Yeah like tell us ASAP, dont just drop it on us years later all of a sudden like you see in most stories or on TV.
That makes it shit for everyone. First you got the father suddenly learning they have a kid, wait too long and it may ruin their relationship with their current partner because they never signed up for someone elses kid, could lead to the kid wondering why dad never wanted them before, could lead to dad denying its their kid because why didnt they tell them years ago, etc etc etc
Is there a reason you need to spend time with any of these guys? From your post they sound like acquaintances and not actual friends you spend quality time with and are close with.
If they made you feel shittu, you have the option to ghost them.
If they are important friends, you can talk to them about how their actions made you feel and look to resolve the issue.
Don't waste your time and energy on people that don't care about you
It’s was slow fizzle down. A bunch of people of this thread have asked if she’s gained weight and she has. I’ve asked if that’s the problem but she’s never said it is. But maybe it is? Maybe she’s afraid to say it? I am the bread winner, yes. But she has a pretty decent job too. No hiding that I’ve noticed
Fist. Your niece sounds very entitled to something that never was and never meant to be hers. Don’t let Josie give up what is hers.
Second. Back off. She clearly has other issues going on that probably has nothing to do with you if she blocked her own mother. Give her the space she clearly needs.
I cannot believe this
You should havevtold him as soon as you had the test
Wtf are you thinkin?? It's his child, he has a right to know they exist
You've denied your baby a father- Shame on you!!!!!
Contact him NOW AND TELL HIM
NOT OH LETS MEET UP
NO
TELL HIM HE HAS A CHILD POINT BLANK
Yeah like tell us ASAP, dont just drop it on us years later all of a sudden like you see in most stories or on TV.
That makes it shit for everyone. First you got the father suddenly learning they have a kid, wait too long and it may ruin their relationship with their current partner because they never signed up for someone elses kid, could lead to the kid wondering why dad never wanted them before, could lead to dad denying its their kid because why didnt they tell them years ago, etc etc etc
Is there a reason you need to spend time with any of these guys? From your post they sound like acquaintances and not actual friends you spend quality time with and are close with.
If they made you feel shittu, you have the option to ghost them.
If they are important friends, you can talk to them about how their actions made you feel and look to resolve the issue.
Don't waste your time and energy on people that don't care about you
Why is this such an issue for you? Don’t say “it’s just weird” and if you say it’s cause she’s his ex then why does her being his ex make it an issue?
Agreed. Was going to say the same she remembers and knows what happened which is why she’s love bombing you.
It’s was slow fizzle down. A bunch of people of this thread have asked if she’s gained weight and she has. I’ve asked if that’s the problem but she’s never said it is. But maybe it is? Maybe she’s afraid to say it? I am the bread winner, yes. But she has a pretty decent job too. No hiding that I’ve noticed
Fist. Your niece sounds very entitled to something that never was and never meant to be hers. Don’t let Josie give up what is hers.
Second. Back off. She clearly has other issues going on that probably has nothing to do with you if she blocked her own mother. Give her the space she clearly needs.
She is respecting your relationship. Leave her alone.
Oh hell, so he is. For some reason I thought he was another 19 year old.
That makes it worse.
Oh hell, so he is. For some reason I thought he was another 19 year old.
That makes it worse.