Ok, it is urgent for her because she is a mail order bride and needs to remarry in Canada. You should know that these people are essentially part of a human trafficking ring, and most of the money goes to a crime syndicate. The reason she is being so insistent is because they want to remarry her. If you don’t resolve this quickly, it’s very likely you’ll have an “accident”, and she’ll be a widow eligible for remarriage.
Look, at the end of the day, even if you care about someone, you can't compromise your own mental and emotional health for theirs. Like the old adage “you have to put on your own oxygen mask before you can save anyone else”, when it comes to relationships you cannot be in a healthy one if you prioritize them over yourself 24/7.
There is no good or right time to break up with someone, and he needs to handle his own mental health. It is not your responsibility, or your fault if he resorts to self harming because you break things off. You aren't bullying him, you aren't being cruel, you are simply making the best decision for yourself. And hopefully, he will start making the best decisions for himself once he is past the grieving stage. You aren't his therapist, and the kindest decision you can make for yourself and him is to not continue putting either of you through a relationship that isn't working.
You called her monkey and made a point to mention how ‘ugly’ she is, as if that would make her criticism of you more or less valid and how hot you actually are. I say again, you all need to grow up
Yeah for sure break it off
She would still be doing this stuff if you hadn't snooped
Leave her for the ex so he can have more fun with her before he dumps her as well
Good chance she will start suffering major regret then
Enjoy
Ok, it is urgent for her because she is a mail order bride and needs to remarry in Canada. You should know that these people are essentially part of a human trafficking ring, and most of the money goes to a crime syndicate. The reason she is being so insistent is because they want to remarry her. If you don’t resolve this quickly, it’s very likely you’ll have an “accident”, and she’ll be a widow eligible for remarriage.
Isn’t harder an more painful to stay in Limbo in this half-life OP
Isn’t harder an more painful to stay in Limbo in this half-life OP
Look, at the end of the day, even if you care about someone, you can't compromise your own mental and emotional health for theirs. Like the old adage “you have to put on your own oxygen mask before you can save anyone else”, when it comes to relationships you cannot be in a healthy one if you prioritize them over yourself 24/7.
There is no good or right time to break up with someone, and he needs to handle his own mental health. It is not your responsibility, or your fault if he resorts to self harming because you break things off. You aren't bullying him, you aren't being cruel, you are simply making the best decision for yourself. And hopefully, he will start making the best decisions for himself once he is past the grieving stage. You aren't his therapist, and the kindest decision you can make for yourself and him is to not continue putting either of you through a relationship that isn't working.
Best of luck to you.
Dump his ass, he already threatened to dump you, drop the Uno reverse card!
Communicate how you feel to him
You called her monkey and made a point to mention how ‘ugly’ she is, as if that would make her criticism of you more or less valid and how hot you actually are. I say again, you all need to grow up