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I'm really glad you appreciated my post. I understand where you're coming from and that this is a dealbreaker for you. I guess you want to be able to discover new things together with your partner, and I'm sure you'll be able to find that in someone else. Hope you're doing ok with the break up.
He has the emotional regulation of a toddler. If this has happened on more than one occasion and it wasn’t after hearing some big news of a tragic loss and he has a pattern of poor emotional regulation. This means he’s dangerous because he would literally throw a physical tantrum in the midst of his emotions.
He needs therapy and so do you if you think that this is normal and safe.
Porn is about variety. My partner and I have an active sex life, and I know he finds me very attractive, and still if he wants to jerk off he might look at someone opposite of me. Because he already has me. This is both your child, not “my” daughter. That being said, postpartum is rough as hell and it can do a number on your self-esteem. A traumatic labor (I had one) can echo in your mind for years. Tell him how you're feeling, and that you need his reassurance, because your self-esteem is at a low. Also, if she's 4 months old he could take 3 minutes if she's napping or playing. It doesn't make him non-trustworthy with the infant you share. You don't have to pay “full attention” to an infant of 4 months, if they are napping or taking some time in their crib or rocker, to the point that you can't get a shower (why aren't you insisting on a shower?) or do some other short-term task. This seems like partially him being flat-footed, but also you working through post-partum without carving out real time for yourself, and having realistic expectations. Good luck, OP.
Your husband's method is absolutely disgusting, as is his attitude towards you.
He seems to hold some very concerning believes:
If he does not experience it, it is not real. He cannot smell it, so noone can. You telling him it smells should be enough.
You should do as he says just because he says so. If you don't, it is ok to yell at you. That seems like an increadibly sexist and old-fashioned view about marriage: the man as the wise head of the house who has the last say and the wife as the obedient servant.
That something really bothers you is less important than him proofing he is right. Even if you were the only person on earth who minded shit stewing in their toilet, he should be considerate enough to use the plunger. It is a small request.
You say his good sides outweigh the bad. You seem to be ready to use saint-like patience to compensate for his short-comings to make your marriage work because it is worth it to you.
You say you are not willing to teach your children his shitty method, which is absolutely reasonable. So giving in to his demands is not a good option.
So the only way to save your marriage seems to be to convince him he is wrong. I think you are the last person he will listen to in this. So could you talk to someone who he will likely listen to? His mom, dad, friends? Could you show him this post? Marriage counseling?
In the end you cannot force someone to change their mind. If you don't want to give in to his rudiculous demands and he keeps insisting on this, your only other option is divorce.
Absolutely not. He is your coworker and he could ruin your professional life/income if he doesnt take it well. Too risky. Wait it out. Like a lot more.
I'm really glad you appreciated my post. I understand where you're coming from and that this is a dealbreaker for you. I guess you want to be able to discover new things together with your partner, and I'm sure you'll be able to find that in someone else. Hope you're doing ok with the break up.
He has the emotional regulation of a toddler. If this has happened on more than one occasion and it wasn’t after hearing some big news of a tragic loss and he has a pattern of poor emotional regulation. This means he’s dangerous because he would literally throw a physical tantrum in the midst of his emotions.
He needs therapy and so do you if you think that this is normal and safe.
I can see where your prejudice comes from.
Porn is about variety. My partner and I have an active sex life, and I know he finds me very attractive, and still if he wants to jerk off he might look at someone opposite of me. Because he already has me. This is both your child, not “my” daughter. That being said, postpartum is rough as hell and it can do a number on your self-esteem. A traumatic labor (I had one) can echo in your mind for years. Tell him how you're feeling, and that you need his reassurance, because your self-esteem is at a low. Also, if she's 4 months old he could take 3 minutes if she's napping or playing. It doesn't make him non-trustworthy with the infant you share. You don't have to pay “full attention” to an infant of 4 months, if they are napping or taking some time in their crib or rocker, to the point that you can't get a shower (why aren't you insisting on a shower?) or do some other short-term task. This seems like partially him being flat-footed, but also you working through post-partum without carving out real time for yourself, and having realistic expectations. Good luck, OP.
Dogs are den animals. Easy to kennel train. It sucks waking up with their claws and legs under you, trying to take your body heat.
Your husband's method is absolutely disgusting, as is his attitude towards you.
He seems to hold some very concerning believes:
If he does not experience it, it is not real. He cannot smell it, so noone can. You telling him it smells should be enough.
You should do as he says just because he says so. If you don't, it is ok to yell at you. That seems like an increadibly sexist and old-fashioned view about marriage: the man as the wise head of the house who has the last say and the wife as the obedient servant.
That something really bothers you is less important than him proofing he is right. Even if you were the only person on earth who minded shit stewing in their toilet, he should be considerate enough to use the plunger. It is a small request.
You say his good sides outweigh the bad. You seem to be ready to use saint-like patience to compensate for his short-comings to make your marriage work because it is worth it to you.
You say you are not willing to teach your children his shitty method, which is absolutely reasonable. So giving in to his demands is not a good option.
So the only way to save your marriage seems to be to convince him he is wrong. I think you are the last person he will listen to in this. So could you talk to someone who he will likely listen to? His mom, dad, friends? Could you show him this post? Marriage counseling?
In the end you cannot force someone to change their mind. If you don't want to give in to his rudiculous demands and he keeps insisting on this, your only other option is divorce.
I would’ve walked her straight to a CVS and watched her swallow Plan B if I were you. And then I would’ve completely cut contact.
Absolutely not. He is your coworker and he could ruin your professional life/income if he doesnt take it well. Too risky. Wait it out. Like a lot more.