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Date: October 29, 2022
It was either do that or be homeless. I.didnt have many options at the time but now I see being in a shelter is better than selling myself. I never meant to cheat on him and he knows how much I love him. I don't know how to make him forgive me
Well, he told me.
I mean, he has some issues, but in the end, we all do.
He's nothing out of the ordinary and told me he's acting, exaggerating the traits in order to keep this.
This reminds me of a situation with an ex. We ended up breaking it off because he needed to do a lot of work on himself before he could be with someone else in a healthy way (e.g. issues with insecurity, bottling things up, holding grudges, etc.). He swore he would get therapy.
A year later, I happened to see him and we had a catch-up. He has since gotten no therapy and I would say the gap between us had widened significantly; he said things to me I never thought he would have been capable of saying.
All this to say, I am so, so glad I didn't stick around on a hope or a wish that he would want to change himself for the better. Distance and time bring perspective, but as you typically can't have those things while you're in the middle of the situation, I suggest you try to think rationally or objectively about the life you want to live and if this person contributes towards that vision or not.
Throuple?
This heavily depends on culture. Not everyone comes from a background where this is the norm.
You are absolutely right in the context of the vast majority white, Christianity-based Western relationships. However, if you're dating a person from any of the Confucian-based, filial-piety-emphasizing cultures, natal family is usually deferred to over any created family.
I'm only commenting because I believe this may be a case of the latter. Having extensively dated interracially, and thus frequented spaces discussing them, I've seen this situation a lot. I made my peace with a certain level of it, but, fortunately, found somebody who has more Western boundaries with his family.
I do absolutely agree with you about what the OP needs to do in this situation. If they want a relationship where their created family is the priority (which is absolutely valid) they will likely need to move on from this relationship. I only spoke up because I'm afraid other people are going to go into their relationships with unrealistic expectations.
What the heck? Why? No.
You have a good life and she will add nothing to it.
If she had managed to turn her life around after going through all of that effort then yes you could see that her coming back into your life would be fine. However that is not the case and in fact, she has not changed one bit. She is still that same horrible person that “raised” you.
So why bother? She has made no effort to turn her life around so why should she be “rewarded”?
I think that for your safety you should talk to one of the woman that were there and find out what actually happened, if something serious happened then even if he's not showing signs now he could do something similar to you in the future