Some people are only “remorseful” when they get caught. If you genuinely care about your partner and still somehow end up cheating on them, you wouldn't be able to just sweep that secret under the rug and keep going like nothing happened.
tell her you also want to sleep with a woman, see how she reacts, then tell her thats exactly how she made you feel, guarantee she'll dismiss your feelings either way
If you are ready to seek a life partner, not just someone who fills those roles without a title.
Tell him what you want, that you would like that with him also. Tell him it is his choice if he wants to continue, and if he doesn't, you two will discuss appropriate arrangements for moving, be it moving into a two bedroom and being roomates or both of you having seperate living or sleeping arragements.
Also, I think it's great you are standing by your boundaries and that he is respecting them.
A few nights ago me and my gf (both 17) were at her house drinking and watching a movie
What's the legal drinking age where you live?
Regardless, go get tested and find out. Because you never know if she puts in more than usual one day and you're a dead man.
Well it worked for Genghis Khan…
Do not move. If you move your family then it will be almost impossible to move back.
Some people are only “remorseful” when they get caught. If you genuinely care about your partner and still somehow end up cheating on them, you wouldn't be able to just sweep that secret under the rug and keep going like nothing happened.
What??? And it’s totally okay for him to fuck someone else so quickly and then when she fucks someone it’s illegal?
Why are you wasting your time on someone who doesn't respect you? It is nice that you are so caring and capable of love, but you are being a doormat.
That doesn't explain the lack of contribution in the household.
tell her you also want to sleep with a woman, see how she reacts, then tell her thats exactly how she made you feel, guarantee she'll dismiss your feelings either way
If you are ready to seek a life partner, not just someone who fills those roles without a title.
Tell him what you want, that you would like that with him also. Tell him it is his choice if he wants to continue, and if he doesn't, you two will discuss appropriate arrangements for moving, be it moving into a two bedroom and being roomates or both of you having seperate living or sleeping arragements.
Also, I think it's great you are standing by your boundaries and that he is respecting them.
Your boyfriend needs to have a sleep study done. If you cares about you and your sanity he should be willing to do this.
He needs to see his doctor and get a referral to a sleep lab
You saw his texts. He can’t even make a decision and he’s been wishy washy this entire time.