I think it’s a compatibility thing, not an age thing.
It almost sounds like you’re defining her in your mind, thereby making up your mind about her instead talking to her about these things. Would she compromise? If she did compromise, would you? Would it matter since you still think you’d prefer a younger woman?
At the end though, forget the trips, status, and age. If you know she “really wants kids” and that you are not ready, then you should break up with her.
Without examples we have no idea.
Don't sit on the fence mate, tell us what you really think
I think it’s a compatibility thing, not an age thing.
It almost sounds like you’re defining her in your mind, thereby making up your mind about her instead talking to her about these things. Would she compromise? If she did compromise, would you? Would it matter since you still think you’d prefer a younger woman?
At the end though, forget the trips, status, and age. If you know she “really wants kids” and that you are not ready, then you should break up with her.