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Date: October 27, 2022
I'm almost fifty and I'm married.
If I were 25 and single, I would not date. At least not men.
You’re actually having to ask?
I understand where he’s coming from, but it is… kind of hard to explain. I feel this when my now wife brings up all the gushy things I texted her when we were dating.
There’s something very vulnerable about those things, a sense of being exposed. It’s not shame, because I certainly don’t regret those things, and I guarantee he doesn’t regret the spa thing.
I don’t think he wants reciprocation, and I don’t think he wants to repeat the experience — it was a spontaneous overflow of affection! Rather than “making it a thing,” try this. Use it as a platform to build your relationship on! What I mean by that is, build him up, not about the spa thing, but in other ways, internally using the spa thing as part of your motivation. Here are some examples.
Brag on him to your friends in front of them, not about the specific things he did, but rather about how much you love his character, who he is, and what he means to you.
Do something for him, not to reciprocate his spa thing to you, but rather because you can’t help but let your affection for him overflow. I’m thinking something like buying him flowers.
Bottom line: don’t withdraw from the relationship, lean into it. He asked you to not bring up the spa thing, easily done (you’re still welcome to cherish the memory though!). Ask him what he needs, communicate well, and lock arms and figure this thing out together 🙂
He sounds like a passive aggressive man child. I hope you don't have children with him. You don't deserve this treatment. Did he do anything for your birthday?
Why are you coming at everyone then? You don’t have to reply to people. Your replies make you sound like a jerk and now I have to imagine that the smoking is just the issue that pushed your SO over the edge.
Ugh. I’m so sorry.
If I may give you a tiny bit of inspiration (hopefully).
Sis, I was you. I was 23 though but straight up. I got pregnant and had a baby with a man who was similar. We broke up actually when I got pregnant (4 months) and briefly tried to make it work after she was born. Left his ass at 6 months. Moved back in with my parents and set my sights on success.
Now my daughter is 13 and her dads a low life. Living in some shit apartment he can barely afford. Daughter doesn’t want to go see him because he’s a drunk and his place is filthy. My child is in private school and wants for nothing. I’ve managed to achieve success..I own my own small company. Have two employees. 5 acres on a small farm. Married af. Like. Yep. Shit was hard but so so so worth it. I’m so glad I got out with my baby girl when I did. I believe in you.
Two words: break up. She wants to have her cake and eat it too. She wants to mess around with other dudes and come home to you. You’re the fall back, the safe guy. Do yourself a favor and move on. Go find a girl who truly loves and respects you!