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Idk i got out of my last relationship around 11 months ago. Just not ready to commit with all my other priorities.
Also, we are very different Id say. She’s a lot more of a party girl, going out etc. I’m not into that stuff, and I feel like I would be the type of person to try changing her which I do not want to do because hey everyone has their own choices. She also has a sexual past that will 100% bother me if I’m dating her. And to a lot of people that will sound like a bad reason but that’s just my own standard I keep when finding a potential SO from now on. My ex previous to this was a lesson learned for me.
So essentially that’s what’s holding me back from going all in.
People who only abuse you when they’re drunk are still abusive, hun. He’s not a different person when he drinks. He’s the same person, acting horribly, even if he insists he doesn’t mean or remember it. You don’t have the luxury of forgetting – you still have to wake up to him the next day and try and keep making a life with someone who told you how worthless you were just the night before. What you can say to him it “You get sober or we’re done.” There’s really no other healthy option.
My uncle was an alcoholic and the amount that he was drinking daily was astonishing. Sorry you are going through this and I didn't mean to sound mean, my uncle lost everything he had including wife and kids and he still didn't stop. He didn't die from the alcohol itself he died because he was drunk and fell. It's absolutely devastating. Again I'm sorry you are going through this.
Another cheating post with such a flimsy excuse, my bullshit meter reeled off the charts. Threats do NOT explain mutual sexting, missing you sentiments, and a whole new photo shoot of nudes. You know that’s BS as well. Anyway you can reach out to him to hear what he has to say?
Yes. How she feels is no longer your concern so you don't need to make her comfortable with anything. You need to unfollow her, she needs to process whatever hurt she is experiencing from losing a follower on Instagram.
No, I just understand women enough to know that OP, as a woman, will also have an acute awareness for her safety. I'm trusting her to make her own choices with her safety in mind, thanks for your concern. ???
Remember when clown suit people were causing issues a few years back. Could you call the police and say it’s happening again and someone is harassing guests at your wedding and have the asshole arrested?
I find it interesting that guys loveeee to do anal but when the role is reversed they are like Uh No. Sooo if it's okay for the woman, why not the man? LOL
Honestly? Go to your graduation. Even if there won't be anyone there with you, which is a terrible thing of your family to do. You still achieved something that not many people have the smarts and the tenacity to do. Your family should be ashamed of themselves to demand that you forgo this celebration in place of attending the wedding.
You said you love your brother, but that he's the golden child, favoured by your family.
What i am curious about, when did you / your brother know the dates? Did you know the graduation date in advance, and then came the anouncement of the wedding date, or vice versa. The answer to this would tell me whether or not the wedding day was deliberately placed on the day of your celebration.
Personally i would also take a step back and consider your future. Your family, the ones that are supposed to have your back, favour your brother and have always let you felt that to the point where you feel bad for wanting to celebrate an incredible achievement of yours. What exactly is it that you get from your family? and i am not talking about monetary or material things, i am talking about relaxation, mental well being and so on. Do you feel good surrounded by your family, are your mental and emotional batteries recharging with them, or are they draining to be with? Do you dread the times you're with your family because you always have to put your own wants and needs on the backburner in favour of someone else?
if all you do is diminish your own self , just so that the baby of the family can get all the attention, then maybe it is time to step back from that family and drastically reduce your contact to them. Also, please see a therapist to help you deal with how your family might treat you when you dare to step back.
You have achieved something incredible. Celebrate what you did and celebrate your future.
Idk i got out of my last relationship around 11 months ago. Just not ready to commit with all my other priorities.
Also, we are very different Id say. She’s a lot more of a party girl, going out etc. I’m not into that stuff, and I feel like I would be the type of person to try changing her which I do not want to do because hey everyone has their own choices. She also has a sexual past that will 100% bother me if I’m dating her. And to a lot of people that will sound like a bad reason but that’s just my own standard I keep when finding a potential SO from now on. My ex previous to this was a lesson learned for me.
So essentially that’s what’s holding me back from going all in.
People who only abuse you when they’re drunk are still abusive, hun. He’s not a different person when he drinks. He’s the same person, acting horribly, even if he insists he doesn’t mean or remember it. You don’t have the luxury of forgetting – you still have to wake up to him the next day and try and keep making a life with someone who told you how worthless you were just the night before. What you can say to him it “You get sober or we’re done.” There’s really no other healthy option.
My uncle was an alcoholic and the amount that he was drinking daily was astonishing. Sorry you are going through this and I didn't mean to sound mean, my uncle lost everything he had including wife and kids and he still didn't stop. He didn't die from the alcohol itself he died because he was drunk and fell. It's absolutely devastating. Again I'm sorry you are going through this.
Another cheating post with such a flimsy excuse, my bullshit meter reeled off the charts. Threats do NOT explain mutual sexting, missing you sentiments, and a whole new photo shoot of nudes. You know that’s BS as well. Anyway you can reach out to him to hear what he has to say?
At least he asked nicely.
I have stolen nice smelling hoodies before.
Yes. How she feels is no longer your concern so you don't need to make her comfortable with anything. You need to unfollow her, she needs to process whatever hurt she is experiencing from losing a follower on Instagram.
Tbh I was thinking the same thing. Or just cause she thinks op is financially stable.
No, I just understand women enough to know that OP, as a woman, will also have an acute awareness for her safety. I'm trusting her to make her own choices with her safety in mind, thanks for your concern. ???
Why are you scared? Why don’t you know what to do?
The guy is a piece of shit. Is this how you want to live forever? Respect yourself enough to walk away.
Remember when clown suit people were causing issues a few years back. Could you call the police and say it’s happening again and someone is harassing guests at your wedding and have the asshole arrested?
how long have you been working on it ?
I find it interesting that guys loveeee to do anal but when the role is reversed they are like Uh No. Sooo if it's okay for the woman, why not the man? LOL
Honestly? Go to your graduation. Even if there won't be anyone there with you, which is a terrible thing of your family to do. You still achieved something that not many people have the smarts and the tenacity to do. Your family should be ashamed of themselves to demand that you forgo this celebration in place of attending the wedding.
You said you love your brother, but that he's the golden child, favoured by your family.
What i am curious about, when did you / your brother know the dates? Did you know the graduation date in advance, and then came the anouncement of the wedding date, or vice versa. The answer to this would tell me whether or not the wedding day was deliberately placed on the day of your celebration.
Personally i would also take a step back and consider your future. Your family, the ones that are supposed to have your back, favour your brother and have always let you felt that to the point where you feel bad for wanting to celebrate an incredible achievement of yours. What exactly is it that you get from your family? and i am not talking about monetary or material things, i am talking about relaxation, mental well being and so on. Do you feel good surrounded by your family, are your mental and emotional batteries recharging with them, or are they draining to be with? Do you dread the times you're with your family because you always have to put your own wants and needs on the backburner in favour of someone else?
if all you do is diminish your own self , just so that the baby of the family can get all the attention, then maybe it is time to step back from that family and drastically reduce your contact to them. Also, please see a therapist to help you deal with how your family might treat you when you dare to step back.
You have achieved something incredible. Celebrate what you did and celebrate your future.
I guess you have to wait and find out.