Sounds like you've been ignoring red flags for too long. This is a man who does not seem to want to take responisibilty for failure, and probablty needs anger therapy.
It sucks when ex’s can’t get over a relationship that’s over, and you need to tell her you’re not okay with them still talking to her, even if she is convinced that she won’t have feelings for them anymore. Unless they have a child together, I would not be ok with contact anymore, just because it would signal to me that she isn’t fully over it and that means her attention isn’t on her new relationship 100%. If she really isn’t okay with you wanting this, it would confirm to me that she cares about the ex a little too much and more than her new relationship. I hope that she can hear you out and understand what you mean when you say it. Make sure to reassure that you love her and that it’s just not comfortable to you to see her interact with the ex because it makes you feel less important than him/her.
I say life is not a game of tit for tat. You’re in no way ready for a lifelong partnership. Besides, you can do what millions of women have done throughout time: combine your surname with his surname. Same with any future children. Hopefully, you wait another 10 to 15 years to mature past juvenile thinking. I detect that. you;re way younger than you say. Possibly 12 or 15.
Sounds like you've been ignoring red flags for too long. This is a man who does not seem to want to take responisibilty for failure, and probablty needs anger therapy.
Op, do you have a backup plan for who raises you daughter when you go to prison and your ex gets deported?
Watch porn
What job does he do that requires so much time? Does he like it?
I wouldn’t be surprised if he already has a side chick. He just wants permission, and of course a goddam threesome
Surely this depends on how frequently you see each other over dates?
Let’s say you work close, and meet up after work 4days a week for an hour of drinks. In 2 weeks you’ll hit the 9 day mark
If you do a full day date every Saturday, that’s 2 months before the deed is done at its fastest.
If connection is important, that’s what matters. Don’t put arbitrary rules on it
It sucks when ex’s can’t get over a relationship that’s over, and you need to tell her you’re not okay with them still talking to her, even if she is convinced that she won’t have feelings for them anymore. Unless they have a child together, I would not be ok with contact anymore, just because it would signal to me that she isn’t fully over it and that means her attention isn’t on her new relationship 100%. If she really isn’t okay with you wanting this, it would confirm to me that she cares about the ex a little too much and more than her new relationship. I hope that she can hear you out and understand what you mean when you say it. Make sure to reassure that you love her and that it’s just not comfortable to you to see her interact with the ex because it makes you feel less important than him/her.
Get security. Some off duty cops will do security work.
Uh you dump him
Shit people do shit things. You just found out he is actually a shit person. Get away from him and forget him as fast as you can.
Your post is unclear. Have you asked her to go with you but she wants to stay, or do you want to go alone?
I say life is not a game of tit for tat. You’re in no way ready for a lifelong partnership. Besides, you can do what millions of women have done throughout time: combine your surname with his surname. Same with any future children. Hopefully, you wait another 10 to 15 years to mature past juvenile thinking. I detect that. you;re way younger than you say. Possibly 12 or 15.