“To any women on here, would you be okay with becoming a free therapist for a guy that's avoiding therapy for some reason?”
That's what I'm reading.
Regardless of whether they're a dude or not, if someone is seeking out a relationship to “fix themselves”, it's a red flag. You explaining what you meant below doesn't make it any better either. Invest in a therapist instead of forcing your issues onto another person.
Ez. The father tells her not to say anything to you about it. If she needs to.address it , she cones to him. She is still in a position to respect you. My aunt and uncle were very happy 17 yrs apart . Have a great relationship.
And just how can you tell that that's what they're doing?
I think all suicide attempts need to be taken seriously. If it was a serious attempt, obviously the victim needs help.
If it was an attempt at manipulation, the response shouldn't change. I remember when a woman from the Samaritans (charity with a suicide hotline in the UK) came to talk at school. She said they often had prank calls in the summer holidays when kids were bored. They always took them seriously, because who knows, one day one of those kids might need their help and will be reluctant to call if they were brushed off when playing their prank.
A manipulator threatening suicide needs to see that the suicide threats will be treated seriously and that that will involve hospitals and psychiatrists rather than the person they are trying to manipulate yielding to them.
After a year she should be open to putting the crib/ bed next to her in your room or at least open to try it for a night. It sounds more like your wife is avoiding you and doesn’t really like you. It’s time to have that conversation about your marriage with your wife.
I wanted to give him service.
What does this mean?
“To any women on here, would you be okay with becoming a free therapist for a guy that's avoiding therapy for some reason?”
That's what I'm reading.
Regardless of whether they're a dude or not, if someone is seeking out a relationship to “fix themselves”, it's a red flag. You explaining what you meant below doesn't make it any better either. Invest in a therapist instead of forcing your issues onto another person.
he keeps dodging the gym so it seems like hes not making any progress
Ez. The father tells her not to say anything to you about it. If she needs to.address it , she cones to him. She is still in a position to respect you. My aunt and uncle were very happy 17 yrs apart . Have a great relationship.
There’s no fool like an old fool.
Nope, should I?
This is why people warn about age gap relationships
Yes, I know what it means
But wouldn’t you say messaging them is not a big deal? Likes and comments aren’t enough?
And just how can you tell that that's what they're doing?
I think all suicide attempts need to be taken seriously. If it was a serious attempt, obviously the victim needs help.
If it was an attempt at manipulation, the response shouldn't change. I remember when a woman from the Samaritans (charity with a suicide hotline in the UK) came to talk at school. She said they often had prank calls in the summer holidays when kids were bored. They always took them seriously, because who knows, one day one of those kids might need their help and will be reluctant to call if they were brushed off when playing their prank.
A manipulator threatening suicide needs to see that the suicide threats will be treated seriously and that that will involve hospitals and psychiatrists rather than the person they are trying to manipulate yielding to them.
Just block him everywhere. Don’t answer calls or texts from unknown numbers. He is already dumped. You don’t have to do anything else.
I like the idea and it might work. But even if she uses a vpn or something to hide who she is, I'm pretty sure the ex still knows who told her.
After a year she should be open to putting the crib/ bed next to her in your room or at least open to try it for a night. It sounds more like your wife is avoiding you and doesn’t really like you. It’s time to have that conversation about your marriage with your wife.