. In my situation, I didn’t feel appreciated.