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I'm not concerned with him texting her, I'd be more concerned with him dropping the ball as your husband.
He doesn't ask about your day? If you've eaten? Whats going on in your mind, if you're ok? These are easy, no stress no hassle off the hip questions I ask everyone that I care about.
Maybe he made a new friend that he actually enjoys talking to. But maybe remind him that instead of talking with his friends, he could try talking to his wife?
I know this could be read as “middle life crisis” but the changes are SO drastic that it could be something major like a health issue. There's been cases of people suddenly starting a shopping spree because of a tumor. Did he go to the doctor?
It's not a mess. It's perfectly clear. If you get back with her just because she says she'll now have sex with you, then you are a cad. You are coercing her into having sex against her will by holding a relationship over her head. Your desire to have sex does not give you the right to manipulate her.
I did. She seems to think that expressing any sort of emotion is a bad thing. She’s the type to bottle everything up and never talk about it whereas when I’m feeling upset about something I like to immediately discuss it and try to resolve the issue. If I even raise my voice in an argument that I’m somehow going to abuse our kids. She tries to argue to win fights rather than figure out the issue and resolve them.
and that when I am not in the mood to be touched it's not fair on him.
Nope. Your not entitled to touch anyone, ANYONE.
Sorry I'm chiming in here, as I only experienced a few of these problems dating but never that long term.
My take on this is you believe you support him a lot, where he rarely supports you. Though he believes you should support him even more.
One side of the coin – a lot of people go to a very dark place when depressed – the drinking doesn't help. That is to say, he may have agreed to all of that then, but now has a change of heart. Fair or not, depression and isolation gives you a lot of time to think – rarely coming to good conclusions along the way.
Other side – Maybe he always did think this way and just went along in worry about losing you.
I'm sorry you're going though all of this, really sounds rough. The guy sound unstable to an unhealthy degree. It's just my opinion, but maybe separating will do you both some good. I'm almost positive it'll improve your outlook.
Your husband is intimidated by and feels emasculated by you, but that's a him problem. I'd tell him in no uncertain terms will I be putting up with bullshit like this from him, and he can either go to marriage counseling and get it together, or he can be single. Unfortunately he's her father so you can't stop him from saying these things around her, but you can live by example, provide her opportunities, and let her know all of the time the things you love about her that make her who she is.
I'm not concerned with him texting her, I'd be more concerned with him dropping the ball as your husband.
He doesn't ask about your day? If you've eaten? Whats going on in your mind, if you're ok? These are easy, no stress no hassle off the hip questions I ask everyone that I care about.
Maybe he made a new friend that he actually enjoys talking to. But maybe remind him that instead of talking with his friends, he could try talking to his wife?
I know this could be read as “middle life crisis” but the changes are SO drastic that it could be something major like a health issue. There's been cases of people suddenly starting a shopping spree because of a tumor. Did he go to the doctor?
good on you man, hope everything works out for you.
It's not a mess. It's perfectly clear. If you get back with her just because she says she'll now have sex with you, then you are a cad. You are coercing her into having sex against her will by holding a relationship over her head. Your desire to have sex does not give you the right to manipulate her.
Did you have enough time to get over the previous relationship and are you ready for a new one?
Or is this a reaction to finally having someone who does appreciate you and isn't abusive so mentally you're being “tricked”?
Who knows, everyone is different but if you yourself think “Hey, this is going to fast” it's ok to let him know to take the foot off the gas a bit.
I did. She seems to think that expressing any sort of emotion is a bad thing. She’s the type to bottle everything up and never talk about it whereas when I’m feeling upset about something I like to immediately discuss it and try to resolve the issue. If I even raise my voice in an argument that I’m somehow going to abuse our kids. She tries to argue to win fights rather than figure out the issue and resolve them.
and that when I am not in the mood to be touched it's not fair on him.
Nope. Your not entitled to touch anyone, ANYONE.
Sorry I'm chiming in here, as I only experienced a few of these problems dating but never that long term.
My take on this is you believe you support him a lot, where he rarely supports you. Though he believes you should support him even more.
One side of the coin – a lot of people go to a very dark place when depressed – the drinking doesn't help. That is to say, he may have agreed to all of that then, but now has a change of heart. Fair or not, depression and isolation gives you a lot of time to think – rarely coming to good conclusions along the way.
Other side – Maybe he always did think this way and just went along in worry about losing you.
I'm sorry you're going though all of this, really sounds rough. The guy sound unstable to an unhealthy degree. It's just my opinion, but maybe separating will do you both some good. I'm almost positive it'll improve your outlook.
Your husband is intimidated by and feels emasculated by you, but that's a him problem. I'd tell him in no uncertain terms will I be putting up with bullshit like this from him, and he can either go to marriage counseling and get it together, or he can be single. Unfortunately he's her father so you can't stop him from saying these things around her, but you can live by example, provide her opportunities, and let her know all of the time the things you love about her that make her who she is.